Rooneyboy: . my guy, what u term a 'slap' wasn't actually a slap, it is an automatic reset of the brain .
she''ll start respecting herself and controlling her mouth henceforth .

#every woman needs that once in a while .

idiot. such idiots like u looses 40 mil contracts because of that. and its bud

is the story yours?

@Op.. Huh? I'm confused! You posted a story and you first commented acting like someone else? Anyway, I doubt you're actually feeling bad cause you've justified your actions already. Shame on you! Any man that results to hitting a woman is not man enough to own her. There are ways you can get her to stop and even regret abusing you without beating her. You actually seem "brainless" as she stated- bitter truth!

Tymax: You know it baffles me when I see young ladies speaking rudely to men. Especially older men.

Ladies get sharp mouth but when they prod the man to the point of lashing out at them, they label him a monster.

It's funny when ladies say a real man should not do this or that. Are you a man or even a boy? You do not have the slightest idea of what it means to be a man on the receiving end of a young woman's sharp tongue.

The man was wrong to have hit her only because he chose to marry her inspite of her sharp tongue. He should have been prepared to live with all this rubbish.

PS: I don't endorse needless violence against women

. Oh please! You've already endorsed violence against women, why are you contradicting yourself? Do you guys even read what you write before posting or this thread is filled with (in OP's wife's words) "brainless" men? I'm still confused!

evegran: . Oh please! You've already endorsed violence against women, why are you contradicting yourself? Do you guys even read what you write before posting or this thread is filled with (in OP's wife's words) "brainless" men? I'm still confused!

Honestly, you need a course in English COMPREHENSION.

Emotional people, please stay off my tail.

She deserved the slap

It is ungentlemanly to slap ur wife...bt come 2 tink of it, callin ur husband brainless is unacceptable, if i'm in d husband shoes i will definately beat a hell out of her. Wht nonsense!

GoodFaith: slap ur wife?
Did she put her hand on u first?
Her brothers need to visit ur dumb ass

And guess the man doesnt have brothers right? Why does it just seem right for the woman to hit the man first but not the other way round? Anyways, i've made it clear that any woman that deserves hitting from me must get it!

evegran: @Op.. Huh? I'm confused! You posted a story and you first commented acting like someone else? Anyway, I doubt you're actually feeling bad cause you've justified your actions already. Shame on you! Any man that results to hitting a woman is not man enough to own her. There are ways you can get her to stop and even regret abusing you without beating her. You actually seem "brainless" as she stated- bitter truth!

so , you can call your hubby brainless for such reason op mentioned and you ll expect him to smile at you.

GO BACK AND SLAP THE LIVING DAYLIGHT OUT OF HER BUTT

dechandel:
She deserved the slap

One day you go deserve slap too

OP, the slap would make her have real thoughts about her actions since it never happened before . apologise and perhaps get her some gifts.

Kachisbarbie:
One day you go deserve slap too

she won't deserve it because she wont be so mannerless to call her hubby brainless. respect is reciprocal. you dont want a slap , then avoid anything that may lead to a slap.

evegran: @Op.. Huh? I'm confused! You posted a story and you first commented acting like someone else? Anyway, I doubt you're actually feeling bad cause you've justified your actions already. Shame on you! Any man that results to hitting a woman is not man enough to own her. There are ways you can get her to stop and even regret abusing you without beating her. You actually seem "brainless" as she stated- bitter truth!

Example of such ways please!

Kachisbarbie:
One day you go deserve slap too

That's if she tries to misbehave like the man's wife! *in fela's voice: you dey waka jeje, person carry big wahala come, u say u be gentleman! I no be that kind gentleman*

Onyiibazz:

Example of such ways please!

hehehe .... keeping girlfriends I guess. I wonder what more you can do to stop a woman who dares you .

Kachisbarbie:
One day you go deserve slap too

When teenagers who are still being spoon fed talk, we know! Just look at how you're reasoning, so it's right for the woman to abuse the man verbally but not otherwise!

Women!!!! Ahhhhhh
They can fuc*k your brain till you are brainless.

Kachisbarbie:
One day you go deserve slap too

Lol
Sister me
I wouldn't be that stupid to refer to sm1 as brainless
There re so many sh*its a man can take but not continous insults

Tho i don't endorse violence o

majekdom2: hehehe .... keeping girlfriends I guess. I wonder what more you can do to stop a woman who dares you .

I see! Keeping girlfriends that would probably get you into a circular loop of insults. The best way is to give a hit to whom a hit is due!

dechandel:
Lol
Sister me
I wouldn't be that stupid to refer to sm1 as brainless
There re so many sh*its a man can take but not continous insults

Tho i don't endorse violence o

This girl sabi book eh! Remind me to buy you fayrouz later for this prompt response!

Rooneyboy: Something that has never happened to me
happened this morning. I dated my wife for
several years before getting married to her
sometime last year. I am temperamental
but patient but I have always been able to
control my temper when dealing with my
wife and I rather walk away or go hang out
with friends or have a drink and sleep it off,
but today it went beyond limit. My wife can
insult Jesus Christ and Jesus Christ will
slap her.
Last week I happened to throw some of my
clothes in the washing machine with very
few of her clothes that she said were in
there earlier which I didn't take note and
after her arrival from work, the next thing
she could say was that I don't have a
brain and that is why I could do that.
Continue
I hate insults and my wife is the type that
does not make her point without insults. I
was very angry and cautioned her not to
speak with me in that manner again but
she kept repeating it and I told her that the
day she will talk to me like this and my
brain receives it wrongly then she will hate
herself.
Just this morning it happened again. We
were both in the kitchen and we were both
about preparing food, apparently she said I
shouldn't do something and I told her that
its not a big deal if I did it and if I don't
see the wrong in it then I won't be able to
handle the same incident when it happens
again. Then she flew up again saying that I
am brainless and I told her to stop it but
she continued by saying I have the
common sense and its because she has
uncommon sense is why she can always
detect me being brainless.Yet again I gave
my warning to her that she should stop
saying such and there will be a day when it
will fall on my wrong side. She continued
saying I am harmless and I should do my
worst. She even dared me into doing
anything. She said it several times and I
got angry and pulled her shirt to warn her.
Then she triggered and started roughing
me then I slapped her and she slapped me
a few times and I gave her one more and
pushed her off.
Firstly this is not my character. For me to
even fight with a male friend physically, it
takes a whole lot, and I can count how
many male friends I have had to fight while
growing up on just one hand. I actually feel
bad for hitting her even though I know the
slap is not the normal slap I can give.
There was emotions in slapping her but I
wanted to prove a point to her that I chose
not to ever hit a woman and its not
something I can't do. I am writing this
because I feel so bad. Do you think I went
beyond lines by slapping her? How do I
make up for it?

culled from LIB BLOG

My brother I might nt approve of ur slapping madam but she went far.don't apologize n dnt beat her again @least u hv proven sumtin to her today!

majekdom2: so , you can call your hubby brainless for such reason op mentioned and you ll expect him to smile at you.

. Where did I say I'd expect him to smile after calling him "brainless" especially after he acted brainless? Oh and please my husband won't be a brainless man, can't afford to marry a brainless man and reproduce brainless little thangs. Ah hell no!

evegran: @Op.. Huh? I'm confused! You posted a story and you first commented acting like someone else? Anyway, I doubt you're actually feeling bad cause you've justified your actions already. Shame on you! Any man that results to hitting a woman is not man enough to own her. There are ways you can get her to stop and even regret abusing you without beating her. You actually seem "brainless" as she stated- bitter truth!

did you actually read ewerything or just jumped into conclusion

Whoever this guy is, he's one very tolerant individual, in fact, he's patient to a fault.

Some women once in a while go through episodes of madness, this is when they start running their mouths like a tap & as a good/loving husband, it's your responsibility to find her a panacea; this is where the slap comes in handy.

Don't see it as an abuse, because in actuality what you did was for her own good, it will serve her, you & the marriage in the long run.
If she's a reasonable woman, she will thank you after & apologise.

Personally I think the guy exercised restraint with the slap else I see no reason why after the first slap, his wife still had the effrontery to slap back. I don't see any woman having the clear eye for at least 30 seconds to attack me after i administer my medicinal slap.

Kachisbarbie:
One day you go deserve slap too

no, not if she acts like a reasonable wife!

evegran: . Where did I say I'd expect him to smile after calling him "brainless" especially after he acted brainless? Oh and please my husband won't be a brainless man, can't afford to marry a brainless man and reproduce brainless little thangs. Ah hell no!

OK ... pls invite me when you are getting married. since you can tell which man has got brains and which has not.

when a lady friend of mine told me that at times some kinda women need to be drilled once in a while , i thought she was crazy but now I realise that women re like children. "spare the rod , spoil the. ..........."

Onyiibazz:

Example of such ways please!

. By ignoring her. Simple! Ignore her enough till she gets miserable and even realizes her faults and then she'd even apologize or try to reach out to you. Its far better than beating her up. For me, if you beat me- ill use whatever I see and hit you back, I will not stand and be beaten. Ignoring me- always works. Cause later, I get sober and reflect and then see my wrongs if I'm at fault that is. Ps: See why couples should court before marriage. Spend time understanding each other before jumping into marriage, courtship creates time to understand and know how to deal with each other. . You're welcome!

voodoo85:
idiot. such idiots like u looses 40 mil contracts because of that. and its bud

Me idiot
why the heck did u call me an idiot

in all honesty I think ur brain needs an automatic reset .

voodoo85:
idiot. such idiots like u looses 40 mil contracts because of that. and its bud

Me idiot
why the heck did u call me an idiot

in all honesty I think ur brain needs an automatic reset .

....

Onyiibazz:

When teenagers who are still being spoon fed talk, we know! Just look at how you're reasoning, so it's right for the woman to abuse the man verbally but not otherwise!

You well?