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Re: Any Man That Can't Provide The Basic Need For His Family Is Highly Irresponsible by jaybee3(m): 4:00pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
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Re: Any Man That Can't Provide The Basic Need For His Family Is Highly Irresponsible by jaybee3(m): 4:02pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
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Re: Any Man That Can't Provide The Basic Need For His Family Is Highly Irresponsible by Nobody: 4:03pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
jaybee3: |
Re: Any Man That Can't Provide The Basic Need For His Family Is Highly Irresponsible by Nobody: 4:04pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
jaybee3: Ole |
Re: Any Man That Can't Provide The Basic Need For His Family Is Highly Irresponsible by shizzle11(m): 4:27pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
chaircover: First of all I dont have to open all threads talk less of commenting on all of them . . .Do you know how many threads are on NL?There are quite a number of threads on NL, lets both agree you didnt open the thread. Secondly i know you've always had an independent mind on NL. As for gender wars, feminism or menimism, or whatever count me out cos I dont have time for it.I know you are not a feminist and i have never mistaken you to be one, i only made reference to 'them' with regards to the thread i talked about, cos i noticed feminists had a swell day on the thread and surprisingly even non-feminists joined them in their dance of shame all in a bid to defend a 'shameless' woman who cannot cook. All this femmenism and menenism (I cant even spell it sef) is just internet mouth braggado to me . .. . Many of you go home to wifes, husbands, mums, dads, sisters, brothers, nephews and neices so I dont really understand what all the gender war is about.May God increase your blessings for the bolded, most of them are mere loud-mouthed internet noise-makers although many of them in their delusion would still argue it. For the records, i am not gender-biased and will never be. I am very logical when it comes to gender-based issues and tackle them individually rather than go on needless offensive/defensive in support of the male gender Its a shame you are so into this gender war thing that you were unable to read between the lines of my post. I was in actual fact talking to both men and women In my second post which has not been modified and I was subtly pointing out to women not to look at a mans pocket alone as the only means of picking the right man but look at the man as a whole so they dont end up telling stories that touch.I re-iterate, i am not into that gender bashing nonsense. Anti-feminism-YES! Death to any such movement/idea that will tell me men and women are equal....God punish devil as per reading between the lines, i read and understood the comment and wasnt oblivious of the points you made which i concur with, alas it was more balanced and fair compared to your first comment that was more like taking a swipe at men . Glad to hear you re-affirm your stand on feminism, 'those' women need to understand that there are some laws of nature that cannot be up-turned no matter how much they tried. It is indeed well |
Re: Any Man That Can't Provide The Basic Need For His Family Is Highly Irresponsible by Nobody: 4:54pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
Nothing is ever black or white. I know of a couple where the woman encourages hubby to club and spend time with his friends. That's how her father also did and it's perfectly normal to her. To her, a married man with kids coming home at 1 am is not a sign of irresponsibility. As for providing for the home, a man should and so should a woman. It's the responsibility of both parties to provide, take care of the kids and make decisions. Times have changed. A woman who can't provide is also irresponsible. |
Re: Any Man That Can't Provide The Basic Need For His Family Is Highly Irresponsible by SAMBARRY: 8:35pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
chaircover:lobatan |
Re: Any Man That Can't Provide The Basic Need For His Family Is Highly Irresponsible by Nobody: 10:18pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
If the thread was bashing women it was definitely going to make fp 1 Like |
Re: Any Man That Can't Provide The Basic Need For His Family Is Highly Irresponsible by KingTom(m): 10:21pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
Mondisweets: If the thread was bashing women it was definitely going to make fp |
Re: Any Man That Can't Provide The Basic Need For His Family Is Highly Irresponsible by Nobody: 10:26pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
KingTom:na lie? 1 Like |
Re: Any Man That Can't Provide The Basic Need For His Family Is Highly Irresponsible by KingTom(m): 10:30pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
Mondisweets: na lie?Big lie |
Re: Any Man That Can't Provide The Basic Need For His Family Is Highly Irresponsible by Nobody: 10:37pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
KingTom: |
Re: Any Man That Can't Provide The Basic Need For His Family Is Highly Irresponsible by KingTom(m): 10:39pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
Mondisweets:How you dey joor? |
Re: Any Man That Can't Provide The Basic Need For His Family Is Highly Irresponsible by Nobody: 10:50pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
KingTom:i dey o |
Re: Any Man That Can't Provide The Basic Need For His Family Is Highly Irresponsible by KingTom(m): 10:51pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
Mondisweets: i dey oWhat happened to your nice pics na |
Re: Any Man That Can't Provide The Basic Need For His Family Is Highly Irresponsible by Nobody: 10:54pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
KingTom:have u seen it? |
Re: Any Man That Can't Provide The Basic Need For His Family Is Highly Irresponsible by KingTom(m): 10:56pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
Mondisweets: have u seen it?Ah abeg keep that one for the wooing challenge. nice |
Re: Any Man That Can't Provide The Basic Need For His Family Is Highly Irresponsible by Nobody: 10:57pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
KingTom:i wont be part of any NL wooing o |
Re: Any Man That Can't Provide The Basic Need For His Family Is Highly Irresponsible by KingTom(m): 11:00pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
Mondisweets: i wont be part of any NL wooing oWhy not |
Re: Any Man That Can't Provide The Basic Need For His Family Is Highly Irresponsible by Nobody: 11:04pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
KingTom:im now a married woman, plus im pregnant too |
Re: Any Man That Can't Provide The Basic Need For His Family Is Highly Irresponsible by KingTom(m): 11:05pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
Mondisweets: im now a married woman, plus im pregnant too***Swallows bone*** Chineke! When? how? who? Whaat! |
Re: Any Man That Can't Provide The Basic Need For His Family Is Highly Irresponsible by Nobody: 11:08pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
KingTom:dont worry i saved your jollof rice for u |
Re: Any Man That Can't Provide The Basic Need For His Family Is Highly Irresponsible by AfricanApple(f): 11:09pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
see una life, see their comments, if na about woman's irresponsibility now, pages for don full. tufia |
Re: Any Man That Can't Provide The Basic Need For His Family Is Highly Irresponsible by KingTom(m): 11:09pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
Mondisweets: dont worry i saved your jollof rice for uAh then that means I am really old o |
Re: Any Man That Can't Provide The Basic Need For His Family Is Highly Irresponsible by Nobody: 11:12pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
KingTom:why do u say that? |
Re: Any Man That Can't Provide The Basic Need For His Family Is Highly Irresponsible by kidiata(m): 11:20am On Sep 21, 2018 |
It is not "Any man that can't provide the basic need..." It is "Anyone that cannot provide... " This passage refers to both men and women, not just men Taking care of a home is the responsibility of the parents, which include man and woman. Though it may not appear wise trying to enforce a woman to contribute to the upkeep of the home, it's irresponsible woman (or man) that abdicate her responsibility. 'One can put a thousand to flight, and two ten thousand'. The reason for marriage is for companionship, for union, synergy; not as opponents. Not as parasites. In the days these statements were made, a man and his wife and children go to the farm together, to provide for their family. Note, the man supplies the sperm and the woman supplies the egg. Abuse is inevitable, if you don’t know the use of a thing: It's those who do not know the essence of a thing (including marriage) that abuses such. |
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