BoboYekini: I got guns cos of the ladies too. Trust me, there's cultism in Lag, especially if you stay off k.

Ladies ke?..Bet y

I attended a boys only boarding school, military inclined self, I was always bullied cause I was skinny and you don't fight cause the punishment was serious. Just parley up with a bug boy or a senior student, then you are good to go. A bully was my sit partner in SSS 2 and I was able to study him to know how bullies think, many have small hearts but a bigger than life self esteem because of their size.

Methinks, it would be interesting to read about the once-upon-a-time bullies sharing their experiences on here. I mean, every one can't be a victim, can they?

Ameerasexy: Ladies ke?..Bet y

I mean 'guns' as in biceps, not automatic weapon.

EfemenaXY: Methinks, it would be interesting to read about the once-upon-a-time bullies sharing their experiences on here. I mean, every one can't be a victim, can they?

You first.

BoboYekini: Oh hi Efe my dear what? You used to like my guns na.

I did?

BoboYekini: I mean 'guns' as in biceps, not automatic weapon.

Really.

Guns, crew, cult, buldging biceps, hardened knuckles, broken fingernails...you sure you were bullied, or you sef were the bully?

BoboYekini: I mean 'guns' as in biceps, not automatic weapon.

Naughty you

EfemenaXY: Methinks, it would be interesting to read about the once-upon-a-time bullies sharing their experiences on here. I mean, every one can't be a victim, can they?

Trust me...Only the bullied ones remember

Ameerasexy: Naughty you

You see I'm not so bad, scaredy cat

EfemenaXY:

I am curious...how did your dad prepare you to handle bullying? And how to defend yourself?

I knew someone would ask.

My father had told me, before I went to school, that some kids were nasty and mean and if I ever met any of them, I had to defend myself.

He said that if I felt that I couldn't handle it, he would come and solve the problem.

This made me confident.




It was only once that my father intervened. There was a boy who hit me (outside of school) and my father saw it. My father ran after him but the boy was too fast as he ran for his life.

Such news spread quickly. Nobody has ever hit me again.

I was very proud of my father on this day.



Children must know that other kids can be nasty and they must know that something can be done about it.



My father would always say that other kids bully those they are jealous of. It was years later that I understood why he would say it. It may be true for some bullies but the message he was trying to pass was "They don't bully you because something is wrong with you, they are jealous of you."

I always thought that any nasty remarks were because of how cute and smart I was and not because anything was wrong with me

Don't think I am so arrogant now.

BoboYekini: You see I'm not so bad, scaredy cat

point of correction, I aint scared

carefreewannabe:
I knew someone would ask.
My father had told me, before I went to school, that some kids were nasty and mean and if I ever met any of them, I had to defend myself.
He said that if I felt that I couldn't handle it, he would come and solve the problem.
This made me confident.
It was only once that my father intervened. There was a boy who hit me (outside of school) and my father saw it. My father ran after him but the boy was too fast as he ran for his life.
Such news spread quickly. Nobody has ever hit me again.
I was very proud of my father on this day.
Children must know that other kids can be nasty and they must know that something can be done about it.
My father would always say that other kids bully those they are jealous. It was years later that I understood why he would say it. It may be true for some bullies but the message he was trying to pass was "They don't bully you because something is wrong with you, they are jealous of you."
I always thought that any nasty remarks were because of how cute and smart I was and not because anything was wrong with me
Don't think I am so arrogant now.

Arrogant - I think not.

Super confident - definitely!

I was bullied in primary 1! Esther d name of my bully. She had her own crew, I was double promoted so she was a little bigger. She used to take my pencil everyday, she would get me in trouble n report me to my teacher, I finally got the courage to stand up to her 1st day we resumed in primary 3. She was about to start, I warned her with so much anger dt I specially trained during d holiday to beat her. And Dts how it stopped!

I also had neigbours, teasing me unnecessarily, I was a shy n quiet girl. I would be so angry but could do Ntn. One day my mom asked me to go n buy coke, on my way, these two boys were @ my back, teasing me as usual, I told dem to leave me, dey refused n kept going @ it. I just used d bottle n broke on one's head.. lol, I went home my mom was like where is d bottle, I told her it broke, I went to buy her coke with another bottle. Dey came 2 report to my mum, she told dem sorry, I did too.. anyways, d bullying ended thanks to coke bottle

Strong personality.........no one dared

Except some girls sha that bullied me in junior secondary

I guess they were the ones that turned me into a talkative then

EfemenaXY:

Arrogant - I think not.

Super confident - definitely!

Just confident.

I have my moments of doubt too, just like most people.

Ameerasexy: Trust me...Only the bullied ones remember

Hmmm...

I never really was one for getting involved in fights. Infact, I absolutely detested fighting. My defence weapon - being the teacher's and headmaster's pet - one of the perks of being one of the top students, ajebutterish, and hardworking. Touch Efe, and you'll have them to deal with.

misssPepper: I was bullied in primary 1! Esther d name of my bully. She had her own crew, I was double promoted so she was a little bigger. She used to take my pencil everyday, she would get me in trouble n report me to my teacher, I finally got the courage to stand up to her 1st day we resumed in primary 3. She was about to start, I warned her with so much anger dt I specially trained during d holiday to beat her. And Dts how it stopped!

I also had neigbours, teasing me unnecessarily, I was a shy n quiet girl. I would be so angry but could do Ntn. One day my mom asked me to go n buy coke, on my way, these two boys were @ my back, teasing me as usual, I told dem to leave me, dey refused n kept going @ it. I just used d bottle n broke on one's head.. lol, I went home my mom was like where is d bottle, I told her it broke, I went to buy her coke with another bottle. Dey came 2 report to my mum, she told dem sorry, I did too.. anyways, d bullying ended thanks to coke bottle

Jisos!!! ..U are one hell of a case...Buhahahahahhahhaha

carefreewannabe: OP, I am sorry about what happened to you.

Imagine people send their kids to school and they go through hell there.
Teachers mustn't take bullying lightly.


And parents must prepare their children for such. My father did. He told me what to do to defend myself. I guess, this is one of the reasons why I never was a victim of any bully.

can u tell us what ur father told u? Will be glad to knw.

EfemenaXY:

I did?



Really.

Guns, crew, cult, buldging biceps, hardened knuckles, broken fingernails...you sure you were bullied, or you sef were the bully?

I used to bully lil girls, when I was a lil boy. I'm not proud of it.

misssPepper: I was bullied in primary 1! Esther d name of my bully. She had her own crew, I was double promoted so she was a little bigger. She used to take my pencil everyday, she would get me in trouble n report me to my teacher, I finally got the courage to stand up to her 1st day we resumed in primary 3. She was about to start, I warned her with so much anger dt I specially trained during d holiday to beat her. And Dts how it stopped!

I also had neigbours, teasing me unnecessarily, I was a shy n quiet girl. I would be so angry but could do Ntn. One day my mom asked me to go n buy coke, on my way, these two boys were @ my back, teasing me as usual, I told dem to leave me, dey refused n kept going @ it. I just used d bottle n broke on one's head.. lol, I went home my mom was like where is d bottle, I told her it broke, I went to buy her coke with another bottle. Dey came 2 report to my mum, she told dem sorry, I did too.. anyways, d bullying ended thanks to coke bottle

What, you mean those thick coke bottles? On a child's head? And he survived?

BoboYekini: I used to bully lil girls, when I was a lil boy. I'm not proud of it.

I knew it!

Bobo Y, you were the oppressor, never the oppressed. Na so you carry the thing pursue me for Jokes Section for all those yester years...

Haywhymido: can u tell us what ur father told u? Will be glad to knw.

I already have.

carefreewannabe: OP, I am sorry about what happened to you.

Imagine people send their kids to school and they go through hell there.
Teachers mustn't take bullying lightly.


And parents must prepare their children for such. My father did. He told me what to do to defend myself. I guess, this is one of the reasons why I never was a victim of any bully.

can u tell us what ur father told u? Will be glad to knw. Modified: wow ur reply is useful,i like it

Ameerasexy: point of correction, I aint scared

So why did you leave me hanging? You remember?

My mom said she had 2 clip my wings if not i'll have been a dragon. Lol. Fighting wasn't my thing but if I was pushed too hard, I had d strength of 10 children. If I had to fight any child my age, i'll definitely beat the child. Now I'm even too calm for my own good.

Haywhymido: can u tell us what ur father told u? Will be glad to knw. Modified: wow ur reply is useful,i like it

I hope it will help parents protect their pikins.

Kids witness bullying every day. It's a very serious issue.

carefreewannabe:

I already have.

thanks,just saw it

EfemenaXY:

I knew it!

Bobo Y, you were the oppressor, never the oppressed. Na so you carry the thing pursue me for Jokes Section for all those yester years...

Are you serious? You left jokes section cos of me? If I remember correctly, na you dey bully me about lol

BoboYekini: So why did you leave me hanging? You remember?

Ohhhhhh...did i?

carefreewannabe:

I knew someone would ask.

My father had told me, before I went to school, that some kids were nasty and mean and if I ever met any of them, I had to defend myself.

He said that if I felt that I couldn't handle it, he would come and solve the problem.

This made me confident.




It was only once that my father intervened. There was a boy who hit me (outside of school) and my father saw it. My father ran after him but the boy was too fast as he ran for his life.

Such news spread quickly. Nobody has ever hit me again.

I was very proud of my father on this day.



Children must know that other kids can be nasty and they must know that something can be done about it.



My father would always say that other kids bully those they are jealous of. It was years later that I understood why he would say it. It may be true for some bullies but the message he was trying to pass was "They don't bully you because something is wrong with you, they are jealous of you."

I always thought that any nasty remarks were because of how cute and smart I was and not because anything was wrong with me

Don't think I am so arrogant now.

one of those German - Nigerian beauties that would blast exams and cause envy among guys....lol

okotv: one of those German - Nigerian beauties that would blast exams and cause envy among guys....lol

How do you know I am a beauty?

carefreewannabe:

How do you know I am a beauty?

read your post I quoted. Cute and smart...