Odilafta:
It's all in a bid to copy the whites

When he turns out to be gay tomorrow,the same parents would start crying foul,saying village witches are at work

We reap what we sow

Odilafta:
It's all in a bid to copy the whites

When he turns out to be gay tomorrow,the same parents would start crying foul,saying village witches are at work

We reap what we sow

FrancisTony:


How does plaiting a boy hair turn him gay?

You still need to learn a lot about hormornes and psychology.

Odilafta:

Oga Psycologist,Don't start what you cannot finish,read the story and stick to your own opinion,whatever I say or type is strictly my opinion...Thanks

FrancisTony:


Lol! Okay. Can you answer this question?

What would you say in a case of masculine male turning out to be gay while effiminate is straight.

Or

A female tomboy being straight while a pure feminine own being a lesbian?

Odilafta:

Open a thread and ask your question.
Stop quoting me.

FrancisTony:


Sorry Ma.

Odilafta:


Let's not derail.

Three7Ty9:


hmmmmm. Na wa o

Odilafta:

Three7Ty9:
Na only me waka come?

Odilafta:

No o
I dey your back

Three7Ty9:
reduce it please. I beg you in the name of whatever gods or creed you believe in.

Odilafta:

My posts abi?
I would
sorry

LordReed:
Today's world can be a strange place. I remember growing up how my older cousins would paint my face, put clip on earrings on my ears and tie a head scarf on my head. We'd all laugh about how beautiful I looked. Same thing with some of my neighbours, we never had a feeling that our sexuality was in doubt. I was simply a boy wearing girly things. This days the hypersensitivity to what constitutes a person's sexuality must be seeping into kids and causing havoc. I pray such kids do not destroy themselves in the name of exploring sexuality.

HFOG:

Amen and amen. Such pleasant memories when innocence & transparency wasn't scarce

LordReed:
Today's world can be a strange place. I remember growing up how my older cousins would paint my face, put clip on earrings on my ears and tie a head scarf on my head. We'd all laugh about how beautiful I looked. Same thing with some of my neighbours, we never had a feeling that our sexuality was in doubt. I was simply a boy wearing girly things. This days the hypersensitivity to what constitutes a person's sexuality must be seeping into kids and causing havoc. I pray such kids do not destroy themselves in the name of exploring sexuality.

destante:
In as much as I don't discriminate people by their orientation, it is the silliest thing for anyone or parent to push what is not on their kid. hian

FrancisTony:


I agree with you. It's silly for parents to be dressing a male child like female and vice-versa.

Again, dressing doesn't influence hormone.

destante:
No it doesn't, true. But it affects the child's psyche and identity. Bad honestly

FrancisTony:


But, a male plaiting hair doesn't depict feminity like OP stated.

It's more of a masculine characteristics except when he cross dress or putting on makeup.

By the way, are we gonna classify footballers and musicians that plait hair as Sissy?

destante:
did you read where the boy was asked to identify his gender and he responded "boy girl"?
that innocent boy is already "cross dressing" his mind. Its beyond the braids thingy

destante:
did you read where the boy was asked to identify his gender and he responded "boy girl"?
that innocent boy is already "cross dressing" his mind. Its beyond the braids thingy

smartmom:
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Spot on my dear. THAT is the whole point! Besides, it is not even fine trendy kind of braids or weaving o! and [size=50pt]the boy does have effeminate looks to the boot.[/size] I thought he was a slight fair tomboyish girl till my kid corrected me.His school mates already see him as queer. I think it is unfair on the poor.

FrancisTony:


If the boy is effiminate, it's not his fault nau.

I thought he was the one trying so hard to possess feminine characteristics.

God created him that way or do you think the little kid deviated from being masculine?

smartmom:


Its certainly NOT his fault but its the parent's fault to dress him up or play up on his looks. I do not blame the boy at all.

FrancisTony:


Oh. I get.

Even me, I grew among my female cousins with no male and had a feminine characteristics. Mode of talking and walking.

But, I was reminded that I'm not a female. I'd to do everything to stop acting like that because I always feel disgusted seeing a sissy.

Lol! Today my voice doesn't sound a bit like female(it har masculine bazz). I stopped walking like them too, even though a slight movement can be found but not glaring.