I hav been married for over a year now and because of what i learnt from my mum,i always thank my honey after we have eaten together but sometimes i just get this feeling that i should also be thanked for preparing the food (he does that a few times tho). I dont know if it wrong. In your honest opinion, is it only the person that brought the money for the cooking that should be appreciated, or do u believe like me that the person who took time to prepare that food should also be appreciated?

Appreciate the one that giveth. And the one that cooketh but not the one that eateth.

Both

It's the other way round in my home but both should be appreciated. I don't even see the necessity of the appreciation thing after a mere meal .

nd dat is ur probswhu shuld b apprecated after meal


well d both of u shuld thank urself
he got d money,,,u cooked d meal...

BOTH!

They should thank GOD. Not themselves

Nobody! Just eat and go to bed!

Appreciation is not needed. You both played your roles.

He brought the money, you cooked the food.

You say thank you after eating and he in turn says thanks for the nice meal.

Humility is a virtue, when you start looking for whose right it is, that is where the problem lies. Even on days that I decide to make something special for the weekend, I buy everything with my money and still do the cooking, I still thank my husband. By the way, I learnt this on a thread on nl where people were for and against it, I tried it out and liked it, so I continued.