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Should I Let My Wife Cheat? by bigass(f): 2:19am On Aug 26, 2014 |
OK, me and my wife are in our early 30's and have been together since high school. We lost our virginity to each other and neither of us have ever been with anyone else. A while back she told me about a guy she met at work and admitted being flirtatious with him. She felt she needed to tell me. I let it go. The other day, she forgot to log out of her email and I ran across some emails that she had exchanged with this guy. Nothing really bad, just some flirty emails. I confronted her about this and she admitted to being curious about how it must be like to have sex with another man. When I pressed, she admitted her intent was to eventually have sex with him. She is very attractive and I love her a lot. We have 3 kids and have had a happy life together. I must admit, that I also have wondered about this, but have never tried to explore. I don't know if I should let her cheat, so that she can get this out of her system? Will she going to continue? Possibly ruin our lives? Any advice? culled from yahoo |
Re: Should I Let My Wife Cheat? by Nobody: 2:25am On Aug 26, 2014 |
Is he sick? Cheating is just like hard drugs , when you start its very difficult to stop , didn't he even think , what if he find him more interesting ?? What wrong with the woman self ? it even sounds like she's in control of the home , smh 4 Likes |
Re: Should I Let My Wife Cheat? by bigass(f): 2:37am On Aug 26, 2014 |
What good could come out of your WIFE sleeping with another man? This is a completely selfish act on her part and the whole situation is disrespectful to you, your marraige and your children. So sorry your wife didn't get to sow her wild oats but she's the one who said yes, she's the one who walks down the aisle, and she's the one who took the wedding vows. Honestly, she needs to grow up and know that nothing good could come out of this. Sit down for a minute and really think about what you know your wife is already doing. Does any of her actions not hurt or anger you? Things have already gone to far and I can only see her actually going ahead and sleeping with this guy, if she already hasn't. Cheating is cheating and if she wants to sleep around, then she needs to pack it up and hit the road. Think about your children and the examples that are being set before them. This will ruin your marraige and her flirty emails and actions have already set the ruins into motion. If you do "let her cheat" who's to say it stops at this guy? What if she wants it to be more than a one time thing? Just think about what you're actually asking and look at the consequences to all involved. This is not a healthy marraige at this point. Good luck! |
Re: Should I Let My Wife Cheat? by AtheistD(m): 2:39am On Aug 26, 2014 |
That is the problem with marrying a virgin. At some point they will want to sample other partners 4 Likes |
Re: Should I Let My Wife Cheat? by Tallesty1(m): 2:45am On Aug 26, 2014 |
Elantracey: Is he sick? Cheating is just like hard drugs , when you start its very difficult to stop , didn't he even think , what if he find him more interesting ?? What wrong with the woman self ? it even sounds like she's in control of the home , smhShe is cheating already, you mustn't have sex to cheat. |
Re: Should I Let My Wife Cheat? by Nobody: 2:48am On Aug 26, 2014 |
Tallesty1: She is cheating already, you mustn't have sex to cheat.yeah right . |
Re: Should I Let My Wife Cheat? by Onlinebizexpert(m): 3:13am On Aug 26, 2014 |
Seems dis man dey watch too much Korean film A cheating spouse has no place in a home period |
Re: Should I Let My Wife Cheat? by ayogabriel: 6:26am On Aug 26, 2014 |
Let us say she has sex with this guy, and he is better than the husband, he explored her and found new edges in her, ... |
Re: Should I Let My Wife Cheat? by Nobody: 6:31am On Aug 26, 2014 |
culled from YAHOO, this story def ain't from naija...that's practising open marriage now. |
Re: Should I Let My Wife Cheat? by Nobody: 7:25am On Aug 26, 2014 |
Just like the story if a very close friend of mine... After having then first child, his young wife told him that he wants to go and play with guys a bit.... My friend allowed her... She left.... Came back... And he still allowed her to be his wife.... I laff... No be story... It happened here in Lagos. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Let My Wife Cheat? by tiswell(m): 8:58am On Aug 26, 2014 |
bigass:my man u don't need advice,u need sense...wat actually made ur woman/wife had d boldness to tell u her intention to flirt wit a guy @ the office....? Maybe she is the one that wins the bread,while u eat ur integrity and dignity out. |
Re: Should I Let My Wife Cheat? by memyselfandI: 9:15am On Aug 26, 2014 |
With all pleasure, allow her jare NANSENSE! |
Re: Should I Let My Wife Cheat? by Haywhymido(m): 3:55pm On Aug 26, 2014 |
YES,allow her. It a free world. As someone said, u don't need advice u actually need common sense which u don't obviously av |
Re: Should I Let My Wife Cheat? by Godmystrength: 4:21pm On Aug 26, 2014 |
ledafaze: Just like the story if a very close friend of mine... After having then first child, his young wife told him that he wants to go and play with guys a bit.... My friend allowed her... She left.... Came back... And he still allowed her to be his wife....i no dey believe this one jare.... @man in OP- are you a nigerian? |
Re: Should I Let My Wife Cheat? by MARKone(m): 7:31pm On Aug 26, 2014 |
They would have agreed on open marriage in the beginning. |
Re: Should I Let My Wife Cheat? by Nobody: 9:18pm On Aug 26, 2014 |
AtheistD: That is the problem with marrying a virgin. At some point they will want to sample other partners They have a very high propensity to cheat. As they begin to make new friends after marriage, they begin to feel deprived when these friends whisper tales of past relationships and escapades. Even when they do not have friends to tell them s.h.it. They might just stumble on a book, blog or forum like nairaland romance section to ignite that state of curiosity. They are like time bombs! |
Re: Should I Let My Wife Cheat? by JEITO: 2:30am On Aug 27, 2014 |
The devil is a liar... I bind that evil spirit In Jesus name You and your wife need to see a specialist ASAP... How can married couples with kids be thinking this way See why we advise people to be physically, mentally, emotionally,psychologically and spiritually matured before marriage! Most of the challenges we hear and see in marriages these days are as a result of a skip of one or more of these qualities. Now na goodlooks, money and how good he/she is in bed that people are looking for. Shioorrr 1 Like |
Re: Should I Let My Wife Cheat? by otipoju(m): 8:25am On Aug 27, 2014 |
This is the reason why I would prefer not to marry a virgin ooo. When they start to explore, them no go know how to code their movement. Especially after they are done with childbearing. |
Re: Should I Let My Wife Cheat? by Quirekoon: 8:27pm On Dec 01, 2020 |
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