naijaboiy:

True talk bro...

Some people don't really deserve your silence,,sometimes you need to tongue lash them small to put them back in place...

But in a clever and tactical manner tho

ggrin:

Kachisbarbie:


God bless you for this post.
I can guarantee you it's very true...I once commented on a post and 1 guy jumped on my comment and called me a c*nt and he pities my husband. I was wondering what brought about that and even involved my innocent husband in the post.
When I checked out his page...I saw he was trying to run(running) a Msc programme - then I wondered how the nation can get any better : if a graduate can reason like that. I also discovered he frequents this page on 'lovers of WEED'...then I understood his case...lol.

I bet you - no human, that went to school and the school passed through him/her...would come to NL and be insulting people about - no matter what

fuckshit:
FÜCKING nice one

Vikky014:
FUCKSHIT.CAN I ATTACK U? ;DERRM.STP FUCKI*G AROUND.

fuckshit:
FÜCK!! fuckshit would be FÜCKING grateful if you don't but would FÜCKING encourage you to have fun.

FÜCK!! without FÜCKING hurting no one

fuckshit:
FÜCK!! fuckshit would be FÜCKING grateful if you don't but would FÜCKING encourage you to have fun.

FÜCK!! without FÜCKING hurting no one

Vikky014:
U SMOKE WEEEEEED!

Tallesty1:
I now believe that people's name influence their character

fuckshit:
your FÜCKING right

fuckshit:
FÜCK!! Nope, not even in my FÜCKING dreams. FÜCKING hate that stuff #not FÜCKING being offensive here

fuckshit:
your FÜCKING right

Vikky014:
FUCKSHIT FUCKSHIT.

Tallesty1:
Chai.



You get wahala no be small

chibwike:
Fückshiit!

fuckshit:
FÜCK!! my MOTHERFÜCKING name; am right here

fuckshit:
FÜCK!! my MOTHERFÜCKING name; am right here

Vikky014:
pls show me ur.fuc**ng face nah.

fuckshit:
FÜCK!! naw! ain't gonna FÜCKING do that shït

Tallesty1:
Nna m ukwu.


I didn't attack the guy.

I was only trying to make sure that peace reigned.

fabiano09:

Exactly,destructive criticism,check my story THE GIRL,she was d first to comment,go look for urself wat she commented n tel me if shes right to b dt insensitive.

kullozone:

creative writeup bro @THE GIRL.
i lv ur replies too...lol

Tallesty1:
Sometimes I see people attacking each other on Nland I'd wonder why on earth would some spend good time online firing shots at a person you don't even know?

When a negative comment pops up or an attacker fires at you on Nland.

There is always an instantaneous urge to fire back but the right thing to do is to hold yourself and not sink to the attackers level.

I can remember the first time I was attacked here. I gave my opinion on a question one lady asked and the first mention I got was "YOU ARE FOOL

I wanted to fire back immediately but then I remembered that some people are really going through hard times these days. Yea......They come online full of frustration, anger, and disappointment, etc. As all these pile up, they'd need a place to dump them, so I told myself that I am not and cannot be their dump site. Maybe he would have said more if I had replied.

Here Are Few Things You Should Do To Keep Your Cool When Attacked.

1: Don't react immediately.Take a moment to gather your thoughts before saying or doing anything, no matter how much the comment may have stung. If you know you have a bad temper, or are prone to angry outburst then close the tab immediately and think about what was said.

2: Ask a question rather than making a statement. This is really important. Try and find out why he/she is attacking you Instead of firing back. It could be a result of misconception of your standpoint. Remember not everyone here is an adult.

3: Be gentle. No matter what the response is from that person who's going off on you, you must maintain your cool. In the end, if you are kindly and gentle in your response to that person, s/he is the one who will end up looking bad to others. A lady once fired a shot at me. She said "You are an ediot" I told her that I know cause some already told me. No matter what kind of person you're dealing with, the only thing you need to worry about is what kind of person you are. Remember you have followers that see you as a responsible person.

4: Don’t freak out. Suspend judgment. Don’t take what has been said personally. Resist the urge to react right away
Instead, take a deep breath, scroll up and read the Op and your comment once again. Maybe you made a mistake somewhere and the person(due to lack of manners) is correcting you in a terrible way. If the comment is ok then let it slide. If there is an error then correct it and move on

Sometimes the best thing one can say is to say Nothing at all.

These are the few things that help me.

If you know of any that isn't listed here please add it let's learn.

DICKtator:


Eediot!!!!!

Tallesty1:
Silence has the power to get people to think. It is so powerful that even fools understand the message it passes across.

TrishaP:

It's not that easy to be mute.

I do that alot but God knows how burnt I do feel inside whenever someone spits venom on me. Talking from a fresher experience, this girl did and all I did was keep mute. Till today, I'm still wondering why I never talked back when I had more than a million things to say. Just for peace to reign, I had to digest all the blame, So painful!!!..Sometimes I do wonder y I can't do to people the exact thing they do to me Or say to me...Sometimes I call myself a coward for not expressing my feelings, but I guess grew up like that and it has kinda helped in a way.

Tallesty1:
It is not cowardice my dear, that's bravery.

It is not easy to control your temper and thoughts at thesame time.

But still we have to try because firing back lowers one to the attackers level.

TrishaP:

Tnx. Words of encouragement is all I need.
Gdmg

Tallesty1:
Morning dearie.

You seem to be an early riser like me?

#Respect#
I'm trying on putting such into action.