I was talking with my partner on the need to get a dish washer and a washing machine and he jokingly said it was for lazy wives. I dont agree with that because it is a way that has been made to make our works easier. Its not easy on wives and mothers especially working ones. There tends to be too much chores that tires out and most men dont even see the need to help out. The least a man can do to ease the work for his wife is to buy some of theses electronic gadgets that makes life easy foe women. Whats ur candid opinion

I personally don't see it for lazy wives, but to help reduce work load and reduce stress. Else we get to use our wives like donkeys.

My dear dnt listen to him, does he want to tell me dat all the women in the united states of america and other developed countries are lazy? Dey all have washing machines and dish washers at home.... African mentality is killing africans..... Such people only say dat cuz dey cant afford one...my dear, if u have ur money, enjoy it and make life easy for u..anybody dat wants to be live like the stone age people are free to live like dat....

Skillfullulu:
I personally don't see it for lazy wives, but to help reduce work load and reduce stress. Else we get to use our wives like donkeys.

seconded!!!

hell no!! its there to make work easier and prevent waist fracture

Yes oh, its for lazy wives who cant handwash jeans

Infact wives must manually handwash all clothes especially jeans to be recognised as real women and while doing that ensure that you still scrub the floor, cook fresh meals everyday none of that freezer soup then sweep in heels and look superhot, we dont want you worn out and looking like a grandmama because thats definitely an excuse for him to cheat on you.
Hurray to super women, ntor for lazy women like me

aisha2:
Yes oh, its for lazy wives who cant handwash jeans

Infact wives must manually handwash all clothes especially jeans to be recognised as real women and while doing that ensure that you still scrub the floor, cook fresh meals everyday none of that freezer soup then sweep in heels and look superhot, we dont want you worn out and looking like a grandmama because thats definitely an excuse for him to cheat on you.
Hurray to super women, ntor for lazy women like me

Oh yes! For very lazy nowadays wives like moi!

How about you send him back to the cave he crawled out from?

Now this is a red flag that ought not to be overlooked since you guys aren't married yet. You need to sit him down and find out about his other archaic reasoning as they need to be addressed before you go any further.

OP, your friend needs to trek to work from now on. Let's see how "hardworking" he is.

I would reply by saying "Do you think cars are for lazy men?"

There is nothing wrong with having a washing machine my dear.Taking care of the home front is not easy, so using it really helps to reduce the work load in the house for me. Once the clothes are in the machine, i can attend to other things like cleaning, cooking, taking care of the kids etc because I don't have any househelp. So the hours i can spend washing piles of clothes manually can be used to attend to other chores in the house.It doesn't mean you are lazy.

@op Is technology meant for lazy people?

May God deliver us from this stone age African mentality that is killing us and we can't even open our eyes to see. This is like saying a car is for lazy people. What a chauvinistic comment, i wonder where people meet all this kind of men and marry them. For me if you are a woman and you don't have washing machine , then you are not in this age and time. Spend more time developing yourself than bending down to wash clothes manually, clothes that would become dirty again in a few days, meaning that you have not achieved anything. That is why they are called menial jobs

jaybee3:
How about you send him back to the cave he crawled out from?

Now this is a red flag that ought not to be overlooked since you guys aren't married yet. You need to sit him down and find out about his other archaic reasoning as they need to be addressed before you go any further.

You just spoke my mind.

gaczee99:
I was talking with my partner on the need to get a dish washer and a washing machine and he jokingly said it was for lazy wives. I dont agree with that because it is a way that has been made to make our works easier. Its not easy on wives and mothers especially working ones. There tends to be too much chores that tires out and most men dont even see the need to help out. The least a man can do to ease the work for his wife is to buy some of theses electronic gadgets that makes life easy foe women. Whats ur candid opinion

Yes o, for extremely lazy wives like me. I no dey hide that one. I would rather spend my time with my family or money producing ventures, rather than spend hours washing clothes and plates

No rest for the lazy woman. Bend and work ya waist to prove you are a real african woman

That is y I always discuss this technology topic with any guy i meet.incase of the future

We need a rolling eye emoticon..mr seun abeg do the needful

Laziness my butt! Why cant he walk to work or use bottles to straighten his shirt?!

For me....theres gonna be dishwasher, washing machine, blender, toaster, microwave, food mixer..etc........abeg include wateva i left out.

Recipe for disaster honey if he thinks that way

I still pay someone to do the laundry and the housecleaning in spite of the washing machine. I just feel the weekend is the only time I have to really bond with my kids so I delegate the menial jobs. On weekends, all I do is cook, spend quality time with my babies and probably make my hair to look good. As a working mum, if you can delegate, please do.

I don't know what I would have done without a washing machine. Its a life saver. Its not for lazy wives, it only makes washing a bit easier and it prevents unnecessary backache

Laziness is an understatement to use in describing me. Infact few months before we got married, i made sure he bought the washing machine first.
When my mil came visiting, she told me one day jokingly that haba my daughter dont get so much used to this, and i should pls not use it to wash her cloth. I replied her jokingly, mum i will call one woman to come and doing the washing for you. Alapa ma shi she na him i be o

It's for soji (sabi) wives abeg. Why your hubby no kuku stick to grinding stone and fire wood stove (adogan as the Yoruba call it) for the kitchen, and rafia hand fan for bedroom? Mats?

this kind of thread tire me..


wicked men..

the day a cooking machine is accessible.. ill buy it for my wife.

so.. all these fucktards forming african

Why don't the husbands wash THEMSELVES then?
Abi na for mouth?

*Kneels lower in reference and continues blowing breeze into the firewood*

Odilafta:
*Kneels lower in reference and continues blowing breeze into the firewood*

.. Are you sure the firewoods are not wet because the smoke is hurting my eyes o

Godmystrength:
.. Are you sure the firewoods are not wet because the smoke is hurting my eyes o

*Loses one end of my wrapper and uses it to start fanning the wood*
''My sister,what can I do? The chidren have to chop''

Odilafta:
*Kneels lower in reference and continues blowing breeze into the firewood*

Take one cookie for being a good hardworking African woman.

Odilafta:

*Loses one end of my wrapper and uses it to start fanning the wood*
''My sister,what can I do? The chidren have to chop''

Ha still fanning the the dying charcoal? put more wood na so that the fire will blaze and you quickly go baff and wear red pant and black bra for Mr. somebody then you get three cookies.