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Re: The Uselessness Of White Wedding In African Societies!!! by tete7000(m): 7:20pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
devour129: It's really funny a feminine can come out and support this argument. Traditional religion and customary laws recognise and encourage polygamy, Christian marriage advocate monogamy - one man, one woman. How then can you tell me the two are one and the same? If you are a Christian woman, will you mind your husband have many wives? If yes, I doubt you are Christian indeed for that will conflict with the faith you profess, if no why are you living two-faced live? Based on this argument alone, you can see the laws upon which the two are based are contradictory and they cannot be one and same. Unfortunately when Christianity advocates these values, it is basically to uphold family structure and protect womanhood and wellbeing of children. It is thus unfortunate and sad when I see women come out and support this kind of idea. That people don't practice something does not invalidate the nobility of such thing. Infact it on basis of practice or non-practice of Godly vales that we have judgement with heaven and hell as rewards. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Uselessness Of White Wedding In African Societies!!! by ceejay80s(m): 7:21pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
Rapmoney:Guy na proverty dey worry u cos if u get money like dem psquare, na for dubai u go do white wedding and do reception the same day in new york city |
Re: The Uselessness Of White Wedding In African Societies!!! by LILYCHERISH(f): 7:22pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
Make i make my own comment b4 space go full |
Re: The Uselessness Of White Wedding In African Societies!!! by Nobody: 7:40pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
Bluffly:But a certificate is needed for the State to recognize the marriage. |
Re: The Uselessness Of White Wedding In African Societies!!! by Rapmoney(m): 7:44pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
ceejay80s:Seriously, u sound like a kid! Grow up!!! 2 Likes |
Re: The Uselessness Of White Wedding In African Societies!!! by Nobody: 7:55pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
stinggy:Odogwu ogo ka ibu Ana ajukwa aju? ...And who and who "liked" this Stinggy's comment |
Re: The Uselessness Of White Wedding In African Societies!!! by johncreek: 8:19pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
Rapmoney God will bless you for that article.... Have shared the gospel on social media... Your knowledge will never diminish. 1 Like |
Re: The Uselessness Of White Wedding In African Societies!!! by johncreek: 8:20pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
Rapmoney God will bless you for that article.... Have shared the gospel on social media... Your knowledge will never diminish.. |
Re: The Uselessness Of White Wedding In African Societies!!! by Rapmoney(m): 8:21pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
johncreek:God bless u too |
Re: The Uselessness Of White Wedding In African Societies!!! by stinggy(m): 8:23pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
chimkaire: Odogwu only is what I can pick write this thing in english joor See beefment ooo |
Re: The Uselessness Of White Wedding In African Societies!!! by Nobody: 8:29pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
stinggy:Honorable in-law, naim you be Who wan question that |
Re: The Uselessness Of White Wedding In African Societies!!! by Bluffly: 8:30pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
CFCfan: God knows no state. As I've said, certificate is for human regulation. 1 Like |
Re: The Uselessness Of White Wedding In African Societies!!! by Profkomolafe(m): 8:31pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
Rapmoney:God bless u jare by blood broda, any gurl wey no do traditional, mk e waka.... I no fit dy waste money. Funniest of it all, they wont bother to ask what the post-wedding will be lyk. Theirs na 2 show dm self 4 jst one day.... |
Re: The Uselessness Of White Wedding In African Societies!!! by stinggy(m): 8:53pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
chimkaire: In-law far na, mak we tie ds one first Qweshion me ke, noborry All road leads to Mbaise after the short one under that bridge |
Re: The Uselessness Of White Wedding In African Societies!!! by Nobody: 8:57pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
stinggy:Yes oooooooo Odogwu's wedding under the bridge Who's officiating this ish |
Re: The Uselessness Of White Wedding In African Societies!!! by Nobody: 9:02pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
this one sabi the meaning of 'white wedding ' @ all? you think it's all about wearing gown and marchin like March4buhari? your phone has access to the internet, my brother do more research o.k. in my Bible(God's words) it is a sin having sex outside his covenant. 'white wedding ' is also a traditional way of getting married, it's not a Whiteman's invention, it is a 'holy communion ' between man and woman. it is a covenant between both parties;man and woman(one) and God (one). a union between two. 1 Like |
Re: The Uselessness Of White Wedding In African Societies!!! by sweetgala(m): 9:28pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
What makes it worse , Christian Europeans and their descendants neither perform any other traditional rites or engagement, they may at best have an engagement dinner , the extent of which is dictated by the taste and financial capacity of the couple. I have been thinking of how I would like my wedding to hold, and I so far have the basic blueprint - I do not want a church/ christian wedding - We may have an engagement dinner with few important family and friends as we choose fit not greater than 40 people - I would like to observe Yoruba traditional rites and traditions (wedding event unlike what is normally) , present would be religious(pastor/imam/oluwo) etc members of my family/friends who may officiate as prescribed - A legal document to show the marriage (maybe a visit to the registry with both parents) Now being the selfish man I am, I do plan to and want to be best man and grooms man a few times before that, so someone friends who wonna do wedding naija way can carry go 1 Like |
Re: The Uselessness Of White Wedding In African Societies!!! by stinggy(m): 9:38pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
chimkaire: **pensive** Should I call on harry your friend |
Re: The Uselessness Of White Wedding In African Societies!!! by 702: 9:48pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
White wedding, black wedding, shrine wedding or wateva. Jus give me the damn marriage cert lemmi sign!!! I call this "legally married"! |
Re: The Uselessness Of White Wedding In African Societies!!! by Nobody: 9:49pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
stinggy:No be Harry na Charles Pagan Ninja your right hand man nko |
Re: The Uselessness Of White Wedding In African Societies!!! by stinggy(m): 9:59pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
chimkaire: Lolz... PAGAN9JA is too busy for a non-ceremonial wedding na. Should I call Olumide? He should know about it sef |
Re: The Uselessness Of White Wedding In African Societies!!! by Ndipe(m): 10:14pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
It's not useless. |
Re: The Uselessness Of White Wedding In African Societies!!! by Rapmoney(m): 10:15pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
Profkomolafe:God bless u too, paddy mi I look at societal practices sometimes and tell myself the bitter truth that most African suffer from cultural mental slavery. |
Re: The Uselessness Of White Wedding In African Societies!!! by Nobody: 10:16pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
stinggy:Olukolade nii |
Re: The Uselessness Of White Wedding In African Societies!!! by roughneck: 10:20pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
chynergy1:I'm with you on this one brother.. You just gotta give it to them. |
Re: The Uselessness Of White Wedding In African Societies!!! by roughneck: 10:44pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
tete7000:The man has done nothing wrong by sharing his opinion about white wedding. He is entitled to one and he is not forcing it down your throat. He simply said lets discuss which means you can convince him to change his mind if you present a good argument.. Oga forget the Op, lets have your input |
Re: The Uselessness Of White Wedding In African Societies!!! by Olufemiolaolu(m): 11:01pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
[quote author=Amusaopeyemi post=31009212]White wedding is useless. As a matter of fact I don't even believe in wedding sef. It is pure waste of money. Why sign a piece of paper or wear one silly ring to prove my love to you?[/quote Hypocrisy of d highest order, abi u no be woman ni? every woman dream of their wedding day abeg. |
Re: The Uselessness Of White Wedding In African Societies!!! by Olufemiolaolu(m): 11:02pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
Amusaopeyemi:Haba u wanna to be an oshofree ni? Its easier said than done |
Re: The Uselessness Of White Wedding In African Societies!!! by harry509: 11:27pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
Rapmoney:I equally tought dsame way 2. For me white weddn is irrelevant n our society. For me traditional weddn on d way bcus am an afrika man. I shud b d 1 2 decide hw my weddn shud b like. God bless it n advance 4 me AMEN. 1 Like |
Re: The Uselessness Of White Wedding In African Societies!!! by koyyess: 11:48pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
Rapmoney:And what are white dresses and suits made of, wood? Your post is filled with hate and hypocrisy. Very childish of you. It's your kind of woman that will complain of infidelity on the part of her husband when in actual fact, people who eventually attend her traditional wedding know that the African culture permits polygamy. Why wouldn't most women prefer white weddings? 1 Like |
Re: The Uselessness Of White Wedding In African Societies!!! by Blackkie: 11:50pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
Once you are talking about white wedding as being of NO use - you must be careful about fanatics. I wonder why an African will perform 3 weddings. They careless about the cost, unfortunately families will help their family member to wed instead of getting a job or setting them up in a business. Then the church wedding has the least impact in our social and legal life. 1 Like |
Re: The Uselessness Of White Wedding In African Societies!!! by macof(m): 11:52pm On Feb 23, 2015 |
tete7000: Then which ever of your forefathers that accepted a retrogressive religion that insults their identity as an independent people must be a moronic slave like you 1 Like |
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