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Very Wise And Inspiring Advice From A Father To His Son Concerning Marriage by Nobody: 11:11am On Sep 28, 2014
1. My son, if you keep spending on a woman
and she never asked you if you’re saving or
investing, and she keeps enjoying the attention,
don’t marry her.

2. My son, a woman could be a
good wife to you, some could be a good mother
to your children but if you’ve found a woman
like a mother to you, your children and your
family, please don’t let her go.

3. My son, don’t confine the position of your
wife to the kitchen, where did you get that
from? Even in our days, we had farm-lands
where they worked every morning . . . that was
our office.

4. My son, if I tell you that you’re the head of
the house, don’t look at your pocket; look if you
will see a smile on your wife’s face.

5. My son, if you want to have a long life, let
your wife be in- charge of your salary, it will be
difficult for her to spend it when she’s aware of
the home needs and bills to pay but if it’s in
your care, she will keep you asking even when
all has been spent.

6. My son, don’t ever beat your woman, the pain
in her body is nothing to be compared to the
wound on her heart and that means you may
be in trouble living with a wounded woman.

7. My son, now that you’re married, if you live a
bachelor kind of life with your wife, you will
soon be single again.

8. My son, in our days, we had
many wives and many children because of our
large farm- lands and many harvests, there are
hardly any land for farming anymore, so
embrace your woman closely.

9. My son, under the cocoa tree that I did meet
your mother could be your eateries and
restaurants of nowadays, but remember, the
closet thing we did there was to embrace each
other.

10. My son, don’t be carried away when you
start making more money, instead of
spending on those tiny legs that never knew
how hard you worked to get it, spend it on that
woman that stood by you all along.

11. My son, when I threw little stones or
whistled at the window of your mother
father’s house, to call her out, it was not for sex,
it was because I missed her so much.

12. My son, remember, when you say your wife
has changed, there could be something you’ve
stopped doing too.

13. My son, your mother rode the bicycle with
me before I bought that tortoise car
outside there, any woman that won’t endure
with you in your little beginning should not
enjoy your riches.

14. My son, don’t compare your wife to any
woman, there are ways she’s enduring you too
and has she ever compared you to any man?

15. My son, there is this thing you people call
feminism, well, if a woman claim to have equal
right with you in the house,
divide all the bills into two equal parts, take one
part and ask her to start paying the other part.

16. My son, I met your mother a virgin and I
took more yams to her father, if you don’t meet
your wife a virgin, don’t blame
her, what I didn’t tell you is that our women had
prestige.

17. My son, I didn’t send your sisters to school
because I was foolish like many to think a
female child won’t extend my
family name, please don’t make that mistake,
the kind of female achievers I see nowadays has
made the male-gender an ordinary tag.

18. My son, your mother have once locked up
the cloth I was wearing and almost tore it
because she was angry, I did not raise my hand
to beat her because of a day like this, so that I
can be proud to tell you that I never for once
beat your mother.

19. My son, in our days, our women had more
of natural beauty, though I wouldn’t lie to you,
some had minor painting of their appellation
mostly on their arms, the ones you people now
call tattoo, but don’t forget that they didn’t
expose any part of their body like your women of nowadays.

20. My son, your mother and I are not
interested in what happens in your marriage, try
to handle issues without always coming to us.

21. My son, remember I bought your mother’s
first sewing machine for her, help your wife
achieve her dreams just as you’re pursuing
yours.

22. My son, don’t stop taking care of me and
your mother, so that your children will take care
of you too.

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Re: Very Wise And Inspiring Advice From A Father To His Son Concerning Marriage by azunlimited(m): 12:18pm On Sep 28, 2014
Awesome...
Re: Very Wise And Inspiring Advice From A Father To His Son Concerning Marriage by ernie4life(m): 1:40pm On Sep 28, 2014
am not your son, you hear
Re: Very Wise And Inspiring Advice From A Father To His Son Concerning Marriage by Nobody: 4:31pm On Sep 28, 2014
ernie4life: am not your son, you hear
lmao..... I hear bros
Re: Very Wise And Inspiring Advice From A Father To His Son Concerning Marriage by iykedare(m): 5:16pm On Sep 28, 2014
FLYGERIAN91: 1. My son, if you keep spending on a woman
and she never asked you if you’re saving or
investing, and she keeps enjoying the attention,
don’t marry her.

2. My son, a woman could be a
good wife to you, some could be a good mother
to your children but if you’ve found a woman
like a mother to you, your children and your
family, please don’t let her go.

5. My son, if you want to have a long life, let
your wife be in- charge of your salary, it will be
difficult for her to spend it when she’s aware of
the home needs and bills to pay but if it’s in
your care, she will keep you asking even when
all has been spent.

9. My son, under the cocoa tree that I did meet
your mother could be your eateries and
restaurants of nowadays, but remember, the
closet thing we did there was to embrace each
other.

10. My son, don’t be carried away when you
start making more money, instead of
spending on those tiny legs that never knew
how hard you worked to get it, spend it on that
woman that stood by you all along.

11. My son, when I threw little stones or
whistled at the window of your mother
father’s house, to call her out, it was not for sex,
it was because I missed her so much.



13. My son, your mother rode the bicycle with
me before I bought that tortoise car
outside there, any woman that won’t endure
with you in your little beginning should not
enjoy your riches.


15. My son, there is this thing you people call
feminism, well, if a woman claim to have equal
right with you in the house,
divide all the bills into two equal parts, take one
part and ask her to start paying the other part.

16. My son, I met your mother a virgin and I
took more yams to her father, if you don’t meet
your wife a virgin, don’t blame
her, what I didn’t tell you is that our women had
prestige.

17. My son, I didn’t send your sisters to school
because I was foolish like many to think a
female child won’t extend my
family name, please don’t make that mistake,
the kind of female achievers I see nowadays has
made the male-gender an ordinary tag.


19. My son, in our days, our women had more
of natural beauty, though I wouldn’t lie to you,
some had minor painting of their appellation
mostly on their arms, the ones you people now
call tattoo, but don’t forget that they didn’t
expose any part of their body like your women of nowadays.

o.
Re: Very Wise And Inspiring Advice From A Father To His Son Concerning Marriage by iykedare(m): 9:13pm On Sep 28, 2014
FLYGERIAN91: 1. My son, if you keep spending on a woman
and she never asked you if you’re saving or
investing, and she keeps enjoying the attention,
don’t marry her.

2. My son, a woman could be a
good wife to you, some could be a good mother
to your children but if you’ve found a woman
like a mother to you, your children and your
family, please don’t let her go.

5. My son, if you want to have a long life, let
your wife be in- charge of your salary, it will be
difficult for her to spend it when she’s aware of
the home needs and bills to pay but if it’s in
your care, she will keep you asking even when
all has been spent.

9. My son, under the cocoa tree that I did meet
your mother could be your eateries and
restaurants of nowadays, but remember, the
closet thing we did there was to embrace each
other.

10. My son, don’t be carried away when you
start making more money, instead of
spending on those tiny legs that never knew
how hard you worked to get it, spend it on that
woman that stood by you all along.

11. My son, when I threw little stones or
whistled at the window of your mother
father’s house, to call her out, it was not for sex,
it was because I missed her so much.



13. My son, your mother rode the bicycle with
me before I bought that tortoise car
outside there, any woman that won’t endure
with you in your little beginning should not
enjoy your riches.


15. My son, there is this thing you people call
feminism, well, if a woman claim to have equal
right with you in the house,
divide all the bills into two equal parts, take one
part and ask her to start paying the other part.

16. My son, I met your mother a virgin and I
took more yams to her father, if you don’t meet
your wife a virgin, don’t blame
her, what I didn’t tell you is that our women had
prestige.

17. My son, I didn’t send your sisters to school
because I was foolish like many to think a
female child won’t extend my
family name, please don’t make that mistake,
the kind of female achievers I see nowadays has
made the male-gender an ordinary tag.


19. My son, in our days, our women had more
of natural beauty, though I wouldn’t lie to you,
some had minor painting of their appellation
mostly on their arms, the ones you people now
call tattoo, but don’t forget that they didn’t
expose any part of their body like your women of nowadays.

o.

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Dad,the women of nowadays only care about guys spending on them. Their " long throat " no get part 2.

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