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If A Couple Has Sex Are They Married? by OLAADEGBU(m): 8:10am On Oct 01, 2014
‪Does having sex equal marriage? If an unmarried couple has sex does God consider them married?

http://www.gotquestions.org/sex-equal-marriage.html

Re: If A Couple Has Sex Are They Married? by Tomics(m): 8:20am On Oct 01, 2014
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Re: If A Couple Has Sex Are They Married? by Nobody: 8:21am On Oct 01, 2014
There is no Personified God. God like Love,Happiness,Joy etc are qualities not quantities. Stop misusing the word "God" it is not a person, it cannot say anything about sex.

Sex is beautiful, Marriage is unnecessary. As long as sexy is not forced,it ain't a problem.

There is no Rapture. You are destined to die on this planet. Get busy with better reasonings!
Re: If A Couple Has Sex Are They Married? by naturally: 8:46am On Oct 01, 2014
Lol, so funny and contradictory
Re: If A Couple Has Sex Are They Married? by Hollyb(f): 10:22am On Oct 01, 2014
yes, if two unmarried people have sex it means they've joined themselves together to become one. Cos in the right sense, it is sex that makes two become one in marriage

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Re: If A Couple Has Sex Are They Married? by Doclight(m): 4:49pm On Oct 01, 2014
Hollyb: yes, if two unmarried people have sex it means they've joined themselves together to become one. Cos in the right sense, it is sex that makes two become one in marriage
please stop decieving yoirself

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Re: If A Couple Has Sex Are They Married? by Hollyb(f): 5:10pm On Oct 01, 2014
Doclight: please stop decieving yoirself
please go and study your bible very well. That pre marital sex is the in thing now doesn't mean it is acceptable by God. God's clear injunction is that the marriage bed should be undefiled if you know what that means

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Re: If A Couple Has Sex Are They Married? by Doclight(m): 5:12pm On Oct 01, 2014
Hollyb: please go and study your bible very well. That pre marital sex is the in thing now doesn't mean it is acceptable by God. God's clear injunction is that the marriage bed should be undefiled if you know what that means
sorry!!!
Re: If A Couple Has Sex Are They Married? by Hollyb(f): 5:15pm On Oct 01, 2014
Doclight: sorry!!!
There's nothing to be sorry about. To each his own

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Re: If A Couple Has Sex Are They Married? by Doclight(m): 5:16pm On Oct 01, 2014
Hollyb: There's nothing to be sorry about. To each his own
1000likes!!!
*Feeling sorry*
Re: If A Couple Has Sex Are They Married? by Hollyb(f): 5:52pm On Oct 01, 2014
Doclight: 1000likes!!!
*Feeling sorry*
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Re: If A Couple Has Sex Are They Married? by OLAADEGBU(m): 10:09pm On Oct 01, 2014
Hollyb:

yes, if two unmarried people have sex it means they've joined themselves together to become one. Cos in the right sense, it is sex that makes two become one in marriage

Do you mean they get married at the time of the act or thereafter? undecided
Re: If A Couple Has Sex Are They Married? by Hollyb(f): 10:20pm On Oct 01, 2014
OLAADEGBU:

Do you mean they get married at the time of the act or thereafter? undecided
it means once you av sex outside marriage, the spiritual implication is dat you are already one wit the person. So if you commit fornication with 5 girls it means you are joined with those five girls.
Re: If A Couple Has Sex Are They Married? by Nobody: 10:25pm On Oct 01, 2014
ifeness: There is no Personified God. God like Love,Happiness,Joy etc are qualities not quantities. Stop misusing the word "God" it is not a person, it cannot say anything about sex.

Sex is beautiful, Marriage is unnecessary. As long as sexy is not forced,it ain't a problem.

There is no Rapture. You are destined to die on this planet. Get busy will better reasonings!
Get well soon
Re: If A Couple Has Sex Are They Married? by OLAADEGBU(m): 10:27pm On Oct 01, 2014
Hollyb:

it means once you av sex outside marriage, the spiritual implication is dat you are already one wit the person. So if you commit fornication with 5 girls it means you are joined with those five girls.

Would that be just in the sight of God or in the sight of man and God?
Re: If A Couple Has Sex Are They Married? by Doclight(m): 10:29pm On Oct 01, 2014
OLAADEGBU:

Would that be just in the sight of God or in the sight of man and God?
waste not! Want not!
It's a faceless forum, you expect anything.
Re: If A Couple Has Sex Are They Married? by OLAADEGBU(m): 11:59pm On Oct 01, 2014
OLAADEGBU:

‪Does having sex equal marriage? If an unmarried couple has sex does God consider them married?

http://www.gotquestions.org/sex-equal-marriage.html

Question: "If an unmarried couple has sex, are they married in God's eyes?"

Answer: It is true that sexual relations is the ultimate fulfillment of a couple becoming “one flesh” (Genesis 2:24). However, the act of sex does not equal marriage. If that were so, there would be no such thing as premarital sex—once a couple had sex, they would be married. The Bible calls premarital sex “fornication.” It is repeatedly condemned in Scripture along with all other forms of sexual immorality (Acts 15:20; 1 Corinthians 5:1; 6:13,18; 10:8; Galatians 5:19; Ephesians 5:3; Colossians 3:5; 1 Thessalonians 4:3; Jude 7). The Bible promotes abstinence before marriage as the standard of godliness. Sex before marriage is just as wrong as adultery and other forms of sexual immorality because they all involve having sex with someone other than your spouse.

If an unmarried couple has sex, does that mean they are married? The Bible gives us no reason to believe this to be the case. The act of sexual relations may have made them for a moment physically joined, but that does not mean God has joined them together as husband and wife. Sex is an important aspect of marriage, the physical act of marriage. Sex between unmarried people, though, does not equal marriage.

Read more: http://www.gotquestions.org/sex-equal-marriage.html#ixzz3Ew9pwBMP
Re: If A Couple Has Sex Are They Married? by Goshen360(m): 5:21am On Oct 02, 2014
OLAADEGBU:

Question: "If an unmarried couple has sex, are they married in God's eyes?"

Answer: It is true that sexual relations is the ultimate fulfillment of a couple becoming “one flesh” (Genesis 2:24). However, the act of sex does not equal marriage. If that were so, there would be no such thing as premarital sex—once a couple had sex, they would be married. The Bible calls premarital sex “fornication.” It is repeatedly condemned in Scripture along with all other forms of sexual immorality (Acts 15:20; 1 Corinthians 5:1; 6:13,18; 10:8; Galatians 5:19; Ephesians 5:3; Colossians 3:5; 1 Thessalonians 4:3; Jude 7). The Bible promotes abstinence before marriage as the standard of godliness. Sex before marriage is just as wrong as adultery and other forms of sexual immorality because they all involve having sex with someone other than your spouse.

If an unmarried couple has sex, does that mean they are married? The Bible gives us no reason to believe this to be the case. The act of sexual relations may have made them for a moment physically joined, but that does not mean God has joined them together as husband and wife. Sex is an important aspect of marriage, the physical act of marriage. Sex between unmarried people, though, does not equal marriage.

Read more: http://www.gotquestions.org/sex-equal-marriage.html#ixzz3Ew9pwBMP

The Bible calls premarital sex “fornication.” It is repeatedly condemned in Scripture along with all other forms of sexual immorality (Acts 15:20; 1 Corinthians 5:1; 6:13,18; 10:8; Galatians 5:19; Ephesians 5:3; Colossians 3:5; 1 Thessalonians 4:3; Jude 7). The Bible promotes abstinence before marriage as the standard of godliness. Sex before marriage is just as wrong as adultery and other forms of sexual immorality because they all involve having sex with someone other than your spouse.

I checked all of those scriptures you provided. NONE, absolutely NONE said fornication IS EQUAL TO pre-marital sexx. You keep following some websites and when called upon to discuss these things in context and by word meanings, you will still be finding another site to defend the one you already have. Stop adding to the word of God.

If you pick one of those scriptures after the other and dig into them, contextually and by Greek word meanings, none of them comes to your man made definition that the BIBLE CALLS pre-marital sex fornication. If you insist however that pre-marital sex IS fornication, then you need to show scriptures saying exactly that. Else, you will be adding to the word.

Also, check the Greek meaning and also many translations, none said or called fornication pre-marital sex.
Re: If A Couple Has Sex Are They Married? by OLAADEGBU(m): 3:50am On Oct 04, 2014
Goshen360:

The Bible calls premarital sex “fornication.” It is repeatedly condemned in Scripture along with all other forms of sexual immorality (Acts 15:20; 1 Corinthians 5:1; 6:13,18; 10:8; Galatians 5:19; Ephesians 5:3; Colossians 3:5; 1 Thessalonians 4:3; Jude 7). The Bible promotes abstinence before marriage as the standard of godliness. Sex before marriage is just as wrong as adultery and other forms of sexual immorality because they all involve having sex with someone other than your spouse.

I checked all of those scriptures you provided. NONE, absolutely NONE said fornication IS EQUAL TO pre-marital sexx. You keep following some websites and when called upon to discuss these things in context and by word meanings, you will still be finding another site to defend the one you already have. Stop adding to the word of God.

If you pick one of those scriptures after the other and dig into them, contextually and by Greek word meanings, none of them comes to your man made definition that the BIBLE CALLS pre-marital sex fornication. If you insist however that pre-marital sex IS fornication, then you need to show scriptures saying exactly that. Else, you will be adding to the word.

Also, check the Greek meaning and also many translations, none said or called fornication pre-marital sex.

If you don't believe that fornication is pre marital sex, do you consider fornication or pre-marital sex to be a sexually immoral act?

Do you believe in abstinence before marriage?
Re: If A Couple Has Sex Are They Married? by OLAADEGBU(m): 4:32pm On Oct 04, 2014
"Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body" (1 Corinthians 6:18)

6:18 fornication. In Biblical usage, "fornication" can mean any sexual congress outside monogamous marriage. It thus includes not only premarital sex, but also adultery, homosexual acts, incest, remarriage after un-Biblical divorce, and sexual acts with animals, all of which are explicitly forbidden in the law as given through Moses (e.g., Leviticus 20:10-21). Christ expanded the prohibition against adultery to include even sexual lusting" (Matthew 5:28.)
Re: If A Couple Has Sex Are They Married? by OLAADEGBU(m): 9:20pm On Oct 18, 2014
Where is Goshen360 to answer the question posed to him? Has he gone MIA again? shocked
Re: If A Couple Has Sex Are They Married? by Goshen360(m): 12:41am On Oct 19, 2014
OLAADEGBU:
Where is Goshen360 to answer the question posed to him? Has he gone MIA again? shocked

I will engage in this discussion on two grounds if you will agree to the terms stated below:

1. If you will not go to your regular website to copy and paste answers here.

2. We will get to the root of words and contextual usage or meaning as we explain scriptures.

3. You will answer my questions without evasion by style and support your answers with scripture. ...explaining such scriptures in context, if possible with word meanings.

If you agree to these, let me know and I'll be on watch out for your response and come back to the discussion.
Re: If A Couple Has Sex Are They Married? by OLAADEGBU(m): 1:10am On Oct 19, 2014
Goshen360:


I will engage in this discussion on two grounds if you will agree to the terms stated below:

1. If you will not go to your regular website to copy and paste answers here.

2. We will get to the root of words and contextual usage or meaning as we explain scriptures.

3. You will answer my questions without evasion by style and support your answers with scripture. ...explaining such scriptures in context, if possible with word meanings.

If you agree to these, let me know and I'll be on watch out for your response and come back to the discussion.

It's either you answer the question or not. Don't come here demanding legal contracts as conditions for debate. angry

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Re: If A Couple Has Sex Are They Married? by Goshen360(m): 1:30am On Oct 19, 2014
OLAADEGBU:


It's either you answer the question or not. Don't come here demanding legal contracts as conditions for debate. angry

I knew you're going to come up with something like this.
Re: If A Couple Has Sex Are They Married? by OLAADEGBU(m): 2:00pm On Oct 20, 2014
Goshen360:


I knew you're going to come up with something like this.

Answer the kweshuns. No long story.
Re: If A Couple Has Sex Are They Married? by OLAADEGBU(m): 3:10pm On Oct 28, 2014
Odilafta:


Get well soon

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Re: If A Couple Has Sex Are They Married? by OLAADEGBU(m): 7:36pm On Nov 05, 2014
OLAADEGBU:


If you don't believe that fornication is pre marital sex, do you consider fornication or pre-marital sex to be a sexually immoral act?

Do you believe in abstinence before marriage?

Who knows why Goshen evaded these questions? undecided

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Re: If A Couple Has Sex Are They Married? by OLAADEGBU(m): 7:38pm On Nov 05, 2014
Hollyb:


yes, if two unmarried people have sex it means they've joined themselves together to become one. Cos in the right sense, it is sex that makes two become one in marriage

Are you saying premarital sex is right?
Re: If A Couple Has Sex Are They Married? by OLAADEGBU(m): 7:41pm On Nov 05, 2014
Hollyb:


please go and study your bible very well. That pre marital sex is the in thing now doesn't mean it is acceptable by God. God's clear injunction is that the marriage bed should be undefiled if you know what that means

Agreed. Why did you say that sex between two unmarried people becomes marriage in God's sight?
Re: If A Couple Has Sex Are They Married? by Hollyb(f): 7:49pm On Nov 05, 2014
OLAADEGBU:


Are you saying premarital sex is right?
i'm sayin that pre marital sex is wrong. Very very wrong
Re: If A Couple Has Sex Are They Married? by OLAADEGBU(m): 7:52pm On Nov 05, 2014
Hollyb:


i'm sayin that pre marital sex is wrong. Very very wrong

God bless you my sister. So Goshen and his WoF movement are on their own.
Re: If A Couple Has Sex Are They Married? by OLAADEGBU(m): 7:53pm On Nov 05, 2014
Marriage Is Honourable...

"Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge" (Hebrews 13:4)

Ever since the divine union of Adam and Eve, the institution of marriage has been between a man and woman. However, the "bed" has often been defiled, with all kinds of sexual perversions. Homosexual behaviour is often mentioned in the Bible, and always explicitly condemned, even being called an "abomination" by the Lord (Leviticus 18:22). Adultery, fornication, prostitution, incest, bestiality, and all forms of sexual practice outside of heterosexual marriage relations are also condemned. Indeed, "God hath made man upright; but they have sought out many inventions" (Ecclesiastes 7:29).

Yes, but times have changed, we are told. The so-called "gay" life-style is now a normal option, they say, and even "same-sex" marriages are acceptable. Premarital sex, as well as adultery, are very common today, all over the world, often even impacting Christian homes and churches. Indeed, the world has changed!

But God has not changed, and His commandments and purposes have not changed. "For I am the Lord, I change not" (Malachi 3:6) He says. In the last book of the Bible, the glorified Christ said that "the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death" (Revelation 21:8.)

The Greek word for "whoremongers," incidentally, includes anyone who practices or promotes illicit sex of any kind and the Bible says that "whoremongers and adulterers God will judge." However, God will forgive and purge away any of these sins when they are repudiated and Christ is accepted as Saviour. HMM

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