nataisha:
I don't see any thing bad in it. let my family whole me and not pay me
than letting an outsider whole me and run away with my doh.

mayapop:
Lmao! this happens to my mum a lot, after giving you all the money, to return back will be a big issue, they will stop calling her, even when she calls they won't pick up, when she act up, they will start saying negative things about her, before you know it! they will start keeping malice As for me, i won't give out money to someone if I'm pretty sure they won't pay back

Sweetlemon:



owe

adeyemi97:
are you from ijebu

Adesiji77:
This article really speaks to me; I have lost some hard-earned cash due to what the Yorubas call 'Oju-Anu' (someone should me translate this please ) in the past and even, recent past.

I have resorted to modest cash gifts WHEN possible. This article only reinforces my resolve.

orbis:
The worst is your ex...that money is bye bye

NnamdiN:
I'd have to generalize here women don't pay back. Even if she dey cry blood, no give am

woomiewoomie:
Evryday I pray to God help me recover all ve borrowed out,if one is not carful,one wil end up being broke

haibe:


Ah! Mo gbe. Why did I ever come across this thread, am really scared now oo. I must get my money back.

NnamdiN:
I'd have to generalize here women don't pay back. Even if she dey cry blood, no give am

Francon:
I have so many bitter experiences

I remember I had just resume work in a telecom. After about a week or so, a female colleague approached me for some money. We went together to d atm and she saw me withdraw every dime I had in my accounts. (Cos that was the week they were gonna pay my money)

When the day for the pay back came, she gave me several excuses with regard to the money and promised to give me with an interest( wasn't bothered about the interest)

Days rolled to weeks and months and there were no signs of she paying me back. I hadly go to my debtors to ask for my money. So something very urgent came and I approached her and she was like " you are embarrassing me, I have told you I will pay you back later"

Suddenly this gal came to the office with a brand new samsung galaxy S3 and bb Q10 (when it was first launched). I went to ask her for the money. She turned it to a quarrel and she told me boldly she wasn't gonna give me the money.

Funny enough, she meant her words and she didn't pay me. I swore never to borrow a huge amount of money again.... I loan some money to someone recently (through my sibling). And the person just keep paying in a provocative manner

For example, gave out 400k
She paid 100k after 6 months
5k another month
2 k another month
10k another month

I'm tired of taking it instalmentally.

I have made up my mind to give out only what I can forget for the person if she doesn't oblige...

Very easy to loan but difficult to collect it back.
And this is the number one destroyer of friendship

NnamdiN:
lol your money don enter voice mail women and money be like rat and fish

Besto:

seconded....asin ehn...a lady i did lend money cruise me round lagos...finally drop me for ALABA-SURU.its 2years now..babe lock up..

then of lately smoda 1 came rubbing my head requesting i lend ha sm bar....the kinda looks i gave ha ehn....she herself told me neva mind

haibe:
I pray this will not be my portion in Jesus name. Anyway it's just 2 weeks since i lent her this one, I hope I get repaid by next week.