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Re: He Didnt Mention Me In His Acknowledgment! by Nobody: 8:06pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
hardbody:...tru...lemme sight mine as example....i duely acknwleged my HOD,my level adviser,my supervisor....i didnt mentn any lecturers name except dos ones...i just sed 'to all d teachn n non-teachn staff'....i also acknwldgd my parent n my siblings n dats all....i rememba acknwldgn all my friends n classmates but neva mentioned anybodys name....back to d topic,u knw i sed wat d guy did was so unfair....mayb we shud nt jump to conclusn n strt assuming just like dat.....dis guy might also av his reasons.... |
Re: He Didnt Mention Me In His Acknowledgment! by mployer(m): 8:19pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
Op is confused. She penned down several reasons she doesn't deserve the acknowledge yet she went on longing for it. Acknowledging you will amount to telling lies and I'm sure you are not dating a lier. Stay with the truth and work around it. |
Re: He Didnt Mention Me In His Acknowledgment! by Felixjude(m): 8:37pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
One thing with overly ambitious and people focused people is that they hate to be distracted from their focus even from the ones they love. The guy in question seems disciplined and falls into this category. For him, he may just be doing the needful without necessarily omitting your name on purpose, while you are there crying for nothing. For him to accept you back after the split shows he truly loves you...to think that he even has options. Now worry less about that, concentrate on being a good companion and partner on his way to huge success. Goodluck! |
Re: He Didnt Mention Me In His Acknowledgment! by shizzle11(m): 9:09pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
aisha2:Op that's all I have to say to you verbatim @bolded aisha please feel free to charge me for plagiarism |
Re: He Didnt Mention Me In His Acknowledgment! by fluffyp: 9:27pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
aisha2: Go and work on your insecurity before you commit murder suicide one day.. Three gbosas for you |
Re: He Didnt Mention Me In His Acknowledgment! by Nobody: 9:37pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
Ceasar1: Let's be honesty here, You deserve an acknowledgment. It doesn't matter what you did to him but as partners now, he ought to acknowledge you as a pillar of support in one way or the other.Was thinking the same thing, since they are back together. |
Re: He Didnt Mention Me In His Acknowledgment! by Nobody: 9:55pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
IfyAngela: Yap, he ought to. # How was your day? |
Re: He Didnt Mention Me In His Acknowledgment! by DukeNija(m): 10:01pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
Kanwulia: It is okay to feel hurt. You too mauch! We dey ya back like mount Sinai! 1 Like |
Re: He Didnt Mention Me In His Acknowledgment! by IDEApro(m): 11:39pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
Why will a sensible person acknowledge a ''girlfriend'' in an academic work? Not that you played a spectacular role worthy of mention. Op, you are a disturbance and I suppose that guy knows what he's bargaining. 1 Like |
Re: He Didnt Mention Me In His Acknowledgment! by Nobody: 7:43am On Aug 11, 2014 |
Ceasar1:She has to try and get past it though. Had a great day yesterday |
Re: He Didnt Mention Me In His Acknowledgment! by dBard: 9:50am On Aug 11, 2014 |
aisha2: Lemme take a timeout to acknowledge u f making so much sense. 10000likes. last paragraph is a gem of an advice |
Re: He Didnt Mention Me In His Acknowledgment! by Amhappy(f): 5:46pm On Aug 11, 2014 |
If i were you OP,i wont expect any acknowledgement. He has forgiven you but may have given you the promotion on trial. Do not go back to your old self. |
Re: He Didnt Mention Me In His Acknowledgment! by vanitty: 6:43pm On Aug 11, 2014 |
Ask him bluntly why you were not mentioned. That is the only way this will be resolved. If you feel entitled, so be it, talk to your mr. So many things appear petty to people, but to me it is a huge deal and I am sure it is vice versa. There is an evil streak in the man if he told you he did that mainly because you did not support him. You need to watch that. So many times, I am sure most have not entirely supported a decision made by their better half but when it turns out well, the chorus was ( me and my wife/husband) One thing I know is if we are treated the way we deserve at times in relationship, infact there would be none Sort this out now All the best! 3 Likes |
Re: He Didnt Mention Me In His Acknowledgment! by touchmeder: 9:15pm On Aug 11, 2014 |
Its a good thing you let the issue go. Its not every battle that must be won. You said you guys made up at the tail end, he could have still added you but heyho life goes on. If I were you one day I will briefly touch on it and just say the tin do you. I won't raise dust about it or begin crying or sulking. It will be good to know why he did so but again don't lose sleep over it. I hope u don't have a vindictive boyfriend. Goodluck |
Re: He Didnt Mention Me In His Acknowledgment! by soulglo: 9:37pm On Aug 11, 2014 |
divalishis: I started dating this guy x years ago. A couple of months into the relationship, he told me he wanted to further his studies. Well, I wasn't in full support. And a short while latter after he started fully, I became very insecure as it was a long distance relationship. You still have not learned your lesson. You were not supportive of him. In fact you caused him a lot of pain. Take it as a lesson. |
Re: He Didnt Mention Me In His Acknowledgment! by clemmonce(m): 11:44pm On Aug 11, 2014 |
Ceasar1: Let's be honesty here, You deserve an acknowledgment. It doesn't matter what you did to him but as partners now, he ought to acknowledge you as a pillar of support in one way or the other.must you insult people?. The way you reason a matter will be quite from the way another person will reason it. you are the one that needs rest. 1 Like |
Re: He Didnt Mention Me In His Acknowledgment! by angiemartinez(f): 10:22am On Aug 12, 2014 |
i thought am the only one that saw it. hope it continues sha crackhaus: |
Re: He Didnt Mention Me In His Acknowledgment! by 2goodbobo(m): 3:14pm On Aug 13, 2014 |
go and ask him the damn question not us |
Re: He Didnt Mention Me In His Acknowledgment! by Lenzz(m): 1:45am On Aug 14, 2014 |
aisha2: Solid... I wish most women would see ds submission and try to play by it. Trust, affection, loyalty and ultimately love are all earned thru unwavering committment, unalloyed support, nd sheer sacrifice. These offshoots of labour nd hardwork have not and has never been served on a platter. Our women must come around this reality nd make necessary adjustments. I'm thrilled a woman made this salient observation. This is 2014 pls Nice one aisha. Kudos 1 Like |
Re: He Didnt Mention Me In His Acknowledgment! by Nobody: 3:14am On Aug 14, 2014 |
divalishis: I started dating this guy x years ago. A couple of months into the relationship, he told me he wanted to further his studies. Well, I wasn't in full support. And a short while latter after he started fully, I became very insecure as it was a long distance relationship. I feel very sorry for this young man Honestly I am worried for him His first hunch was the right one A woman that didn't support you furthering your education and did everything in her power to sabotage all your efforts. You get rid of her and stand firmly on that for two solid years despite her pleas and all of a sudden you had your guards down and allowed her manipulate her ways back into your life and here she is on NL reporting you to us for not acknowledging her in your sweat that she didn't want to come to fruition. GOd please save this young man from this woman Open his eyes o Lord to see what we see If it's juju that she used to tie you,I scatter it in Jesus name Give him the strength to say no to this obsessive conniving female that may destroy him eventually when it doesn't go her way This I pray in Jesus Mighty name Amen |
Re: He Didnt Mention Me In His Acknowledgment! by Nobody: 3:34am On Aug 14, 2014 |
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Re: He Didnt Mention Me In His Acknowledgment! by Nobody: 3:37am On Aug 14, 2014 |
aisha2: Go and work on your insecurity before you commit murder suicide one day. Maybe the man is even using idea to tell her to step and she has refused to see it Op , gather up your dignity and move on Is he the only man in your hometown Giving you the benefit of the doubt,If indeed you have learned from your mistakes,go ye and practice it on another man Too much has happened here Obviously the man hasn't forgotten and perhaps forgiven the pain you caused him And he has shown you that Your sins obviously outweigh whatever good you think you are to him and the bobo has spoken it out loud and clear. |
Re: He Didnt Mention Me In His Acknowledgment! by divalishis: 9:42am On Aug 17, 2014 |
It's just so amazing How people feel they have the right to call me names, to point hands in self righteous anger. So How are you any different from my 'abusive' self? You would rather see the cup as half empty than half full. You would rather fester in the details of the past than what is going on now. If men were God...I wonder what would happen. Maybe you people should leave some of your studies on abuse and pore over the True meaning of being sadistic and vindictive. #sigh 1 Like |
Re: He Didnt Mention Me In His Acknowledgment! by pickabeau1: 11:12am On Aug 17, 2014 |
divalishis: It's just so amazing How people feel they have the right to call me names, to point hands in self righteous anger. So How are you any different from my 'abusive' self? I went to your profile n noticed u joined 2010 You should be used to NL. Pick the relevant posts and leave the rest 1 Like |
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