After my Father died 12 years ago I decided that my Mama stays with me and my daughter.
She was so Sad and lonely and suffering with several sickness (diabetics,high blood pressure) to name a view...

My Coworker told me yesterday that now i'm her 2nd husband
I asked him to explain it to me but he was just laughing
Maybe someone can explain it to me pls and ty

I'm happy to see that she is feeling much better.

I think you did the right thing by allowing your mum to stay with you.

If she's getting better and you are happy with the improvements you see in her condition; that is much you can do for her.

And I know posterity will reward you pleasantly for your care.

Concerning your colleague’s comment.......?

I can read some meanings to your colleague’s comment…. but I am not so sure and I think it is not safe to assume information your have not disclosed in your post.

There are three (3) possible reasons why he said you are your “mum’s second husband”.

so you need more info

Being your mum's second husband means you have stepped into the shoes of your father in filling the vacuum the way you can.

WHAT YOU ARE DOING FOR HER NOW,is what her husband will sure do if he were to be alive,thus;you are husband now

WHAT you are currently doing is what her husband would hav bin doing if he were to be alive,thus;you are her husband o.the position u are occupyin in her life now is what her husband should be taking up

ty all
now I know how it feels to be a husband

Good

It means you have stepped to the shoes your father left,by doing things your dad ought to be doing..

No string attached to what your colleague said,except otherwise stated..