Men are naturally violent,but it reduces as they
grow. A man needs break away from his
adolescent shell. He needs have his own family
someday and a handful numbers of heart are
soon going to be waiting for him to come home
and care for them. When this time comes, a man
needs to be 100 percent tolerant. He always
needs overlook so many things. Although ,it's
easier said than done especially for those men
who had been in the habit of living a lonely and
isolated life.
A man needs work towards been not just a mere
man, but been the right man.
The right man is a kind of man that is
objective ,he cares so much about his wife's and
children's reputation. He knows quit well that
he is a prominent epitome of the family's image.
A right man makes his wife happy at all cost.
He's quick to always say,"I'm sorry baby" just to
avoid issues,and he's always going to be sincere
with this.
A man is likely to control 90% of his anger ,if
not totally avoid it, by naturally embedding the
above highlighted intrinsic attributes of a right
man.
For total avoidance of anger, a man needs to be
extremely silent when matters are about
escalating to an hot argument.
If the the wife continues to make provocative
statements, the man should just leave that very
moment. If not ,the man is likely to do
something crazy and stupid.
Then the man needs not to take his wife so
serious each time she raises unnecessary
complaints.Of course this is bound to occur
most times. So, a man must get prepared for
this.

Source: http://watzdating..nl/2014/12/how-man-can-manage-control-his-anger.html?m=1

a hungry man is an angry man so all he needs is food

. . . and sex

If you want to know how to control such a man, buy a book on dog training and use it on him but first thing you have to do is accept his flaws and stop nagging. It is the Only way the book will help you because if you don't stay calm, you will also become just like the beast you are trying to tame.