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I Slept With Our Driver Just To Have Children For My Hubby by Biliamin(m): 10:42am On Sep 13, 2014
I am not a loose woman. I am just a woman who loves
her husband very much and didn’t want to lose him. I
just did what I had to do to save my marriage even
though I feel guilty sometimes. It was not easy but I
slept with my driver so that I could give my husband a
child, but instead, God gave me twins, a boy and a girl.
I was married to Philip for eight years. We had no child.

“The worst was that I never got pregnant even for a
day.” His mother became so impatient that she started
breathing down my neck as she gave me no breathing
space at all. She moved in to live with us and
practically made my life unbearable – in my
matrimonial home. I cannot drink water and drop the
cup because she must insult me. It got to a point that
she stopped eating my food because, according to her,
I should be feeding my children so that they would grow
healthy and stronger and not her. “Monica, if you had
children, you are supposed to be feeding them with all
these food so that they would grow healthy and strong.
I am getting old so I don’t need all these nonsense you
call food. Take them away and give me grandchildren,”
she would scream. She also stopped talking to me,
however, the only time she talks to me is when she
wants to insult me and remind me of how less a
woman I was.

Philip and I love each other so much that he stood by
me despite all his mother did or said to frustrate me to
leave him. We visited different specialists and they all
certified us medically alright. I have visited churches,
held vigils and even fasted for days, drank various
concoctions of varied colours and combinations all in
the name of getting pregnant so that my mother-in-law
can stop humiliating me yet I couldn’t get pregnant.
At a point, I stopped coming out of my bedroom
because it was obvious my mother-in-law had vowed to
frustrate me out of her son’s home. Most times, I just
stayed in my bedroom and either cries, pray, think and
then sleep off because I was scared of his mother
confronting me. To make things worse, she sent away
the house help because she said, “You don’t need any
house help because there are no children to take care
of. Take care of your house yourself and stop wasting
my son’s hard earned money.”

It was just the three of us living at home, “God, I was
always so terrified even when I hear her voice from a
distance.” It is so agonizing to say this but my
husband usually pleads with me to come out of the
room and this makes him feel so sad especially those
times I refuse because I don’t want to come face-to-
face with his mother. When her troubles became too
unbearable, Philip practically threw her out of the house
just to make me feel safe and comfortable in my own
home.

Even after she had left, I could still hear those insults in
my head so I decided to take a bold step – I seduced
and slept with our driver, Okon. Okon is a young man in
his late 20’s. He is a graduate of Mechanical
Engineering but because he could not get a good
paying job, he opted to become a driver. I promised to
get him a good job if he sleeps with me just once but I
never disclosed the reason for this. However, Okon
thought I just wanted to cheat on my husband with
him. I planned it during my ovulation so that I could get
pregnant, although it was not easy sleeping with
another man. I knew I was betraying my husband but I
saw it as a necessary action. After a month, I
discovered that I was pregnant. So, as promised I got a
job for Okon in a friend’s company where he started
earning almost N150, 000 per month. When I told Philip
that I was pregnant, he was so excited. “Sweetheart,
God has finally answered our prayers. I am pregnant,” I
revealed.

When I was five months pregnant, he informed his
mother and she immediately returned to the house. She
pampered me like a baby and also took good care of
me. I never wanted to do any scan but my mother-in-
law insisted. When I finally did the scan, it showed I
was pregnant with twins, a boy and a girl. My mother-
in-law and husband were extremely happy while I felt
much fulfilled. “God thank you for compensating me
with a set of twins after eight years of barrenness,” I
muttered.

When the twins were born, the girl took ill for some
time. It took a while before she fully recovered after
several treatments and this got me worried. Philip and I
insisted that blood test be carried out on them to
determine their blood group and genotype and then
came the shocking revelation. The doctor informed us
that although their blood groups are both A, however,
their genotypes are AS for the girl and AA for the boy
meanwhile Philip and I are both AA. I wanted the
ground to open and swallow me up because I felt Philip
would ask questions but to my surprise, he did not. He
just said, “Sweetheart, lets go home. We have had quite
a long day, you and my babies need to rest.”

Three months later, he held me closely and said,
“Monica, don’t be scared. I don’t want to know who the
father of the twins is. I know whatever you did, you did
to save our marriage and I am very proud of you. I
promise to always love you and my babies. I promise
this will be a secret between us. I love you sweetheart. I
know we will have our own children someday.” I wept
as he wiped my tears with his hands.


I know what I did was wrong but at least my mother-in-
law is extremely happy with me, that is all that matters.
Although, everyone is happy but I feel guilty that I
selfishly used an innocent man to achieve my aim. But
before anybody judge me; just put yourself in my shoes
and think for a moment what you will do?

Monica

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Re: I Slept With Our Driver Just To Have Children For My Hubby by Yosifperfect(m): 11:06am On Sep 13, 2014
Which episode?

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Re: I Slept With Our Driver Just To Have Children For My Hubby by Nobody: 11:29am On Sep 13, 2014
Ok clap for yourself.
Re: I Slept With Our Driver Just To Have Children For My Hubby by johnstar(m): 11:34am On Sep 13, 2014
u claim u love ur hubby, yet u cheated... dts vry bad nw, well congrat u delivered twins

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Re: I Slept With Our Driver Just To Have Children For My Hubby by ochon: 11:37am On Sep 13, 2014
This story might be true, but I don't believe it one bit.
Re: I Slept With Our Driver Just To Have Children For My Hubby by gede7744(f): 11:47am On Sep 13, 2014
don't feel bad when ur husband move out to do practical as u did and u end up having a rival. u will still loose out cus u have to move to ur okon house.

afterall d children ve to know their father

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Re: I Slept With Our Driver Just To Have Children For My Hubby by SERVILAB: 12:17pm On Sep 13, 2014
We see stuffs like this everyday.

Re: I Slept With Our Driver Just To Have Children For My Hubby by bibinwaka: 1:28pm On Sep 13, 2014
my dear, personally I dnt support adultery but from your story and from experience it's better u have those kids u can call your own than never had any kids. whatever happens they are yours.

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Re: I Slept With Our Driver Just To Have Children For My Hubby by Nobody: 2:03pm On Sep 13, 2014
Lordylordy! Sheeet happens. But congrats...kicks to your MIL from hell.
Re: I Slept With Our Driver Just To Have Children For My Hubby by Tmex(m): 2:07pm On Sep 13, 2014
If this is true it sure means perhaps your husband is sterile at the moment at the moment as much as I don't support adultery, but its quite obvious you want to play safe and thank your stars you have a reasonable guy who keeps showing you love even when he knew things were wrong.

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Re: I Slept With Our Driver Just To Have Children For My Hubby by egopersonified(f): 3:00pm On Sep 13, 2014
Abeg, op, how can I contact the writer, this her husband is playing tricks on her, he needs to be investigated.
Re: I Slept With Our Driver Just To Have Children For My Hubby by EfemenaXY: 10:23pm On Sep 13, 2014
I've read this tired, old, worn-out story so many times in this section, I'm amazed no one's picked up on it yet.

Oya @OP: come back and finish the story.

Madam had Okon's kids, only to find out that hubby did have a child out of wedlock, long before marrying madam. However, this 'illegitimate' child of his just happens to be his driver - Okon.

So madam has effectively given her husband his grandchildren.
Re: I Slept With Our Driver Just To Have Children For My Hubby by SAMBARRY: 12:28pm On Sep 14, 2014
Well as long as in laws keep presurizing women to get pregnant through ridicule, sneering etc desperation will set in and they will keep sleeping with drivers and gate men and then hanganothermans child on their neck. Not news however be it as it may I don't believe this superstory
Re: I Slept With Our Driver Just To Have Children For My Hubby by shizzleStar: 1:16pm On Sep 14, 2014
EfemenaXY: I've read this tired, old, worn-out story so many times in this section, I'm amazed no one's picked up on it yet.

Oya @OP: come back and finish the story.

Madam had Okon's kids, only to find out that hubby did have a child out of wedlock, long before marrying madam. However, this 'illegitimate' child of his just happens to be his driver - Okon.

So madam has effectively given her husband his grandchildren
.
pheewwww! with the way it ended, i knew there was something the husband knew that his wife didn't know, this also answers what egopersonified was suspecting...dis secret they're sharing, chai ....diariss goduoo
Re: I Slept With Our Driver Just To Have Children For My Hubby by kreamidiva(f): 3:28pm On Sep 14, 2014
I didn't read the story cos I've seen the movie before. Quite old.
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Re: I Slept With Our Driver Just To Have Children For My Hubby by coogar: 10:31pm On Sep 14, 2014
SAMBARRY: Well as long as in laws keep presurizing women to get pregnant through ridicule, sneering etc desperation will set in and they will keep sleeping with drivers and gate men and then hanganothermans child on their neck. Not news however be it as it may I don't believe this superstory

the pressure of the in-law is the reason married women can't keep it shut? then again, are these "in-law" not women too? i am yet to see fathers-in-law going to their son's house to remove a barren wife - women are solely responsible for such nonsense.

why do i have a feeling you are capable of sleeping with your auto-mechanic if things don't go as planned? grin
Re: I Slept With Our Driver Just To Have Children For My Hubby by edwife(f): 10:49pm On Sep 14, 2014
^^^shocked shocked lipsrsealed
Re: I Slept With Our Driver Just To Have Children For My Hubby by Nobody: 5:54am On Sep 15, 2014
EfemenaXY: I've read this tired, old, worn-out story so many times in this section, I'm amazed no one's picked up on it yet.

Oya @OP: come back and finish the story.

Madam had Okon's kids, only to find out that hubby did have a child out of wedlock, long before marrying madam. However, this 'illegitimate' child of his just happens to be his driver - Okon.

So madam has effectively given her husband his grandchildren.

undecided
FUBAR.

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Re: I Slept With Our Driver Just To Have Children For My Hubby by SAMBARRY: 9:01am On Sep 15, 2014
You are courting for trouble this morning. Don't pull the tail of a sleeping lion. This is the first and final warning. I have said my own and iAM ENTITLED TO MY OWN OPINION, YOU DONT HAVE TO AGREE WITH ME. PERIOD!
coogar:

the pressure of the in-law is the reason married women can't keep it shut? then again, are these "in-law" not women too? i am yet to see fathers-in-law going to their son's house to remove a barren wife - women are solely responsible for such nonsense.

why do i have a feeling you are capable of sleeping with your auto-mechanic if things don't go as planned? grin

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Re: I Slept With Our Driver Just To Have Children For My Hubby by coogar: 5:51pm On Sep 15, 2014
SAMBARRY: You are courting for trouble this morning. Don't pull the tail of a sleeping lion. This is the first and final warning. I have said my own and iAM ENTITLED TO MY OWN OPINION, YOU DONT HAVE TO AGREE WITH ME. PERIOD!

there's no reason for you to blow a gasket or get your undies wet.....are you capable of sleeping with your mechanic or not if things don't go as envisaged?
Re: I Slept With Our Driver Just To Have Children For My Hubby by Nobody: 8:22pm On Sep 15, 2014
coogar:

there's no reason for you to blow a gasket or get your undies wet.....are you capable of sleeping with mechanic or not if things don't go as envisaged?

I think this is a fair question...

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Re: I Slept With Our Driver Just To Have Children For My Hubby by tpia1: 8:35pm On Sep 15, 2014
if the hubby is happy, the woman is happy, the driver is happy, everybody is happy , then what exactly is the reason for the recycled thread anyway?


see as the story dey long sef?
Re: I Slept With Our Driver Just To Have Children For My Hubby by Nobody: 9:01pm On Sep 15, 2014
But seriously,why is it that its only through blood tests when a child falls ill that stories like this tells that the father is not the owner of the child/children? Must the child fall ill before they find out the child isn't his?
This sounds more like a nollywood movie.

Re: I Slept With Our Driver Just To Have Children For My Hubby by ahnie: 10:26am On Sep 16, 2014
[quote
author=coogar]

the pressure of the in-law is the reason married women can't keep it
shut? then again, are these "in-law" not women too? i am yet to see
fathers-in-law going to their son's house to remove a barren wife -
women are solely responsible for such nonsense.

why do i have a feeling you are capable of sleeping with your
auto-mechanic if things don't go as planned? grin[/quote]Hehehehe
Re: I Slept With Our Driver Just To Have Children For My Hubby by ahnie: 10:29am On Sep 16, 2014
laughing in swahili
njokusboy:

I think this is a fair question...
Seconded.
Re: I Slept With Our Driver Just To Have Children For My Hubby by coogar: 11:16am On Sep 16, 2014
berem: But seriously,why is it that its only through blood tests when a child falls ill that stories like this tells that the father is not the owner of the child/children? Must the child fall ill before they find out the child isn't his?
This sounds more like a nollywood movie.


because women are expert pretenders. they only reveal what they want people to know. men are bumbling oafs when it comes to marital infidelity, this is why they get caught more often.

women are also in the game & i believe they do it more than men but a camel would pass through the eye of a needle before you catch a married woman cheating on her hubby.

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