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8 Despicable Reasons Why Nigerian Men Get Into Marriage by MegMich(m): 8:51pm On Dec 07, 2014 |
I have always bin of the opinion that if I were a lady, I won't just marry because our culture sees no life for its ladies outside marriage. Though our culture is such that truly allows and provides for long lasting marriage, it in many ways put our ladies under pressure, as such, they succumb to just any man. Given that once out of marriage(through divorce or simple separation) getting married again is a toll order given the mind set of the typical African man, it is therefore paramount that measures should be taken to avoid regrets. Hence, I tot it wise to gather these facts obtained through interaction while Nigerian men get into marriage: 1- I have made money syndrome. This is seen amongst young promising men who feel they should have an 'Oriaku' to spend on. 2- Am of age. Funny enof people still sponsor other people's marriage because they feel he should have a wife considering his age. Most often however, men are cajoled into marriage becos of their age and some, to avoid this would rather do the presumed needful. 3- I need a cook. After all, women's education ends in kitchen. Beware, the bulk of people in this category are wife beaters. 4- Mark of manliness. Who says marriage is synonymous with manliness 5- Financial security. If you are a lady who is established or has potentials, beware you may fall for this. Most men marry doctors, nurses, lawyers etc for what they can get financially. 6- Bear children to continue linage(if there is anything like that). What is the guarantee that you or the man is fertile enof to start producing immediately? Beware of mother-in-law sickness. 7- To curtail promiscuity. Brother, if you are promiscuous before marriage, are you sure u're gonna stop once married? Prayer is the way out. 8- Old age security! Young wives versus old men. Wonder why you women marry men thrice their age?? Nigerian men are truly wise. Finally, marriage is an institution installed by our creator. Reasons as to entering this should be genuine and all encompassing. I there urge you to seek Him diligently for he has the answers. I rep Naija 2 Likes |
Re: 8 Despicable Reasons Why Nigerian Men Get Into Marriage by braintext(m): 8:58pm On Dec 07, 2014 |
Quote me on fp |
Re: 8 Despicable Reasons Why Nigerian Men Get Into Marriage by Pavore9: 10:09pm On Dec 07, 2014 |
Anyone who is getting married has his/her reasons likewise those who chose not to get married nor have biological children. Make the right decision and find joy in it. 1 Like |
Re: 8 Despicable Reasons Why Nigerian Men Get Into Marriage by Elcemento(m): 10:18pm On Dec 07, 2014 |
OP on point! #CEMENT!!! |
Re: 8 Despicable Reasons Why Nigerian Men Get Into Marriage by Jazzlite: 10:21pm On Dec 07, 2014 |
Op can you tell us y women get married? |
Re: 8 Despicable Reasons Why Nigerian Men Get Into Marriage by olamydey(f): 12:13am On Dec 08, 2014 |
I was expecting to see free s*x. |
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