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Nuggets Of Wisdom For November by Nobody: 12:22pm On Nov 02, 2014
I was jogging this morning and I noticed a person in front of me, about half a kilometer. I could tell he was running a little slower than me and I thought, "good, I shall try to catch him." I had about a kilometer to go my path before I needed to turn off.

So I started running faster and faster. Every block, I was gaining on him just a little bit. After just a few minutes I was only about 100 yards behind him, so I really picked up the pace and pushed myself.

You would have thought I was running in the last lap of London Olympics competition as I was so determined to catch him.

Finally, I did it!!! I caught and passed him by. On the inside I felt so good. "Yaay I beat him"

However he didn't even know we were racing. After I passed him, I realized I had been so focused on competing against him that I had missed my turn. I had gone nearly six blocks past it. I had to turn around and go all back.

Isn't that what happens in life when we focus on competing with co-workers, neighbors, friends, family, trying to outdo them or trying to prove that we are more successful or more important? We spend our time and energy running after them and we miss out on our own paths to our God given destinies.

The problem with unhealthy competition is that it's a never-ending cycle. There will always be somebody ahead of you, someone with better job, nicer car, more money in the bank, more education, a prettier wife/girlfriend, a more handsome husband/boyfriend, better behaved children etc.

You should realize that you can be the best that you can be anytime anywhere and always. Some people are insecure because they pay too much attention to what others are doing, where others are going, wearing and driving.

Take what God has given you, the height, weight and personality. Dress well and wear it proudly!!! You'll be blessed by it. Stay focused and live a healthy life. There's no competition in DESTINY, run your own RACE and wish others WELL!!!

Happy New November!!!

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Re: Nuggets Of Wisdom For November by Dbryan: 12:43pm On Nov 02, 2014
Tnx and God bless

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Re: Nuggets Of Wisdom For November by Agrika: 1:53pm On Nov 02, 2014
Thanks

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