hello nairaland
while i was surfing the net some few hours back i saw a topic where a man is complaining saying his wife off her cloth and even chatting with her brother with just bra.
my question is, is it ok for a married woman to stay unclad in the presence of her siblings?

I don't know if it is ok but I don't do it in front of my brother. I find it awkward.
We are not twins though.

The woman must be local no happening babe we do such a thing

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The woman must be local no happening babe we do such a thing

dont b shocked wen u even hear the so called happening babes doing it

realestworld:


dont b shocked wen u even hear the so called happening babes doing it

bro that happening babe must be the 20th century happening babe the 21st century happening babe will only do that to a guy she wants to bang

... Uncloth in front of my siblings that are males That's insane... Even as a single girl, I don't do it, no matter the closeness, not to talk of being married..

We should have our boundaries, pls ...

Must y'all ask every damn question on NL?
Una no get brain ni?
Whatever whoever feels comfortable doing its whoever's business

Sleekyshuga:
... Uncloth in front of my siblings that are males That's insane... Even as a single girl, I don't do it, no matter the closeness, not to talk of being married..

We should have our boundaries, pls ...

I feel der shud b boundaries,I can't UnCloth in d presence of my siblings but odas c notin rong in it. Remember visiting my fiance's family and his yonga sis came in2 our rum havin just wrapper round her waist and a bare chest,not even a bra on o . And nobody saw notin rong wit it.

mamziii:
I feel der shud b boundaries,I can't UnCloth in d presence of my siblings but odas c notin rong in it. Remember visiting my fiance's family and his yonga sis came in2 our rum havin just wrapper round her waist and a bare chest,not even a bra on o . And nobody saw notin rong wit it.

Lyk seriously We weren't brought up that way, abeg... What's dah

The do's and dont's for naija married women too much.

Sleekyshuga:
... Uncloth in front of my siblings that are males That's insane... Even as a single girl, I don't do it, no matter the closeness, not to talk of being married..

We should have our boundaries, pls ...

There's nothing insane about it.Families are different.If you didn't grow up that way it's okay.My next door neighbours growing up lived that way.They undressed in the presence of each other.

...All these bodies are food for maggots at the end of it all.

thorpido:
There's nothing insane about it.Families are different.If you didn't grow up that way it's okay.My next door neighbours growing up lived that way.They undressed in the presence of each other.

...All these bodies are food for maggots at the end of it all.

Hello The last I checked, I was entitled to my own opinion... It's my phone... It's my finger I typed with, and it's my Mb


Why don't they also uncloth in front of their fathers, since it's normal?

Did I only say, it's insane It's IRRITATING

Sleekyshuga:
Hello The last I checked, I was entitled to my own opinion... It's my phone... It's my finger I typed with, and it's my Mb


Why don't they also uncloth in front of their fathers, since it's normal?

Did I only say, it's insane It's IRRITATING

You should have said it's insane to ME,so it becomes YOUR opinion,phone,fingers,words,mb and money.

It's not insane and it's no big deal if siblings uncloth in front of themselves.It simply depends on the family and their orientation.No big deal about it.My neighbours are 4girls and one boy.The boy is the last born.They uncloth in front of him.They do in front of their father too.Like I said,it depends on the family.

What is insane is if they SLEEP or get INTIMATE in any way with each other.

thorpido:
You should have said it's insane to ME,so it becomes YOUR opinion,phone,fingers,words,mb and money.

It's not insane and it's no big deal if siblings uncloth in front of themselves.It simply depends on the family and their orientation.No big deal about it.My neighbours are 4girls and one boy.The boy is the last born.They uncloth in front of him.They do in front of their father too.Like I said,it depends on the family.

What is insane is if they SLEEP or get INTIMATE in any way with each other.

Fathers/Brothers who rape their daughters/siblings, how did it start?? I've read LIVE stories of such happenings, and, not fictions..


Btw, your cup of tea, Mister ...

Sleekyshuga:
Fathers/Brothers who rape their daughters/siblings, how did it start?? I've read LIVE stories of such happenings, and, not fictions..


Btw, your cup of tea, Mister ...

Inbreeding and molestation are not caused by unclothedness.They have a deeper root from a psyco-social disorder.It's a problem with the mind more than anything else.

Anyway,don't burst a vein over this.

Uncloth in front of the males is a no no for me but females na normal thing.

thorpido:
Inbreeding and molestation are not caused by unclothedness.They have a deeper root from a psyco-social disorder.It's a problem with the mind more than anything else.

Anyway,don't burst a vein over this.

As you are busting ur arteries Dunno y u sound this pained!!! Pls, mister, keep on going unclad... Bye and stop quoting me...

Amhappy:
Uncloth in front of the males is a no no for me but females na normal thing.

Yea babe... Ryt on track!!

Sleekyshuga:
As you are busting ur arteries Dunno y u sound this pained!!! Pls, mister, keep on going unclad... Bye and stop quoting me...

Yea babe... Ryt on track!!

Pained?You're the one using emotional expressions like 'irritating','insane' etc.
Anyway,i never said you had to do it.I was just showing you it's not abnormal in some families and that doesn't lead to incest as you stated.

thorpido:
Pained?You're the one using emotional expressions like 'irritating','insane' etc.
Anyway,i never said you had to do it.I was just showing you it's not abnormal in some families and that doesn't lead to incest as you stated.

You win!!! Good night... Huh

thorpido:
Pained?You're the one using emotional expressions like 'irritating','insane' etc.
Anyway,i never said you had to do it.I was just showing you it's not abnormal in some families and that doesn't lead to incest as you stated.

I fully agree with you

Simple question don cause e-fight o.


thing is, air your mind and let everyone else air theirs. Arguing might and might not make others change their opinion.

@topic,me no see any big deal.
But thing is, since she's married,there should be boundries.
D hobby follow for ownership of the body.
If he doesn't like it,she should stop it.

Ezibless:
Simple question don cause e-fight o.


thing is, air your mind and let everyone else air theirs. Arguing might and might not make others change their opinion.

My sister fear no let me talk again o
My cousins did it right until university, everybody goes naked inside the house(i.e boys on boxers, girls on bumshorts or pant-no bra) they even struggle for bathroom when it'd time to bath and dress up in front of each other no wahala. It was when they entered university that small shyness/open eye started but even till now they walk in on each other naked and its not a big deal o after all they are brother and sister.


No mind these oyinbo people wey get rotten mind come dey spoil us africans

5minsmadness:

My sister fear no let me talk again o
My cousins did it right until university, everybody goes naked inside the house(i.e boys on boxers, girls on bumshorts or pant-no bra) they even struggle for bathroom when it'd time to bath and dress up in front of each other no wahala. It was when they entered university that small shyness/open eye started but even till now they walk in on each other naked and its not a big deal o after all they are brother and sister.


No mind these oyinbo people wey get rotten mind come dey spoil us africans

But pant-no bra? Dem try sha. Me no fit o, lol.
The highest we can do is go on bumshorts with a vest.

Like i said; different strokes for different folks.

thorpido:
Pained?You're the one using emotional expressions like 'irritating','insane' etc.
Anyway,i never said you had to do it.I was just showing you it's not abnormal in some families and that doesn't lead to incest as you stated.

It's abnormal though

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It's abnormal though

It's not abnormal.It's just different with families and orientation.
What happens when someone falls sick and they have to be nursed by a member of the family?I see people having to nurse their siblings or parents all the time.At that time no one can hide unclothedness.

I don't have male siblings so i may not have anything to say. But since we are all girls, we don't bother with stuffs like that. Even my dad is already used to it and he keeps saying that he knows he lives in a girls' hostel..... However, i have male cousins, nephews, niece etc and i don't think i can consciously go naked or UnCloth in their presence....

Naturally, i am a very shy person. My husband is the only male apart from my dad in whose presence i can say i have been naked/undressed without any shame or care..

But personally, i don't really see anything wrong in it. Just that the devil na bastard o

Godmystrength:
I don't have male siblings so i may not have anything to say. But since we are all girls, we don't bother with stuffs like that. Even my dad is already used to it and he keeps saying that he knows he lives in a girls' hostel..... However, i have male cousins, nephews, niece etc and i don't think i can consciously go naked or UnCloth in their presence....

Naturally, i am a very shy person. My husband is the only male apart from my dad in whose presence i can say i have been naked/undressed without any shame or care..

But personally, i don't really see anything wrong in it. Just that the devil na bastard o

Lol Nor try dat kain thing for my side o... Mama, the devil is truly a bastard

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It's abnormal though

It's abnormal indeed... Imagine a house of grown-ups (boys and girls, above 18 years, and still going unclad b4 each other ?

Trying to imagine my kid bro(19 yrs), sitting down comfortably, and watching me UnCloth cos we re siblings?? Sounds quite funny, mehn!!

Where then is the privacy?

[quote author=Godmystrength post=]I don't have male siblings so i may not have anything to say. But since we are all girls, we don't bother with stuffs like that. Even my dad is already used to it and he keeps saying that he knows he lives in a girls' hostel..... However, i have male cousins, nephews, niece etc and i don't think i can consciously go naked or UnCloth in their presence....

Naturally, i am a very shy person. My husband is the only male apart from my dad in whose presence i can say
i love ur concept. this world would hav been a better place if we learn 2 respect each odas opinion