Hello Pals,
This morning I had a little argument with my peeps on Single-Father ish.
Many of us felt is better to stay with your bae as your wife which is cool. I supported that but another of my friend felt staying alone with a kid or two from a lady is better for him.
I dont know but i think my mind accepted that..
You know.... Staying single, get a bae have a baby or two for you, accept the baby and live with it.

I guess most of us have an idea of the consequences and also advantages..

Lets share our minds...

I'm also a fan of that thinking....these ladies (of nowadays) won't even want you to feel like having one as a wife throughout your lifetime; just get some average woman, impregnate her (even if it's on contract), accept the kid(s) and live your life. Doubt if anything else can be sweeter. My mother just mustn't see this anyways.

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My dear I have a little advice for you. What you see in the church, malls, schools, streets etc are often cleaned up, dulled up, cute, adorable looking kids and i know they make you want to have your own. They are not always like that. It takes the patience of a woman and motherly instincts to take care of a baby 0 - 5years. I dare you get two little puppies and live with them first if you can't then respect yourself.

Nobody shouldn't wish to be a single parent. It's not easy and children need a mother and a father.

Single parenthood is for those who have no better options but everyone should FIRST try to raise kids in the setting of a natural family.

There is nothing wrong with being a single father if other options are worse or not available.

Smh

Woged2005: My dear I have a little advice for you. What you see in the church, malls, schools, streets etc are often cleaned up, dulled up, cute, adorable looking kids and i know they make you want to have your own. They are not always like that. It takes the patience of a woman and motherly instincts to take care of a baby 0 - 5years. I dare you get two little puppies and live with them first if you can't then respect yourself.

Two little puppies you said, Thatz not a cool example for me coz i sleep with dogs ooo we have many of them at home. i'm the one who takes care of the mother when and after giving birth, including her puppies. So thatz by the way.

Anyway, i still get your point. but it cant be just the mother instincts , the father too will play a part.

carefreewannabe: Nobody shouldn't wish to be a single parent. It's not easy and children need a mother and a father.

Single parenthood is for those who have no better options but everyone should FIRST try to raise kids in the setting of a natural family.

There is nothing wrong with being a single father if other options are worse or not available.

ON POINT LADY!!

Cwaya:

ON POINT LADY!!

A child needs to grow surrounded by the strength of a father and the love of a mother. Each parent plays a role in a child's development. Fatherhood is way beyond sperm and a wallet but the presence of security the mother and child feel.

Pavore9: A child needs to grow surrounded by the strength of a father and the love of a mother. Each parent plays a role in a child's development. Fatherhood is way beyond sperm and a wallet but the presence of security the mother and child feel.

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hawdi: I'm also a fan of that thinking....these ladies (of nowadays) won't even want you to feel like having one as a wife throughout your lifetime; just get some average woman, impregnate her (even if it's on contract), accept the kid(s) and live your life. Doubt if anything else can be sweeter. My mother just mustn't see this anyways.

Gbam!

Woged2005: My dear I have a little advice for you. What you see in the church, malls, schools, streets etc are often cleaned up, dulled up, cute, adorable looking kids and i know they make you want to have your own. They are not always like that. It takes the patience of a woman and motherly instincts to take care of a baby 0 - 5years. I dare you get two little puppies and live with them first if you can't then respect yourself.

GBAMER!!

carefreewannabe: Nobody shouldn't wish to be a single parent. It's not easy and children need a mother and a father.

Single parenthood is for those who have no better options but everyone should FIRST try to raise kids in the setting of a natural family.

There is nothing wrong with being a single father if other options are worse or not available.

GBAMEST!!!

that's what i intend to do the moment an financially comfortable

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