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Re: Should You Continue To Give Loans To Friends, Relatives? by Bawss1(m): 2:27pm On Dec 16, 2014 |
Janet101: Great. I want 500K, I'll pay you back after the new yam festival. Thanks. 4 Likes |
Re: Should You Continue To Give Loans To Friends, Relatives? by Janet101(f): 2:39pm On Dec 16, 2014 |
Re: Should You Continue To Give Loans To Friends, Relatives? by mgb4reel(m): 2:49pm On Dec 16, 2014 |
Seriously, this article is directed towards me gangan. I hardly reject when someone asked me for loan especially when the person is in dying need of the money; I will be like, I have 100k in my account and somehow is in dying need of just 10k. My problem is not loaning out money but the problem is paying me back. If its a very honest and reliable person, trust me, i could withdraw all the money in my acct for you but such individual are very rare. So, i will rather stick to the policy of giving out what i can dash. 1 Like |
Re: Should You Continue To Give Loans To Friends, Relatives? by mgb4reel(m): 3:00pm On Dec 16, 2014 |
emmalexabl:You got me there. I experienced one with an old time friend recently. i really feel bad about it. 45k just go like dat. |
Re: Should You Continue To Give Loans To Friends, Relatives? by Nobody: 3:08pm On Dec 16, 2014 |
Lol Onegai: 1 Like |
Re: Should You Continue To Give Loans To Friends, Relatives? by emmalexabl(m): 3:28pm On Dec 16, 2014 |
mgb4reel: Same old time friends whom i have willingly decided to assist by lending them cash(on request) to boost their business... And at the end of the day what do they do....they repay you with evil. At a time i started praying psalms for them to return my money. One owed me to tune of 300k and refused picking my calls( for my hard earned money). And when it seems the psalms arent working, i have to go physical. I have to enter onitsha and straight to old market road.,my money came out by fire by force after police made some arrests. |
Re: Should You Continue To Give Loans To Friends, Relatives? by zemaye: 3:37pm On Dec 16, 2014 |
Wow I learnt the hard way but my skin is thick now!!! As the article stated I just give what I can as gift and move on But before I will give what I can and then some, to the extent of dissatisfying myself, thank God I have seen the light . 1 Like |
Re: Should You Continue To Give Loans To Friends, Relatives? by mgb4reel(m): 3:44pm On Dec 16, 2014 |
emmalexabl:lol...good for you bro. That may not be feasible in my case sha. The guy is in awka and here i am in lagos hustling. Baba God de sha. Na lesson the guy teach me. |
Re: Should You Continue To Give Loans To Friends, Relatives? by Nobody: 8:01pm On Dec 16, 2014 |
Adesiji77:OJU-ANU=PITY EYES 1 Like |
Re: Should You Continue To Give Loans To Friends, Relatives? by Doclight(m): 8:57pm On Dec 16, 2014 |
mentorandfriend:Mentor u're sighted! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should You Continue To Give Loans To Friends, Relatives? by Nobody: 9:14am On Dec 17, 2014 |
Bawss1: 1 Like |
Re: Should You Continue To Give Loans To Friends, Relatives? by prettymaxy(f): 6:12pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
NnamdiN:Really? Women generally don't pay back nd I've never borrowd mony frm a guy Even my guy dat I borrwd 40k to d mony stayd more dan 1yr b4 he paid back with quarrel He even went to report me to our closest friends dat I collected d mony he owed me frm him Nw he's owing 110k, because I tld him to pay me only 10k out of d whole sum for nw dat I was broke he turnd it to quarel again dat I was insulting him And u tink its only girls dat re nt credit worthy 1 Like |
Re: Should You Continue To Give Loans To Friends, Relatives? by NnamdiN: 8:02pm On Dec 17, 2014 |
prettymaxy:I intentionally generalized i have more male debtors than females, with guys, there's hope and you could use force to get it back, with females, there's usually no hope, I'd rather have a dude owe me |
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