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Difference Between Love And Lust! 10 Signs. by Nobody: 6:27am On Nov 22, 2014 |
Difference Between Love and Lust – 10 Signs! Your heart is racing, your knees are shaking and you just can’t wait to be with your love; but the question is: Is it real love? This post is important to both singles and the married. Singles need to be aware of the difference between love and lust. It is important to know that lust does not begin with a Big Bang! Many marriages end up in divorce because what spouses thought was love was mere lust. Also, the primary problem with lust is that it can never be satisfied, and the absence of real love causes a person to lose interest in the flame of what they thought will last a lifetime. You will never start off being consumed by lust. In fact, in the initial stage it’s as small (but powerful) as a simple thought. Appreciation of the other then seeps deeper into the cracks and crevices of a broken or shaky heart to be replaced by admiration. That admiration earns for attention. The newly formed combination of perfect attention and growing admiration grows roots and becomes poisonous. Like weeds that mingle into good crops, lust begins to eat up the heart and minds, growing faster and more exciting than anything else around. Then comes a time for the weeds to be exposed and uprooted, and somehow it always seems to affect the real crop no matter how safely it is played. Here are some of the signs of lust: 1. You’re totally in awe of the person’s features. 2. You’re focused on how ‘cool’ the person’s appearance is. 3. Your conversations are always unreal and flirtatious. 4. You’re obsessed around that person. 5. You’re more like love birds than friends. 6. You’re interested in having sex more than anything else. 7. You’re more drawn to where that person is in life than the heart of the individual. 8. You’re insensitive to everyone else around you and care only about what you can get through that relationship. 9. Lack of attention drives you to be a person you are never proud to be. 10. You place a greater focus on the fantasies than the actual facts and responsibilities of a relationship. To The Singles: Don’t jump the gun. Wait for the euphoria to cool down. The majority of young people who don’t wait for marriage prior to being committed to each other physically have ended up getting bored and breaking their hearts. I know; if this is you, you’d be thinking that you are different but that is exactly what the others thought as well! If the guy/girl is serious about you, he/she would be willing to wait for marriage and honour God and each other by taking responsibility of their beautiful emotions and feelings. That is a sign of respect and seriousness accredited to the relationship. To The Married: Statistics indicate the divorce ratio of marriages being higher with remarriages: either the second or third time around. Instead of looking for joy outside, start doing everything necessary to work on the marriage you’re in. Any desire for anyone outside of your marriage is not love but lust. No matter how undervalued you feel when you value yourself, everything around you changes. [tweet this] The enemy will try to make you think your marriage is no longer as interesting as it used to be. The only way to overcome lustful passions is not to walk away but flee from it! Just shut your door to sin and go cold turkey! Remember the deceiver wants to deceive you and grass always seems greener till you reach the other side. source: www.revivenations.org 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Difference Between Love And Lust! 10 Signs. by DesChyko: 6:49am On Nov 22, 2014 |
Lust is the first stage of Love, Q.E.D. 2 Likes |
Re: Difference Between Love And Lust! 10 Signs. by iamodenigbo1(m): 7:42am On Nov 22, 2014 |
ok |
Re: Difference Between Love And Lust! 10 Signs. by Nobody: 8:30am On Nov 22, 2014 |
So whr did we stop? I think true bloood....i used to like d mivie buh wen i got to season two, d sex scenes werent much nd it was too much of drama.... So i lost interest..do dey hav season 3 |
Re: Difference Between Love And Lust! 10 Signs. by Nobody: 8:48am On Nov 22, 2014 |
Cutehector4u:yes! the movie isn't rly that great, but the sex scenes kept me glued. it has up to season 7 sef, I'm tired of watching it. |
Re: Difference Between Love And Lust! 10 Signs. by Nobody: 8:51am On Nov 22, 2014 |
EroticAngelina:loooooooooooooooooooooooooooool............ Why ddnt u watch spartacus? Or rome or tudors... These movies got alot of sex scenes...or do u like it slow or rough |
Re: Difference Between Love And Lust! 10 Signs. by Nobody: 9:05am On Nov 22, 2014 |
Cutehector4u:lol I've not watched any of them... hmmmm this ur question ehn I think I like rough one, not too rough tho.... |
Re: Difference Between Love And Lust! 10 Signs. by Nobody: 9:06am On Nov 22, 2014 |
EroticAngelina:see u..always pretendin... Wait wait wait..u mean u havnt seen spartacus? Whch planet r u in |
Re: Difference Between Love And Lust! 10 Signs. by Nobody: 9:14am On Nov 22, 2014 |
Cutehector4u:lol Pluto. I haven't seen Spartacus..doesn't look cool to me..looks like a war film, which I totally despise |
Re: Difference Between Love And Lust! 10 Signs. by Nobody: 9:16am On Nov 22, 2014 |
EroticAngelina:looool..war film..lmao.. U seen suits? |
Re: Difference Between Love And Lust! 10 Signs. by Nobody: 9:22am On Nov 22, 2014 |
Cutehector4u:nope! I love romantic, vampire and cartoons! call me a baby, I don't care I so love cartoons. 1 Like |
Re: Difference Between Love And Lust! 10 Signs. by Nobody: 9:26am On Nov 22, 2014 |
EroticAngelina:lol i lyk cartoons too..hey.why will i call u baybee jor..wen we hv so much in common.... U need to see suits tho..its very very romantic..... U will thnk me later for recommendin it to u wen ur done watching it.... Lool ..tom nd jery is for kids jor... Matured cartoons like south park, the boondock saints, etc.. Den i loove animated movies... Especialy rio..oh my my...... |
Re: Difference Between Love And Lust! 10 Signs. by Nobody: 9:31am On Nov 22, 2014 |
Cutehector4u:really? that's surprising, but cool! didn't know u loved cartoons too! maybe I will try that suit. I love cartoons like barbie time warp trios, justice league, phineas n ferb, toy story etc 1 Like |
Re: Difference Between Love And Lust! 10 Signs. by Nobody: 9:38am On Nov 22, 2014 |
EroticAngelina:lol av seen all ov dem jor....... Cartoons r great tho..sum ppo think dey r childish buh dey really miss d comedy.... 1 Like |
Re: Difference Between Love And Lust! 10 Signs. by Nobody: 9:42am On Nov 22, 2014 |
Cutehector4u:exactly do u like the wind in the willow? 1 Like |
Re: Difference Between Love And Lust! 10 Signs. by Nobody: 9:43am On Nov 22, 2014 |
EroticAngelina:i havnt seen dat one... Is it interestin too? |
Re: Difference Between Love And Lust! 10 Signs. by Equado(m): 9:44am On Nov 22, 2014 |
EroticAngelina:ah lawv cartoons,,,evn @ ma age 1 Like |
Re: Difference Between Love And Lust! 10 Signs. by Nobody: 9:45am On Nov 22, 2014 |
Cutehector4u:ITS THE OPPOSITE OF INTERESTING!! Jesus, I hate that cartoon |
Re: Difference Between Love And Lust! 10 Signs. by Nobody: 9:46am On Nov 22, 2014 |
Equado:lol how old r u? |
Re: Difference Between Love And Lust! 10 Signs. by Nobody: 9:49am On Nov 22, 2014 |
EroticAngelina:loooooool.... Must be very very boring......its been so long i watched cartoon last sef... I swear wen i settle down, get a tv nd dstv....will be good to go.. |
Re: Difference Between Love And Lust! 10 Signs. by Nobody: 9:53am On Nov 22, 2014 |
EroticAngelina:btw, wah turns u off? |
Re: Difference Between Love And Lust! 10 Signs. by Equado(m): 9:56am On Nov 22, 2014 |
EroticAngelina:in btw 24 and 28.... |
Re: Difference Between Love And Lust! 10 Signs. by Nobody: 9:56am On Nov 22, 2014 |
Cutehector4u:so boring u will see it on kidsco dstv |
Re: Difference Between Love And Lust! 10 Signs. by Nobody: 9:58am On Nov 22, 2014 |
EroticAngelina:i wil block the channel..cartoon network nd boomerang is ok... My favoryt...sponge bob square pants...hilarious nd naughty things...lol |
Re: Difference Between Love And Lust! 10 Signs. by stan241(m): 10:02am On Nov 22, 2014 |
E good as everybody just leave this thread for two of una 1 Like |
Re: Difference Between Love And Lust! 10 Signs. by Nobody: 10:03am On Nov 22, 2014 |
Cutehector4u:umm many things o.. cnt list all of them, but some are.. sweating turns me off like mad! bad breath, scanty eyebrows, bald head turns me off too etc |
Re: Difference Between Love And Lust! 10 Signs. by Nobody: 10:06am On Nov 22, 2014 |
Equado:ah don't be shy abt it dear. me, even if I reach 60yrs old, nothing will come inbetween I and cartoon! we are ONE! |
Re: Difference Between Love And Lust! 10 Signs. by Nobody: 10:08am On Nov 22, 2014 |
EroticAngelina:looooooool.......... I knw wat u'd be thinkn if a guy who z sweatin profusely sits down near u...ur face will just change..u'd b like....pls ds guy shuld stand up quickly......look at how he is smelling.... Lol smth like dat.... I only hate it wen sum1 who is sweatin brushes me with his sweaty skin.... I feel like scrubbin that area of my skin with hard brush... |
Re: Difference Between Love And Lust! 10 Signs. by Equado(m): 10:10am On Nov 22, 2014 |
EroticAngelina:seconded |
Re: Difference Between Love And Lust! 10 Signs. by Nobody: 10:18am On Nov 22, 2014 |
Cutehector4u:lwkmd! I will be so maaaad if someone sweating comes near me! but if that person's body touches me BLOOOOOOD OF JEHOVA!!!!!!! hell will be let loosed!!! you must wash my dress with dettol! hehehe the kyn bad eye I go give you ehn! if looks could kill, u would be D.E.A.D by now!! |
Re: Difference Between Love And Lust! 10 Signs. by Nobody: 10:44am On Nov 22, 2014 |
EroticAngelina:looooooooool..its d looks i was talkn abt...loool...... Lol cmon, wat if the guy sweeps u off ur feet ..d one with bald head... |
Re: Difference Between Love And Lust! 10 Signs. by Samguine: 11:20am On Nov 22, 2014 |
I thought this thread was to discuss Love and Lust? Why do I just see two people's passion for por.n films and phobia for sweaty people? |
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