pls i need someone to talk to me cos am completely fedup of life. I don't know what i have done to deserve this. Am so broke,am not getting love and care from my husband i dumped my education for, am not getting affection from my mum becos she see me as a failure,i can't get a job with my upper credit in ond, I keep seeing my friends graduating and getting decent job with their hnd or bsc certificate...........
I just feel like leaving this miserable earth,i wish i have the power to take my life but am praying for death to come

My dear, when life hands you lemons...make lemonade
Free yourself from this self-pity you're feeling and try to make something out of life while it's still early
Life will be hard and meaningless every once in a while and it's up to you to take the bull by its horn and dictate what you want for yourself
Don't let anything or anyone bring you down- don't try to meet up with their standards but instead, go at your own pace
Always have at the back of your mind that there are people in worst situations than you- and some of them have made good out of their circumstances
Just try and get back on your feet again- And try harder
Nothing good always come easy

hope I did not blab?

mstik:
My dear, when life hands you lemons...make lemonade
Free yourself from this self-pity you're feeling and try to make something out of life while it's still early
Life will be hard and meaningless every once in a while and it's up to you to take the bull by its horn and dictate what you want for yourself
Don't let anything or anyone bring you down- don't try to meet up with their standards but instead, go at your own pace
Always have at the back of your mind that there are people in worst situations than you- and some of them have made good out of their circumstances
Just try and get back on your feet again- And try harder
Nothing good always come easy

hope I did not blab?

Thank you.

It's not enough to duel and languish in self pity, I can already read 3 veritable solutions to your problems from your post, proffered by yourself and they are not far fetched, what you seem to lack is the courage to power and effect the changes you are craving..

Sit yourself down and ask yourself some mind provoking questions you alone have answers to, discover who really you are and what you aim to achieve and stop this self pity crusade..

May God grant you the wisdom and courage...

It is well

please go through this thread
You may pick one or two things there

https://www.nairaland.com/1347408/feeling-suicidal-come-here-first

Your happiness should not be measured by your possessions nor standards set by others. Okay you do not have money nor affection, I understand it is hard to cope in such situations. But, here you are, living, and will continue to be.

A change in perspective is needed, but only you can do that. And you certainly can do that; picture yourself observing the world from the peak of a mountain, not from the depths of a well. Improve your thinking by educating yourself; there is no such degree course, it comes from living and then reflecting. You cannot fail life if you go on living. It's just a question of what you will do next?

Keep your hope alive, put all your trust in God there is no condition that is permanent. You will overcome this present situation pls hold on a bit longer.

What did you study? What are your area of strenght? What are those things you are passionate about?

My sister,no matter how u are being treated , pls don't give up. this is d time to look within yourself and bring out d great potentials in u. u don't have to be a graduate make it in life, start something, start from d scratch, all u need is determination and d sky will be your starting point. become successful today and watch your tormentors become your praise singers.

U can still be the best u wnt to be,jst believe in ursef and be prayerful. The bible says ,there is time and season for everything,time to weep and time to laugh,time to sow and time to reap,time to be sad and time to be happy. I can feel ur pain buh u jst av to keep goin until u succeed,u're rejected nw buh believe me u'll still be celebrated.there is this saying dat wen d goin gets tough,only d tough keeps goin. Wat if u av no one,wat if u came alone in2 this world without knwing any1, jst believe in ursef and be determined dat u'll make it wit or witout any1.what u need in other to succeed is already in u,God's willing I pray u overcome every challenges ijn.

Somewhere within this planet.....there's somebody dreaming the life you living in right now.

Always count your Blessings.

#shalom

justwant2happy:

Thank you.

Pls don't feel this way. Dying without fulfilling your purpose here on earth is not the best. Education could be over-rated, there's more to life than schooling and working.
Can't you go back to school? Continue from where you stopped? You can learn a skill or handwork like sewing, baking, hair-dressing or start a small retail business.
I know a microfinance bank that gives out loans without collateral to traders mostly women.
You can start up something on your own and still have time for yourself and family.
What about your husband, what does he do?

God bless you all. may you never find yourself in this kind of situation

DukeNija:


Pls don't feel this way. Dying without fulfilling your purpose here on earth is not the best. Education could be over-rated, there's more to life than schooling and working.
Can't you go back to school? Continue from where you stopped? You can learn a skill or handwork like sewing, baking, hair-dressing or start a small retail business.
I know a microfinance bank that gives out loans without collateral to traders mostly women.
You can start up something on your own and still have time for yourself and family.
What about your husband, what does he do?

he's a business man. I really want to go into frozen food and food stuff business but i dnt have any capital. Of course i want to go back to school but i can't finance myself cos am jobless

justwant2happy:
pls i need someone to talk to me cos am completely fedup of life. I don't know what i have done to deserve this. Am so broke,am not getting love and care from my husband i dumped my education for, am not getting affection from my mum becos she see me as a failure,i can't get a job with my upper credit in ond, I keep seeing my friends graduating and getting decent job with their hnd or bsc certificate...........
I just feel like leaving this miserable earth,i wish i have the power to take my life but am praying for death to come

If you have a CV you can send it to me. I can forward it on ur behalf for an OND job. The pay might not be much but its something to start with.

justwant2happy:

he's a business man. I really want to go into frozen food and food stuff business but i dnt have any capital

Send me a pm. I can assist you with a loan from d mfb I told you about.

Hv sent you a mail pls reply me. May God bless you richly

Flytefalls:
Your happiness should not be measured by your possessions nor standards set by others. Okay you do not have money nor affection, I understand it is hard to cope in such situations. But, here you are, living, and will continue to be.

A change in perspective is needed, but only you can do that. And you certainly can do that; picture yourself observing the world from the peak of a mountain, not from the depths of a well. Improve your thinking by educating yourself; there is no such degree course, it comes from living and then reflecting. You cannot fail life if you go on living. It's just a question of what you will do next?

Flytefalls, I haven't seen you post in a while. Good to see you around.

justwant2happy:
Hv sent you a mail pls reply me. May God bless you richly

Okk. I've replied you. But the mail content is empty because its my corporate mail. So send me an email and I will redirect you to my gmail which will be more convenient.

DukeNija:


Okk. I've replied you. But the mail content is empty because its my corporate mail. So send me an email and I will redirect you to my gmail which will be more convenient.

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Am sorry i can't find anything in my inbox pls drop your corporate mail pls. I will delete it immediately after seeing it

justwant2happy:
pls i need someone to talk to me cos am completely fedup of life. I don't know what i have done to deserve this. Am so broke,am not getting love and care from my husband i dumped my education for, am not getting affection from my mum becos she see me as a failure,i can't get a job with my upper credit in ond, I keep seeing my friends graduating and getting decent job with their hnd or bsc certificate...........
I just feel like leaving this miserable earth,i wish i have the power to take my life but am praying for death to come

Hugs. I'm sorry about your struggles. There're plenty of people who love and care about you, like some of us folks in this thread.

How can I help? Please feel free to pm me if you need someone to talk to.

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DukeNija:
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Thanks duke I didn't see it before you deleted it. Am new here pls teach me how to send 'pm' maybe the previous message i sent didn't deliver

Yields:

Flytefalls, I haven't seen you post in a while. Good to see you around.

Yaaay, feels nice to be missed lol . Things are busier with work and (new) husband but I like coming back to nl whenever life permits.

Hope you are well!

Dear justwant2happy,

what stops you from changing your situation?

Complaining will not solve anything.

Check out this thread https://www.nairaland.com/1952418/nnpc-exxonmobil-2014-ond-graduates


op, Life generally isn't easy, your situation isn't the worst, you have people you're better than..... Just keep struggling and keep a positive attitude. ... btw, why doesnt your husband show you love??

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justwant2happy:

Thanks duke I didn't see it before you deleted it. Am new here pls teach me how to send 'pm' maybe the previous message i sent didn't deliver

I've not seen ur mail.

DukeNija:


I've not seen ur mail.

hv sent it

Flytefalls:

Yaaay, feels nice to be missed lol . Things are busier with work and (new) husband but I like coming back to nl whenever life permits.

Hope you are well!

I remembered you mentioned "Fiance" during the summer. Wow, so you're married now. Congrats, girl! . May your home be continuously filled with love, understanding, laughter and peace. I guess we should be expecting a lil' Flyefalls soon or perhaps two of them . Wishing you and yours the very best.

Wow. things won't remain like this forever certainly. it will be well.

take the initiative.draw a map and work towards it.
your not in an hopeless situation

Yields:

I remembered you mentioned "Fiance" during the summer. Wow, so you're married now. Congrats, girl! . May your home be continuously filled with love, understanding, laughter and peace. I guess we should be expecting a lil' Flyefalls soon or perhaps two of them . Wishing you and yours the very best.

Thank you immensely, and Amen! . It's a very beautiful moment for us both, but no lil flyte-lites planned for the next year or two; and single file please God I cannot handle twins!!