we are just talking about that in my office, the women said there is no problem, because a guy said he cann't and I support him dor, y because there will b no transparency from the side of the woman and no geniune respect...... Share your view

lightking99:
we are just talking about that in my office, the women said there is no problem, because a guy said he cann't and I support him dor, y because there will b no transparency from the side of the woman and no geniune respect...... Share your view

Nairaland boys falling my hand since 1820

lightking99:
we are just talking about that in my office, the women said there is no problem, because a guy said he cann't and I support him dor, y because there will b no transparency from the side of the woman and no geniune respect...... Share your view

so what if you marry her poor and she becomes richer than you later, what will you do to her?

yes. I marry personality not riches so, it depends on the lady in question & of course her personality.

Godmystrength:
so what if you marry her poor and she becomes richer than you later, what will you do to her?

bro that is a different case because she made it wen u are in her life.

The reason y I agree with the guy is because the 1ce I know the men are just housebois or they are seperated.... Talking from experience bro.
But if u are married b4 riches comes in your respect is there aready

ozodimgba:
yes. I marry personality not riches so, it depends on the lady in question & of course her personality.

Yep bro it depend but some guys marry because d lady is rich which is a wrong reason to marry

lightking99:


bro that is a different case because she made it wen u are in her life.

The reason y I agree with the guy is because the 1ce I know the men are just housebois or they are seperated.... Talking from experience bro.
But if u are married b4 riches comes in your respect is there aready

making it when you are in her life or before you came into her life should make no difference really... Or are you saying you will not have respect for a woman you married after making all your money??

A woman who has no respect for you doesn't have it for you, whether she is rich, poor, was rich, was poor whatever......

If a woman wants to stop respecting you, before you can blink your eye, the respect is gone so forget about ''your respect is already there''

Godmystrength:
A woman who has no respec for you doesn't have it for you, whether she is rich, poor, was rich, was poor whatever......

It is easier for a poor woman to have respect/fear for a richer man

lightking99:


Yep bro it depend but some guys marry because d lady is rich which is a wrong reason to marry

Rich women too must also get marry now abi? except you are saying that they should keep looking for men that are richer than them or stop getting richer/put their life on hold just to find a man to marry them...

pickabeau1:
It is easier for a poor woman to have respect/fear for a richer man

Thank God you said it is EASIER and not that it is a CERTAINTY
and that a woman fears a man doesn't mean that she also respects him.

Godmystrength:

Thank God you said it is EASIER and not that it is a CERTAINTY
and that a woman fears a man doesn't mean that she also respects him.

Just wanted to state that...the probability is higher in the event the woman is poorer than the man

Carry on


DAzall

Provided I earn enough to take care of my family y shld I b worried she is my wife d4 one plus one is equal to one.

I ll nt marry a woman dt is nt totally submissive to me

Not possible

Godmystrength:
Rich women too must also get marry now abi? except you are saying that they should keep looking for men that are richer than them or stop getting richer/put their life on hold just to find a man to marry them...


Thank God you said it is EASIER and not that it is a CERTAINTY
and that a woman fears a man doesn't mean that she also respects him.

bro pls that is my opinion and advice to the guy doh not pertainin to every woman doh
and I know d guy so well, if he tries it heis digging his own grave

I think this question have being discussed earlier












Marry personality, character and compatability

Never

lightking99:


bro pls that is my opinion and advice to the guy doh not pertainin to every woman doh
and I know d guy so well, if he tries it heis digging his own grave

sorry sir. be not vexed that i put my mouth in matter wey concern me not....

Godmystrength:
sorry sir. be not vexed that i put my mouth in matter wey concern me not....

vex 4 what @nairaland even if person insult me na e headache.... U have ur own opinoin so nobody fit stop u to talk am

It's Possible but it's less likely for me not because I am afraid of a successful women or won't get married to one ... The reason is my real joy in life come from the fact that I rise to the top on my own terms, with my own sweat and energy. Not due to the wealth of my wife or her parents. If I am already wealthy and she is more wealthy than me, that's a much better scenario.

I would not want anyone blabbing tomorrow when we have a misunderstanding that they made me who I am.

#Mathew Briggs

Matthewbriggs:
It's Possible but it's less likely for me not because I am afraid of a successful women or won't get married to one ... The reason is my real joy in life come from the fact that I rise to the top on my own terms, with my own sweat and energy. Not due to the wealth of my wife or her parents. If I am already wealthy and she is more wealthy than me, that's a much better scenario.

I would not want anyone blabbing tomorrow when we have a misunderstanding that they made me who I am.

#Mathew Briggs

nice point bro

Yes na.
What is there.

I dated a girl the was richer than me, money was never an issue no matter how much she gave me she never complained, I felt it was not just right, my ego was hurt finally I had to walk out of the relationship, for marriage I wouldn't dare to try it.
yes the lady may be disciplined enough to submit her self to the husband but still there will always be but

Godmystrength:

making it when you are in her life or before you came into her life should make no difference really... Or are you saying you will not have respect for a woman you married after making all your money??

A woman who has no respect for you doesn't have it for you, whether she is rich, poor, was rich, was poor whatever......

If a woman wants to stop respecting you, before you can blink your eye, the respect is gone so forget about ''your respect is already there''

It does,.... a great deal.

@coloured, maybe in some cases but not entirely true