My younger cousin who is finishing his IT this weekend has been asking for my suggestion on what to buy for one of the engineers who was kinda the only one that really showed and explained him stuff at his IT place. He was friendly with the other engineers though. I suggested a bottle of wine which he agreed. Well, he just called me explaining that he doesn't feel he has done it the right way. He feels what he did was a bit invidious and another engineer who was around when he gave the 'first' engineer the wine might be feeling a bit indignant that he did not receive any considering they are also friendly. He actually said in a joking or maybe half joking manner ' na only people wey teach you you bring wine'. My cousin being the socially awkward person he is is not at ease with the whole situation. Hence, the reason he called me. I told him to relax and stay cool. When he gets back, we go talk. What d'you guys think about the situation?

Why should he be botherin himself? But if he can afford to buy the other engineer another wine, den he should do so...

@ cutehector4u. That is what i'm reasoning too. He should just stop worrying about what he thinks and just be cool

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He should buy a bottle of wine for the other engineer also
It's as simple as that

Kudos to your cousin for showing gratitude. I`m sure the recipient appreciated it, but your cousin went about it the wrong way. Why did he give the Engineer the wine in the company of others? That was his only mistake. He should`ve taken him aside, thanked him and then given the gift to him. The whole world didn`t need to know. He`s the one who created unnecessary problems for himself by letting others know he gave the guy a gift.

Yields:
Kudos to your cousin for showing gratitude. I`m sure the recipient appreciated it, but your cousin went about it the wrong way. Why did he give the Engineer the wine in the company of others? That was his only mistake. He should`ve taken him aside, thanked him and then given the gift to him. The whole world didn`t need to know. He`s the one who created unnecessary problems for himself by letting others know he gave the guy a gift.

even though e don tey small and he don even go bk 2 skul. He actually gave him the wine in secret and the engineer announced to other ones. Bt thanks 4 commenting

Cutehector4u:
Why should he be botherin himself? But if he can afford to buy the other engineer another wine, den he should do so...

EOD!