EfemenaXY:

I agree with the bolded and about how easy it is to misconstrue words, hence my asking him to apologize. That notwithstanding, in cases like these, it takes more than mere will power to overcome such thoughts. Therapy may not be an out-of-place suggestion.

You forget that would be him admitting to wrongdoing when the only crime he committed is not writing well.

All he has to do is to rephrase the words and explain what he meant which he has tried to do in subsequent comments. As for will to overcome the thoughts. As long as he doesn't dwell on it and he registers it in his brain that staring at a kid and having an hardon is very wrong. He would be fine.

satope1: You forget that would be him admitting to wrongdoing when the only crime he committed is not writing well.

All he has to do is to rephrase the words and explain what he meant which he has tried to do in subsequent comments. As for will to overcome the thoughts. As long as he doesn't dwell on it and he registers it in his brain that staring at a kid and having an hardon is very wrong. He would be fine.

But that's just it. It shouldn't even be happening in the first place nor should he have to consciously force his brain not to dwell on such sights. It should be automatic. That's why I think a few therapy sessions wouldn't be amiss.

My opinion though... (sigh)

EfemenaXY:

But that's just it. It shouldn't even be happening in the first place nor should he have to consciously force his brain not to dwell on such sights. It should be automatic. That's why I think a few therapy sessions wouldn't be amiss.

My opinion though... (sigh)

If you think that would help him. Fine.

This was what i thought at first too but when he stubbornly and casually made it seem that pedophilia is a normal thing, then the matter pass normal thing

He was given a lot of time to clarify his position but still went along his path

satope1: The topic brought about that line of thought. I guess he was trying to rationalise keeping a kid dressed with that although very poor at use of words and arrangements. That's why words are never to be taken out of context else they convey different meanings.


More like looking at two goats mating and that view conjuring a new image in your head and this gets you turned on. I bet we all know he isn't turned on by the goats but the visual simulation going on in his head. That's why you snap out of it when that occurs. The brain is a complex thing and you don't allow it fester on ill thoughts and don't go on staring at a kid's body. It is irresponsible.

From age Four I think,that child would have begun to discover him/herself a little. ..no more dressing up in front of strangers or going about unclad.

SAMBARRY: sexism alert!


What is good for the goose is equally good for the gander.

Anyway at age 4 when kidd say mummy don't bath for me I can bath by myself or they start covering their unclothedness especially at 4year+ then you should know they already know their left from right, wrong from right and are conscious of their bodies

in this case, Not all that is good for the goose is equally good for the gander. Raping a boy is rare but the girls, fair meat! Some kids know whats good from whats right without them being conscious of their body. Besides, what does a kid know abouut being wrong and right? Many kids dont realize they were raped until they are older. The awareness to rape is just being rampant, many girls have been molested. My advise, clothe your baby girl up sharperly