Nashville: Well, she just needs to find a new guy to cheat with. But this time she must make sure the new guy is "tried, tested and trusted". TTT.

Abeg that woman will continue cheating for a looong time!

Long time sir!
How are and yours?


I reserve my comment as per the subject matter of this thread.

am sure she knew the aftermath of what she did. hmmm, her saving grace will be for her hubby not to find out cos that will be the beginning of their seperation maybe not physically but emotionally. it is easier to forgive but not forget. God will see her through.

This is what happens when women have unrealistic expectations from men.

You want a man that's harworking+romantic+sex machine +born again christian+doesnt stay out late+doesnt cheat+spoils you with trips abroad+cuddles you when you sleep+doesnt have any bad or nasty habit+ all other perfect qualities!!!

If such a man existed he shouldn't belong to one woman. He should be on loan to all women to hire when needed.

This woman has a good man and yet it wasn't enought for her. At least not she knows the grass is never greener on the other side.

[quote author=iwakolewa]A colleague of mine shared this story of hers with me,and I thought to share with other people too,most especially women.

She's been married for close to four years,they were crazy,madly in love and I can attest to that,she no dey gree make we hear word for office always going and on about the hubby,at least,it's obvious she loves the husband.

But then,they had issues,she was never intimately satisfied with him,she said she always complained to him , she as a young wife,wanted a romantic husband, who will show her love in and out of the bed,kisses,hugs and public display of affection, but the guy just doesn't know how to,all he does is to buy her gifts,buy gifts for their son,not stay out late and try as much as possible to spend time with his wife and son....but she said she wanted more...

Our se.x life was very dry and boring

she said, when they were dating, there was no limits to their intimate adventures, and so it was part of the reasons she fell in love with him,but once they got married,he was always tired,she had no reason to believe he was cheating, but felt he no longer cared for her or love her.
She would complain and try out so many things but he just won't pay attention to all she did, she decided to start watching porn,she became addicted to it,he even caught her severally, and he didn't say anything,she said she started feeling starved of se.x ,she was frustrated.

Three years after she was married,a new guy moved into the flat upstairs, very fine guy she said,but also married with more kids than two,they ran into each other at a super market, and exchanged contacts,and then became very good friends, the guy was having many issues with his wife,she felt there was something wrong with the wife cos the guy seemed like a perfect gentle man,she said the guy used to complain of so many things about his wife...that she wasn't romantic, she didn't like going out,she didn't like se.x,they could go for months and not have se.x....so she thought to herself, wetin I dey find,another woman dey take am do shakara.

And then their relationship moved from the friendzone to something else, they had shared many intimate talks,she found out she was very attracted to him and she liked him very much,they started going out,first date, second date,third date,she was doing all this with a lot of guilt as she had never cheated on her husband, but,she kept hearing from everyone that if her husband couldn't satisfy her,she needed to help herself.

Then one day they planned together not to go to work,she dropped her son at the daycare and went back home to look se.xy for him,he went back home after making sure that his wife had gone to her place of business.
They met in her apartment. ...and what happened next, you all know...as we all opened our mouths in the office and we were looking shocked....she shocked us further by bursting into tears. ....

She said she had never been so ashamed and disappointed in her life, the guy had the smallest member she had ever seen,and that he he didn't last up to 30 seconds.
The deed had already been done,she said it was as if God wanted to punish her or give her a reason not to cheat again...

choi,my hand dey pain me o..will be back,abeg,make una no yab me as una like,it's a true confession from someone I know,and she doesn't mind me sharing it here. ..[/quote


pinnochio u sabi lie

Stolen kisses taste better!!! The woman was just unlucky to have done it with a small wiwie man. Next time she should look for a bigger cucumber to cheat with. I have spark and ayam out!8-)

i read this OP since yesterday and till now i still don't know whatever to say about that woman. I PITY THE HUSBAND PITIFULLY
wait till a fully endowed neighbour moves in.

this is what happens when u grow up reading/ living mills and b instead of reading / learning from it

Choi!
This story is very familiar o
But the good news is that the lady learnt her lesson.
Hopefully she will never stray again.
She better make sure Oga never finds out

davidif:

was that on nairaland?

yes of course

SAMBARRY: yes of course

what thread was it?

davidif:

what thread was it?

check around family section I can't remember the title

And it had to happen in her husbands house....chai double insult

davidif:

what thread was it?

https://www.nairaland.com/1870225/it-ok-date-married-man#25705030

iwakolewa: So,what brought forth her story, a lady was going on and on about how her hubby no longer satisfy her and how she's shy to talk about it and she's considering cheating,that was how we started arguing and the story started. ..

Now,she says,when her hubby was on leave it was then she saw the man she married, he had never been on a very long leave like that before, and so all the things she used to complain about just disappeared, it was as if someone talked to him..now she said she went to church and confessed to God and also asked for forgiveness, that she will never cheat on her husband ever again.

What do you guys make of this?

is that you on your profile? And are u still sinlgle? Cos u are a very beautiful lady and I'd love to know u

Lesson1: man wey dey complain of his wife to another woman, and woman wey dey complain of her husband to another man, na ALAKOBA dem be. Run away from them

Lesson2: no reason is justified enough to cheat onyour spouse. If body dey catch you, drink vallium 5 make u for sleep wella.

Lesson3: it is amazing how we so much want to do right after we have done wrong.

Lesson4: the grass is always greener on the other side. But the problem is that; the other side is never defined because even where you are, is the other side of where somebody else is.

Lesson5: avoid any act you'll regret later.

Lesson6: whatever happens in the bedroom, stays in the bedroom. if it must go out, it must end up in the office of a professional in marital issues and nowhere else. Certainly not in the office.

Lesson7: if sex is what your relationship is hinged on, then you are on a long thing because that drive in your partner will not always be there. I wonder what you'll hold on to, when the drive begin to decline with time..

...................

lrguru: is that you on your profile? And are u still sinlgle? Cos u are a very beautiful lady and I'd love to know u

Thanks,I'm not single.

What she did was unacceptable.

Why do ppl watch po.rn when they have insatiable desires that aren't being met? It doesn't help the situation. If your partner isn't fulfilling the role, the next natural step is fantasizing about and then seeking out the someone who will. And so begins the saga...!

if this story is true.. i laugh doubly

reminds me of some posters here who threaten to have a boytoy on standby if their hubby focks up
Na so e easy

i hope she is not pregnant though...

In life if u start a task n fail, persevere and try again... hope she used protection...

pickabeau1:


if this story is true.. i laugh doubly

reminds me of some posters here who threaten to have a boytoy on standby if their hubby focks up
Na so e easy

i hope she is not pregnant though...

In life if u start a task n fail, persevere and try again... hope she used protection...

even in this her case?

Godmystrength: even in this her case?

Madam... what can i say

Are u not aware the mainstream view for some is that if ur man cheats on you, cheat on him..there are available men waiting on the corner to be activated like remote control.. though in this case there is no male cheating.. the principle still applies..

She should keep up the good fight

Try Try Try again... she is wailing and gnashing cos na one chance she enter

pickabeau1:

Madam... what can i say

Are u not aware the mainstream view for some is that if ur man cheats on you, cheat on him..there are available men waiting on the corner to be activated like remote control.. though in this case there is no male cheating.. the principle still applies..

She should keep up the good fight

Try Try Try again... she is wailing and gnashing cos na one chance she enter

so true.

Human dilemma.

coogar:

to be fair to her, it's safer in her flat. she's the one downstairs. worst case scenario, the neighbour has the back door as the escape route.

if she had gone upstairs, it then means she would have to jump from the first floor if something happens. this woman is smart! i think they should make her the NDLEA boss.

this got me laughing kwa kwa kwa like a duck in the office.. still cant stop laughing!

Hmmmm...,na wa o!
som women r just soooo shameless;cheatin on ur hubby is a terrible tin 2do not 2tink of doin it in ur matrimonial hOme,on ur matrimonial bEd...haba!!!
One tin is so sure;u can't eat ur cake n stil av it...God elp her...

cococandy: It's like you don't know what stolen moments are like.
Condoms may be forgotten in the hurry to do it before oga comes back.

Again not speaking from experience

Menh....Especially if you haven't done it for over 4months,come to think of it,is this how you do your own smooching ¿...