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Re: How To Keep Your Gay Life Secret In Naija By Chinua Onwukike by soulglo: 3:30am On Sep 16, 2014 |
Feel bad for those Nigerian women who end up marrying gay men because in Nigeria it is a crime to be who you are. Marriage will not make him straight. He will still have sex with men only that now it will likely be risky sex because it's the only way he can get it. 2 Likes |
Re: How To Keep Your Gay Life Secret In Naija By Chinua Onwukike by Nobody: 4:59am On Sep 16, 2014 |
soulglo: Feel bad for those Nigerian women who end up marrying gay men because in Nigeria it is a crime to be who you are. Marriage will not make him straight. He will still have sex with men only that now it will likely be risky sex because it's the only way he can get it. Well some innocently go in while some may find out and still marry him hoping praying and fasting he changes. The favorite mantra is " no man is perfect". So rather th a n enter the dingle Market again especially when the man is a seemingly good catch they will marry him turn a blind eye enjoy vacations and manage. Some turn prayer warriors. A friend who found out about her husband's orientation went to report to his mother who was actually aware and because of that has nagged and pushed him to marry and at least have children so people won't talk too much. Now mother in law and daughter in law can be found regularly in mountain of fire praying for him to change people who say that is who he is he can't change accept that and move on have been cut off they choose to believe it is a spiritual attack, while wife is aging from all the prayer and fasting and fighting enemies, with unsatisfied conji, husband is enjoying his " business trips" and " working weekends" with his " business partner" 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How To Keep Your Gay Life Secret In Naija By Chinua Onwukike by Nuahall2k14(m): 5:07am On Sep 16, 2014 |
Lmao.serves her right. aisha2: |
Re: How To Keep Your Gay Life Secret In Naija By Chinua Onwukike by Nobody: 6:38am On Sep 16, 2014 |
What about ladies? 1 Like |
Re: How To Keep Your Gay Life Secret In Naija By Chinua Onwukike by Nuahall2k14(m): 8:31am On Sep 16, 2014 |
Nobody cares about ladies own.guys tend to b more attracted to lesbians sef.its no big deal with ladies.thats y guys love party so much.especially watching d ladies makeout infront of him.Great turn-on bluelover: What about ladies? |
Re: How To Keep Your Gay Life Secret In Naija By Chinua Onwukike by brethart: 11:17am On Sep 16, 2014 |
Nuahall2k14: Are u gay?Hmm...... Yeah |
Re: How To Keep Your Gay Life Secret In Naija By Chinua Onwukike by Nuahall2k14(m): 11:43am On Sep 16, 2014 |
How r u coping? I mean d disguise and all.or do people know? brethart: |
Re: How To Keep Your Gay Life Secret In Naija By Chinua Onwukike by Nmeri17: 2:05am On Sep 17, 2014 |
Kanwulia: Get married like MOST NIGERIAN MEN! I remember you're married to a Nigerian man. Is he the reason why u think 75% of other Nigerian men are like him 1 Like |
Re: How To Keep Your Gay Life Secret In Naija By Chinua Onwukike by Kanwulia: 2:50pm On Sep 17, 2014 |
Nmeri17: Will you keep KWAYET? OYA CONTINUU! Today is a new day. *can't believe i went 24 hours without a cuss-out feat*! *chai diarrrris godiooooh!* 1 Like |
Re: How To Keep Your Gay Life Secret In Naija By Chinua Onwukike by Nobody: 5:46pm On Sep 17, 2014 |
Looooool this was funny but to be honest there's nothing like living Straight-Gay Life... I mean not trying to pretend to be some one you are not. |
Re: How To Keep Your Gay Life Secret In Naija By Chinua Onwukike by Nobody: 2:05am On Sep 19, 2014 |
Nuahall2k14: Nobody cares about ladies own.guys tend to b more attracted to lesbians sef.its no big deal with ladies.thats y guys love party so much.especially watching d ladies makeout infront of him.Great turn-onreally?? Where exactly did you getis 'facts'' from? So from this your post I can imply that its okay for a lady to be a lesbian but a taboo for a guy to be gay. Who said that les go around making out with follow ladies in the mist of guys? talk of absolute fairness 2 Likes |
Re: How To Keep Your Gay Life Secret In Naija By Chinua Onwukike by Nobody: 9:59am On Nov 01, 2014 |
Nuahall2k14: I can take this in 2 ways as a joke its funny but seriously... Thats the problem... We shouldn't be doing things in secret anything done in the dark will definitely become accustomed to the dark and then we wouldn't be able to go out in the light. Its not about secrecy its about being yourself. |
Re: How To Keep Your Gay Life Secret In Naija By Chinua Onwukike by Nobody: 11:51am On Nov 01, 2014 |
Nuahall2k14: if only you know the lengths we have to go through to "cover up". It's just not easy. Especially when you want at least one straight friend of yours to know everything about you but you're scared of what he/she might think. well, life's gotta go on. |
Re: How To Keep Your Gay Life Secret In Naija By Chinua Onwukike by Nuahall2k14(m): 11:58am On Nov 01, 2014 |
Being yourself in this case has consequences.i pity d gays in Nigeria cos 14yrs in prison is an aweful long time. Scaredsilent: |
Re: How To Keep Your Gay Life Secret In Naija By Chinua Onwukike by Nuahall2k14(m): 12:00pm On Nov 01, 2014 |
masonkz: |
Re: How To Keep Your Gay Life Secret In Naija By Chinua Onwukike by Nobody: 12:35pm On Nov 01, 2014 |
Scaredsilent: it's much easier for the effeminate gay guys. Much more easier as people wouldd already be suspecting right from day 1 and wouldn't be that surprised to actually know they're gay. But for people like me. |
Re: How To Keep Your Gay Life Secret In Naija By Chinua Onwukike by tpia6: 12:52pm On Nov 01, 2014 |
Family section is being taken over again. Mistress threads, secret gay life threads, una don start o. E tun ti bere lodi lodi yin o. 1 Like |
Re: How To Keep Your Gay Life Secret In Naija By Chinua Onwukike by SAMBARRY: 3:58pm On Nov 01, 2014 |
pickabeau1:talk na.why your hand dey heavy you type or are you short of words |
Re: How To Keep Your Gay Life Secret In Naija By Chinua Onwukike by SAMBARRY: 4:01pm On Nov 01, 2014 |
all join. Is part of THE FAMILY HERITAGE. AFTER ALL WE ARE ONE BIG HAPPY FAMILY. GAYS, LESBIANS, HETEROSEXUAL, BISEXUAL, MALE AND FEMALE PROSTITUES.ALL NA COMBINATION OF ONE BIG FAMILY tpia6: |
Re: How To Keep Your Gay Life Secret In Naija By Chinua Onwukike by Nuahall2k14(m): 4:55pm On Nov 01, 2014 |
SAMBARRY: |
Re: How To Keep Your Gay Life Secret In Naija By Chinua Onwukike by SAMBARRY: 5:07pm On Nov 01, 2014 |
Kanwulia o |
Re: How To Keep Your Gay Life Secret In Naija By Chinua Onwukike by ancashy(f): 5:07pm On Nov 01, 2014 |
My greatest wish is dat things return to. Normal,so dat in d near future, I would not get an invite to a marriage ceremony of a human and an animal.with d human claiming to be his/herself. 2 Likes |
Re: How To Keep Your Gay Life Secret In Naija By Chinua Onwukike by Kanwulia: 6:42pm On Nov 01, 2014 |
SAMBARRY: Yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeesh! Na lie I tok? When a NAIJA man starts farting uncontrollably, not be "Fruits and Vegetable" diet dey cause am o! Time to h-investigate the "where-there-and-here-and-dia" of his anoooose before he shytes on ya head one day ke! |
Re: How To Keep Your Gay Life Secret In Naija By Chinua Onwukike by SAMBARRY: 6:54pm On Nov 01, 2014 |
don't provoke them o Kanwulia: |
Re: How To Keep Your Gay Life Secret In Naija By Chinua Onwukike by Kanwulia: 7:06pm On Nov 01, 2014 |
SAMBARRY: Dey are busy in their EAST LONDON "BI-BI" PUBS tonight! Dem go re-surface on Monday Morrrrrrrring when awon "OMO WHITES" don suck dem finish to ease frussstrehsun on and off NL na! |
Re: How To Keep Your Gay Life Secret In Naija By Chinua Onwukike by maureensylvia(f): 7:14pm On Nov 01, 2014 |
Enyia 14years no be beans o |
Re: How To Keep Your Gay Life Secret In Naija By Chinua Onwukike by SAMBARRY: 7:23pm On Nov 01, 2014 |
Kanwulia:Lobaatan |
Re: How To Keep Your Gay Life Secret In Naija By Chinua Onwukike by Nobody: 5:36pm On Nov 02, 2014 |
masonkz: I understand where you are coming from. But don't you think lying is not the answer. Its never the answer. I am not perfect I try as much as possible not to lie when am asked the question about a girl I usually tell them I have no one now and try and change the topic. I make sure the people I tell are the ones closet to me. Nothing good comes from lying |
Re: How To Keep Your Gay Life Secret In Naija By Chinua Onwukike by Nobody: 1:16pm On Nov 03, 2014 |
Maybe this would work with women. Guys, even gay guys, can sense the gayness of another dude from as far as pluto. They give away vibes and the bisexualls who are more sneaky put out tests, like pings, to attract their like, the thing is straight guys also sense these pings, they might not immediately decode but they'd sense the pings. Guys like Raheem Sterling and that Aarons guy in Newcastle give off such vibes, it's only a matter of time till they come out, maybe after their careers are over. All these measures can achieve is put strangers at bay, the ones close to you will know, like America. Except they're in denial. 1 Like |
Re: How To Keep Your Gay Life Secret In Naija By Chinua Onwukike by Nuahall2k14(m): 5:13pm On Nov 03, 2014 |
freshdude2: |
Re: How To Keep Your Gay Life Secret In Naija By Chinua Onwukike by Nobody: 8:53pm On Nov 03, 2014 |
Scaredsilent: Not all of us are ready to come to terms with what would happen when people start knowing about our sexuality. |
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