okirewaju: On which side are you anyway?

Mine or his?

your side o

Odilafta:


I lie?

you nor lie jare but ehhnn make up is very essential , that's once in a lifetime something o.

Elantracey:


your side o

Better be

okirewaju: Better be

but answer nau

Elantracey:



but make up shouldn't be a factor na especially if you love him.

So why should it be a factor for him? He doesn't love me perhaps?

Ok. I will use my nude lip gloss, clear mascara, my perfect skin match foundation,then a little talc powder and my brows are naturally fine.
Trust me, he won't know I have makeup on.

Odilafta: I don't have an issue with that at all..It wouldn't stop my wedding..What difference would it make to have all the Mary and Kay's on your face and still look like a messanger of disaster Or all those Aguleri masqurade

it's not even about applying make up or not, heck there are days I go about my business with no make up on.

It's about him dictating to me, didn't he know I wear make up before proposing to me? From "don't wear make up", it enters, "don't go here", "don't talk to so so person", "don't eat this".

Mba I'm not that submissive.

freecocoa: So why should it be a factor for him? He doesn't love me perhaps?

maybe he just prefers natural ladies and realized that on the wedding day .

Elantracey:


maybe he just prefers natural ladies and realized that on the wedding day .

The more reason he isn't the one for me cos believe me, he'll realize many more things about me that he wish wasn't there, if something as simple as makeup could crop up on the wedding day.


I'll pass, thank you.

Elantracey:
This caused a very hot argument in my room the early hours of today so I decided to push the question to Nl ladies .


What will you do if your fiance just wake up on your wedding day and says no make up ? Will you agree and continue the marriage or just call it off ?

He won't be seeing me when he wakes up on the wedding day. and by the time he comes with his people, i should be fully dressed......

why would he even thinking of calling me on the wedding day gangan and telling me no make up........well i don't know what can happen sha

maybe i will tell him not to take his bath nor comb his hair when coming......or tell him that we will sort it out when he comes

I am not a make up person..but my problem is why he will be demanding such from me on the very day in that manner and on phone... haba!!!. i will be afraid for my self o because only God know what he has in his mind for me after the wedding..... maybe no earrings, no trousers, no fixing of weavon, no braids etc abi? That is how he will be coming up with them one by one...

my own case is the opposite. on my introduction day, he called me when they were on their way and told me to ''paint'' my face very well. I overheard someone in the background telling me not to mind him and just do my normal thing......

in my entire everyday life, my make up hardly ever go beyond powder and lip gloss...

Godmystrength: He won't be seeing me when he wakes up on the wedding day. and by the time he comes with his people, i should be fully dressed......

why would he even thinking of calling me on the wedding day gangan and telling me no make up........well i don't know what can happen sha

maybe i will tell him not to take his bath nor comb his hair when coming......or tell him that we will sort it out when he comes

I am not a make up person..but my problem will be why he will be demanding such from me on the very day in that manner and on phone... haba!!!. i will be afraid for my self o because only God know what he has in his mind for me after the wedding..... maybe no earrings, no trousers, no fixing of weavon, no braids etc abi? That is how he will be coming up with them one by one...

my own case is the opposite. on my introduction day, he called me when they were on their way and told me to ''paint'' my face very well. I overheard someone in the background telling me not to mind him and just do my normal thing......

in my entire everyday life, my make up hasn't ever gone beyond powder and lip gloss...

LMAO





He wanted his wife to be very beautiful on his wedding day na

Odilafta: Na from this thread you go take know the ugly babes wey dey nairaland..
Danhumprey beta come and see for yourself

So,what are you insinuating? That a bride without make up is ugly?

Elantracey:



LMAO





He wanted his wife to be very beautiful on his wedding day na

Not even wedding day. na introduction day. I am very beautiful with or without make up. in fact more beautiful without make up.

Beside i believe in doing things right and make up looks like something that takes time which i don't even have.....

I spend a reasonable time for my hair and dressing up but when it comes to make up, i am very lazy. Once i have my brow shaped nicely, no need for pencil. with my powder and gloss, i am good to go....so when you see me without make up, you will know it is because i don't fancy it and not because i am one bush/uncivilized girl..

Danhumprey: So,what are you insinuating? That a bride without make up is ugly?

I mean you should come and have a census of babes that will not go without make up's

Elantracey:
you nor lie jare but ehhnn make up is very essential , that's once in a lifetime something o.

Trust me there are other things like a beautiful wedding gown,cake that can make the day much more memorable

Godmystrength:
Not even wedding day. na introduction day. I am very beautiful with or without make up. in fact more beautiful without make up.

Beside i believe in doing things right and make up looks like something that takes time which i don't even have.....

I spend a reasonable time for my hair and dressing up but when it comes to make up, i am very lazy. Once i have my brow shaped nicely, no need for pencil. with my powder and gloss, i am good to go....so when you see me without make up, you will know it is because i don't fancy it and not because i am one bush/uncivilized girl..

I love your style jare

Odilafta:



Trust me there are other things like a beautiful wedding gown,cake that can make the day much more memorable

come on , with all the sweat and anxiety at least light makeup will do not just nothing at all.

Odilafta:


I mean you should come and have a census of babes that will not go without make up's

I have seen them. 99% of them will rather call off the wedding because of the groom's insistence on 'no make-up' than go ahead with the wedding without make up. Smh. Pure ridiculousness.


It's obvious many ladies want to wed just for appearance sake,to show the world,most especially their fellow females how beautiful they are. That's just pure rubbish!

Danhumprey: I have seen them. 99% of them will rather call off the wedding because of the groom's insistence on 'no make-up' than go ahead with the wedding without make up. Smh. Pure ridiculousness.


It's obvious many ladies want to wed just for appearance sake,to show the world,most especially their fellow females how beautiful they are. That's just pure rubbish!

quit the hypocrisy joor , so i can't just be happy and 'show off' just on my wedding day ?

Danhumprey: I have seen them. 99% of them will rather call off the wedding because of the groom's insistence on 'no make-up' than go ahead with the wedding without make up. Smh. Pure ridiculousness.


It's obvious many ladies want to wed just for appearance sake,to show the world,most especially their fellow females how beautiful they are. That's just pure rubbish!

Don't believe everything you read here.

You should ask and take a consensus on their opinion if it's the church that says no make-up.

Most will obey on that account, trust me... It's just online stubbornness they want to front.

Joavid: Ok. I will use my nude lip gloss, clear mascara, my perfect skin match foundation,then a little talc powder and my brows are naturally fine.
Trust me, he won't know I have makeup on.

Hmmmm... nice answer

Elantracey:


but answer nau

I can go without makeup for my wedding

Not a biggie for me!

If i hear, cancel my wedding, because my hussy refused to allowed me wear a make up, for wat na, is dat not madness?

crackhaus:
Don't believe everything you read here.

You should ask and take a consensus on their opinion if it's the church that says no make-up.

Most will obey on that account, trust me... It's just online stubbornness they want to front.

Ooops! I thought as much. You are right. Thanks.

Elantracey:

quit the hypocrisy joor , so i can't just be happy and 'show off' just on my wedding day ?

You raise up the question of submission on this thread,didn't you?

So,if the groom(husband-to-be) insist on 'no make-up',you won't comply just because you want to be happy?

Then he isnt ready to get married. I will tell him that whenever he is ready he should let me know.
Why did he have to wait until close to the time of the wedding before telling me? wasnt he attracted to me with the make up on all this while? And for what reason is he asking for such? Shows his intentions are questionable. If he really wanted a lady with no make up at all, he could have gone for that kind of lady not me. I won't date such a man in the first place.

By the way, such a man is showing Controlling and domineering tendencies. A trait that is very unattractive on a man. After succumbing to the 'No make-up' rule now, new laws will spring up after marriage.

No problem!

Mehn this makeup thing can be very addictive o. I remember when i wasn't concerned about makeup at all. Wetin be eyebrows or foundation? I still had a lot of chykers sef. It truly isn't by makeup. But if my fiance gives reasonable reasons, nothing much dey there o.

Danhumprey: You raise up the question of submission on this thread,didn't you?

So,if the groom(husband-to-be) insist on 'no make-up',you won't comply just because you want to be happy?

come on , if he says no make up after the wedding or we discuss it exclusively days before the wedding then fine , not on the wedding morning , am not that submissive .

Elantracey:

come on , if he says no make up after the wedding or we discuss it exclusively days before the wedding then fine , not on the wedding morning , am not that submissive .

Seriously? So if he suddenly brought up the issue of 'no make-up' on the wedding day,you won't obey him? You will rather forget your wedding than marry him without make-up on your wedding day?


Well,that says alot about you and girls like you. Smh.

Danhumprey: Seriously? So if he suddenly brought up the issue of 'no make-up' on the wedding day,you won't obey him? You will rather forget your wedding than marry him without make-up on your wedding day?


Well,that says alot about you and girls like you. Smh.

if he could be that possessive when we're not even married I wonder what he'll do when we eventually get married . what happened to mutual understanding?