Elantracey: hmmmmmm I like your dream

MizMyColi: Sounds more like you

Danhumprey:

Tallesty1: lols...... Because the post is about marriage.

Tallesty1: Bro which one is passing, the car, the wheel-barrow or the pusher

Danhumprey: All of them!

MizMyColi: Not really. I guess I've unconsciously noticed your style of writ in this section.

Tallesty1: Really? What do you av to say about is? Is it good, archaic, terrible or absurd?

Certainly not the last three

MizMyColi: Certainly not the last three

Tallesty1:
Two soldiers are out in a battle field, fighting side by side, dealing with whatever may come their way. They got each others back. This is what I call mariage. They don't have to look back because they each trust the person there.

Tannie:

This part interested me. This is how marriages should be, 2people who look out for themselves, trust theirselves, believe in themselves whether good or bad and other things will go smoothly.

Once again bro (I'm not brotherzoning you), you didn't disappoint me.

cococandy:
It is hilarious when women talk about being equal, or man being the head and women being the neck or some other part of the body. I don't need a marriage where someone is the head and the other person is the neck. That is really not necessary. Why fight for position when it is just us? We have different responsibilities in this partnership and she needs me as much as I need her.
Two soldiers are out in a battle field, fighting side by side dealing with whatever may come their way. They got each others back. This is what I call mariage. They don't have to look back because they each trust the person there.



You don't believe in equality yet you typed this.
How's it different?
As far as I'm concerned that equality right there.
They are side by side and back to back.
Equal partners in the union.
Doesn't necessarily negate the concept of leadership.that's what some people don't get.


I agree with your post except the lust and friendship only part.
Depends on what you call love anyway.
Most people think lust is love too.

Tallesty1: We have different reponsibilities in this partnership and she needs me as much as I need her.......This line will help you to understand what I'm talking about.

beeevan: I suppose men are the ones that understands marriage perfectly # Yimuest Yimu# .

cococandy: Equality has never been about having the same responsibilities
It's about each partner having the same level of respect despite their roles in the organisation.

I think you may have misunderstood what some people mean when they say equality.
Hence u type a post that agrees totally with what equlity means and still say you're not for equality.
No wahala sha
I get your point.
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Tallesty1: I said I don't need a marriage where husband is the head and wife is the neck. The head cannot connect and control other parts of the body without the neck and neck on the other hand is worthless without the head. It is not about being equal, it is about understand your responsibilty. If you do what you are supposed to do and I do mine then why should we argue and tussle for power??

Tallesty1: After an analytical survey, I have come to realise that most women do not understand what marriage is about. This misinformed set of people think that marriage is love and laughter, flowers, jewels, pampering and a life made forever beautiful. They imagine living with a benignant man that will forever shower them with gifts, favours and surprises. They believe there is going to be alota romance, sexx, sexx and plenty of sexx. But fact is, marriage as such does not exist. Nothing is forever beautiful.

Alot of married women ended up disappointed after their marriage simply because the life they imagined exists only in their imagination. Their expectation for love and romance was too much. Some turn down genuine husbands because they want to fall in love first. As stupid as they are, they have fail to realise that love is indefinable. What they think is love is just a momentary nice feeling.

I don't really need that type love in my marriage, I prefer friendship and Lust. Love is a nice feeling, I know but it has done alot of harm, broken many hearts and taken lives to the extent that I now need an alternative

It is hilarious when women talk about being equal, or man being the head and women being the neck or some other part of the body. I don't need a marriage where someone is the head and the other person is the neck. That is really not necessary. Why fight for position when it is just us? We have different responsibilities in this partnership and she needs me as much as I need her.

What I want is very simple, picture this to understand me.

Two soldiers are out in a battle field, fighting side by side, dealing with whatever may come their way. They got each others back. This is what I call marriage. They don't have to look back because they each trust the person there.

The enemies in marriage might be sickness, bad times, foes, poverty or even death but still in it, watching each others back, fighting with everything in them and If the bond is a strong one, then neither of them will have to face the foes alone. True love is not seen in Romeo and Juliet that died together but in Grandpa and Grandma that grow old together.

The good times we shall enjoy together and endure the hard times together because we are determined to make it work.

beeevan: I suppose men are the ones that understands marriage perfectly # Yimuest Yimu# .

hispinkolo: Your first few sentences ruined the whole write up..you need to learn how to be balanced
You are not married,you are not a married woman so you can't speak for them
Good luck in your quest though