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Re: Do All Men Cheat? by Nobody: 8:39pm On Oct 23, 2014 |
Truckpusher: Bwahahaha I found the link to the research - still looking for the thread about naija women and illegitimate children. Nigeria Women are most Unfaithful/Promiscuous in the World |
Re: Do All Men Cheat? by Kanwulia: 8:41pm On Oct 23, 2014 |
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Re: Do All Men Cheat? by rolled: 8:42pm On Oct 23, 2014 |
You are still a big kid Lol at my dad never cheated because of work You never see men when dey cheat inside office during work hours? deltateam: 1 Like |
Re: Do All Men Cheat? by Kanwulia: 8:46pm On Oct 23, 2014 |
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Re: Do All Men Cheat? by Nobody: 8:46pm On Oct 23, 2014 |
Another research about women and promiscuity: In the age of promiscuity, women have more se.xual partners than men |
Re: Do All Men Cheat? by Nobody: 8:47pm On Oct 23, 2014 |
rolled:you dey mind that one? Does a man have to spend 24hrs to cheat? Does he/she knows what a "quickie" is? Smh at "my father is a christian". If I hear... |
Re: Do All Men Cheat? by Kanwulia: 8:49pm On Oct 23, 2014 |
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Re: Do All Men Cheat? by Kanwulia: 8:50pm On Oct 23, 2014 |
Where are all these FAKE NL AZZES? See una mates o. Una dey hide behind computer dey type RUBBISH! Even EBOLA nor dey monagamous! It does not even PHOCK no barry! |
Re: Do All Men Cheat? by Nobody: 9:04pm On Oct 23, 2014 |
Kanwulia: I agree with you totally |
Re: Do All Men Cheat? by Acidosis(m): 9:21pm On Oct 23, 2014 |
We ALL Cheat. That "kiss" emoticon you send to that dude on whatsapp, nairaland, bbm and facebook is called cheating. 2 Likes |
Re: Do All Men Cheat? by slimyem: 10:31pm On Oct 23, 2014 |
Do all men at one point or another or even constantly get tempted to cheat? Yes,I would say! Do all men cheat? No! I disagree they do. It is an untrue stereotype-a myth I wish would die..one that has continuously let men off the hook for cheating, a ready excuse and defense for irresponsibility and total lack of scruples. All men do not cheat. All men are not the same! 4 Likes |
Re: Do All Men Cheat? by Nobody: 11:34pm On Oct 23, 2014 |
Blimey!! I found the research! DNA Expert Gives Shocking Statistics: “3 Out of 10 Nigerian Men are not Biological Fathers of their Children” 1 Like |
Re: Do All Men Cheat? by Nobody: 11:34pm On Oct 23, 2014 |
^^^This is what you lot need to start discussing! Shalom! |
Re: Do All Men Cheat? by SirAweezy(m): 11:39pm On Oct 23, 2014 |
deltateam:Yimu |
Re: Do All Men Cheat? by 5minsmadness: 11:43pm On Oct 23, 2014 |
SirShymex: ....and then the thread died. |
Re: Do All Men Cheat? by Nobody: 1:00am On Oct 24, 2014 |
PLEASE..!!!! What is CHEATING...? |
Re: Do All Men Cheat? by Nobody: 6:29am On Oct 24, 2014 |
bennyrazz: And there are so many cases in court i know of abusive men, pedophiles, dead beat dads but do i go around screaming "all men are abusive,all men are pedophiles all men are dead beat dads" NO. Because i know a greater percentage of men who are none of these things. The economy for instant affects us differently, one man might choose to cheat and steal another man will work like a donkey honest labour all the days of his life and even die a miserable death just to make ends meet but he will never steal. Its a choice. Now while the criminal may look at the honest man like a fool the day he is caught he will attempt the " no be only hme be thief" defence he will ask " what of those who dey steal with pen? What of government wey dey steal our money everyday" all so he wont face up the consequences of his wrong actions. In summary some people make good decisions some make lousy decisions. Man up and face the benefits and consequence alone dont drag other men who are honest into some silly solidarity to make yourself feel better for poor choices 8 Likes |
Re: Do All Men Cheat? by blueberryp: 8:13am On Oct 24, 2014 |
5minsmadness:3 times a week is fair enough but even with 7times a week some men would still cheat. @Op not all men cheat, its just that the majority cheats. |
Re: Do All Men Cheat? by 5minsmadness: 8:39am On Oct 24, 2014 |
blueberryp: The word you are looking for there is few. Few men will still cheat after getting sex 3times a week from a sexy wife. Let's tell the truth, there will always be the abnormal ones, but you can't use because of those abberant wayward few to punish the rest of us! Give us the damn sex and we won't look outside, Period! 1 Like |
Re: Do All Men Cheat? by deltateam: 8:48am On Oct 24, 2014 |
blueberryp: Most men won't cheeat if its 7x a week. Just be available to him. 1 Like |
Re: Do All Men Cheat? by slimyem: 8:51am On Oct 24, 2014 |
Unfortunately,there's a lot of evidence to support the fact that all men cheat. There is hardly any to verify that not all men cheat. This otherwise cannot be proven and even when it is..is never believed. Even men that claim they never cheat have their friends discredit them to their face. One sad tale! |
Re: Do All Men Cheat? by blueberryp: 8:51am On Oct 24, 2014 |
deltateam:thk God u said at 7x a week MOST nt ALL won't cheat. But there will always be that some who will cheat even at 10x a week. Believe me |
Re: Do All Men Cheat? by Nobody: 9:03am On Oct 24, 2014 |
slimyem: Not so true my dear , lots of men have been found to be faithful ( with evidence ). True we all get tempted , quite a number have been able to overcome this temptation and live guilt free and faithful lives with their wives 1 Like |
Re: Do All Men Cheat? by slimyem: 9:17am On Oct 24, 2014 |
neoapocalypse:What evidences? How has anyone been able to prove them? I can speak of a few men I know have never cheated on their wives and would probably never do but the question I'd be asked is "How am I certain"? and thing is it's quite easy for anyone to shred my certainty. As they say,one can only speak for oneself |
Re: Do All Men Cheat? by crackhaus: 9:34am On Oct 24, 2014 |
deltateam:If only it were this easy. Do you honestly think having sex seven times a week, every other week, and consequently a whole year - is what a normal person does? If we are to work on the assumption that your seven times a week equates to once a day and then factor in the possibility that it's at least two rounds for each of these daily sessions, how many people with jobs and other responsibilities do you think can stick with this routine? At the end of the day, sex will not hold a union together when it is determined to crumble...in fact if sex becomes the most important thing that keeps either partner invested, then that union is as good as dead - it'll only bide some time. The best people can do is give their best - cater to their man/woman, reassure them of your love, inspire them, let coming home be something to look forward to. A wife should strive to remain the same chic her husband fell in love with, she should always know exactly what made her husband choose her from among the choices he had - if she doesn't know, she should ask him and then strengthen/improve on those things...she should keep herself up, keep her figure right, keep it tight, serve her man, and put him on a pedestal...that's her part. It won't be easy, but it will most certainly be worth it. After doing all that can be done and one partner still decides to allow his/her mind stray, then the fault lies solely with them. Sex seven times a week is the last thing that will keep any man/woman invested in their relationship...it gets tiring. 3 Likes |
Re: Do All Men Cheat? by bennyrazz: 12:24pm On Oct 24, 2014 |
aisha2: Its good to know that few women like aisha2 understand some men like me don't cheat. Nevertheless, Do you know why some men cheat? they have very high libidos. some of them see it as pills, they take one short one. in the morning and they take a long one when they get back home. Now imagine when their wives are in that period of the month? no show for them? imagine when their wives are pregnant? imagine when their wives just gave birth? still no serious show? how much more can self service do? not that I'm an advocate of cheating men but i try to understand people both men & women. And I also understand that everyman is responsible for his actions which is a direct result of his thought. For instance, you lock up an hungry man in a house full of all sorts of food and you warn the man not to eat any food otherwise you would kill him, you restricted is movement. Day 1, man didn't touch anything, Day 2, he didn't still touch anything, Day 3, man felt he was going to die if he didn't eat any food, he also remembered that if he eats any food, the owner of the house and food will still kill him. Either he eats or not, he would still die by hunger or by the hands of the owner if the house. Now man made a final decision to eat the food. After eating, owner of the house arrived and opened the closed door. He found out that man had finished almost all the food in the house. He dragged the man outside the house and labelled him a thief. He then told neighbors that the man had eaten all his food and because of that he had to die. so the owner of the house killed the man he labelled "thief". Now let us ask ourselves, is the owner of the house fair? if God have blessed you with what i call "mild libido" thank your God. And for those that God blessed with low libido, they have sex maybe once in two months. 1 Like |
Re: Do All Men Cheat? by TV01(m): 12:29pm On Oct 24, 2014 |
bennyrazz:Citing high libido as an excuse for men cheating is no different from using high desire (covetousness) as a reaosn to steal, or rage to justify violence. Men are to control their passions, not the other way round. TV 2 Likes |
Re: Do All Men Cheat? by Nobody: 12:49pm On Oct 24, 2014 |
TV01: This........ Thank you. Said it all saves me the long epistle. Like Crackhus also said marriage is not built on se-x alone. Se- x is very very important but in pregnancy, sickess, childbirth and even accidents spouses would look beyond their own needs and concentrate on helping the other get better. When we newly married a routine test turned into something scary. Hubby took his leave and spent the whole time taking me for treatment, massaging my legs and back after treatment making me meals doctor recommended and petting me to eat. Infact it was the sickness that pushed the wedding forward so i could be covered by his insurance. So we spent more than 2 months no se-x. The day we got the all clear chaiiiiiiiiii. The point is if we cant look beyond our own wants and sacrifice for our partners we are not ready to marry. That doesnt mean partners should deny each other it simply means you dont cheat because you dont get it, you cheat because you decide to. Its still your choice to take off your pants with a strange woman or man |
Re: Do All Men Cheat? by EfemenaXY: 1:25pm On Oct 24, 2014 |
There's so much back and forth-ing on this thread. I think it might be best for everyone to speak for themselves. Those who don't should come out boldly, proudly, and shout it from the rooftops that they don't cheat on their partners. There'll always be good and bad apples in the cart. So to claim that all are bad or vice versa is a tad be unrealistic in my opinion sha. |
Re: Do All Men Cheat? by SAMBARRY: 1:40pm On Oct 24, 2014 |
Abi o.the thread is even boring and recycled Next EfemenaXY: 1 Like |
Re: Do All Men Cheat? by beeevan: 2:04pm On Oct 24, 2014 |
All men can never be cheats! If your husband who claimed to love you ends up cheating on you, please don't think it's because all men cheat. 3 Likes |
Re: Do All Men Cheat? by jmoore(m): 3:54pm On Oct 24, 2014 |
"All men cheat" is a consolation anthem for those who have unfaithful husbands.They sing it to console and convince themselves that no man is faithful.They are deluded fanatics. But they are completely wrong, there are some men that are faithful. As a single man, I have kept a "clean sheet". Whenever I decide to get married, it's gonna be between me and my wife till death do us part. I can never share my body with another woman 7 Likes |
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