Most abusers come from the family ... but what would YOU do??

“I would go down on my knees and pray!”


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-H6Y7t1qeNs

Ah - I don gree with some of these people - they would get EYE sharp sharp!!

ok o

The thread title is at variance with the topic of the video

The video says what will u do if your husband or brother is sexually molesting your female child..

Guess male children cant be assaulted sexually or females cant molest female children

as in eeen! I'm tire of some posters on NL. Is it only the female child that get abused some Aunties abuse male children too

A friend told me of someone she knows who's husband molests the son. At a particular point she had to take the boy to a doctor for stitching and neither the doctor nor the mother or even my friend who she confided in thought to report to the police .Worst part is she's still with the man with her child in that house getting molested the things some people do and I'm sure if you ask her she'll say God hates divorce so she can't leave and because of the shame she can't report him. The heart of men and women is truly desperately wicked, I don't know how a woman will pick being called Mrs over the safety if her child or she thinks it's not a sin to watch a child be molested and do nothing to stop it

adebisicutie: A friend told me of someone she knows who's husband molests the son. At a particular point she had to take the boy to a doctor for stitching and neither the doctor nor the mother or even my friend who she confided in thought to report to the police .Worst part is she's still with the man with her child in that house getting molested the things some people do and I'm sure if you ask her she'll say God hates divorce so she can't leave and because of the shame she can't report him. The heart of men and women is truly desperately wicked, I don't know how a woman will pick being called Mrs over the safety if her child or she thinks it's not a sin to watch a child be molested and do nothing to stop it

na waaaaaa @adebisicutie where are the police ooo??

I could barely sleep that night , I was just thinking to myself that what kind of Doctor would sew up a little boy's bum and not report to the police? He or she can't claim not to know that the boy must have been molested. I wish I knew more of the details so that I could at least tip off the police or an appropriate NGO.

I'll kill the partner with my bare hands
Anybody messes with my baby and it's to kill he person straight up (no negotiations)

If my partner abuses my child sexually, the relationship is automatically over. I will inform the police and the ministry of women's affairs, I won't make it a family affair at all. A man that can do that is capable of doing anything, he is a beast and does not worth staying with.

sweetlady4real: If my partner abuses my child sexually, the relationship is automatically over. I will inform the police and the ministry of women's affairs, I won't make it a family affair at all. A man that can do that is capable of doing anything, he is a beast and does not worth staying with.

Absolutely right. divorce straight up. If I dnt divorce him, i would be tempted to kill him.

Any woman who won't protect her children from child abuse in the family, from husband or not, doesn't deserve to be called a mother.

There is only one reason why I wouldn't kill someone who, God forbid, abuses my pikin and the reason is that I want my kids to have a mother, especially in such a situation.

carefreewannabe: Any woman who won't protect her children from child abuse in the family, from husband or not, doesn't deserve to be called a mother.

There is only one reason why I wouldn't kill someone who, God forbid, abuses my pikin and the reason is that I want my kids to have a mother, especially in such a situation.

What do you mean?

crackhaus:
What do you mean?

If I killed the person who did something so outrageous to my kids, then I would go to jail and my kids would grow up without me.

carefreewannabe: Any woman who won't protect her children from child abuse in the family, from husband or not, doesn't deserve to be called a mother.

Seconded

Sophyrocks:

Seconded

Mother instincts

carefreewannabe:

If I killed the person who did something so outrageous to my kids, then I would go to jail and my kids would grow up without me.

I see.

carefreewannabe:

Mother instincts

Of course. Any woman who calls herself a MOTHER must protect her children. Its absolutely absurd and totally abnormal for any woman to choose her marital status over the welfare of her children. Not normal at all. Such a woman needs to see a psychiatrist and be taught all over again what Motherhood is about.

Sophyrocks:

Of course. Any woman who calls herself a MOTHER must protect her children. Its absolutely absurd and totally abnormal for any woman to choose her marital status over the welfare of her children. Not normal at all. Such a woman needs to see a psychiatrist and be taught all over again what Motherhood is about.

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carefreewannabe:

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Sophyrocks:

Of course. Any woman who calls herself a MOTHER must protect her children. Its absolutely absurd and totally abnormal for any woman to choose her marital status over the welfare of her children. Not normal at all. Such a woman needs to see a psychiatrist and be taught all over again what Motherhood is about.

. You are absolutely right.