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Re: 24 Things A Mum Teaches Her Daughter Before Marriage!! by emperorlog: 10:51am On Jan 10, 2015
Beautiful piece!!!
Re: 24 Things A Mum Teaches Her Daughter Before Marriage!! by Nobody: 10:53am On Jan 10, 2015
MUM, on behalf of the entire male alive on earth,I appreciate your effort in trying to correct your daughters. God bless you.

But your daughters will listen and yet won't obey.
They don't want to grow with us but want already MADE men.
Prostitution in your days has been modernized by them,its now called RUNS.
Last week one of us left one of them because she never fails to attend parties around the state.even the galaxyTV Xmas party she attended.

Because of kind and caring mothers like you,we are ready to give some of them a second chance.

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Re: 24 Things A Mum Teaches Her Daughter Before Marriage!! by eligibility: 10:53am On Jan 10, 2015
RoyalRoy:
[size=15pt]Originally By Francon[/size]


My daughter, don’t cause a separation between your man and his siblings; it could be dangerous for you when they finally speak with one voice.


• My daughter, I know that some of you girls don’t wish to marry a man whose mother is still alive, don’t ever think like that, if you do, well, I think your son’s wife-to-be should start wishing you're dead now.


• My daughter, listen to me, when I married your father, he was as tiny as his salary but I chose to grow with him and today, those cars out there are some of the results of what we started so little, together, and we’re proud looking at them.


• My daughter, there is this thing i see happening in your time, some of you girls now get pregnant before the wedding day, well, it never happened in our time because no matter what, we never opened our laps before the wedding.


• My daughter, well, yes, I once locked up the cloth of your father because I got to my limit of patience and that was the only thing I could do, but one thing I haven’t said was that we settled the issue that same day and that was the last time I tried that.


• My daughter, look up there. That’s the wedding picture of your father and I, look at him smiling, I know you've seen it many times but what you did not know is that your father was angry before taking this picture, I hope you find a man whose anger doesn't last till the next day.


• My daughter, when your Father was riding a bicycle, I was always happy to hop on it and ride with him, not because I didn't see those men in their little cars but because my eyes also saw those men trekking to their farms.


• My daughter, if you and your husband eat a little food with love, you both would be satisfied. Times are not always the same; support him in every phase he’s passing through.


• My daughter, don’t ever close your laps to your husband in bed , the day he paid your dowry was the day you lost your will to do so, don’t be stiff and try to satisfy him even if you were angry with him.


• My daughter, a man would respect you and be more proud of you if you’re learned and not totally dependent on him. Strive to make your own money and while you're at it, be humble.


• My daughter, under the cocoa tree that I did meet with your Father was open and good enough for our discussions, yes; it was open and good enough if you understand what I mean.


• My daughter, in our time, we had sexy legs and firm bosoms to show our men , in fact, we had the finest ones, yet, when we dress, we cover those parts of our body, not because we were not civilized as you people would call it, but because we know that the eyes of men are hungry, many of them would only come, touch and go their way.


• My daughter, there is this thing you girls now practice, they say it’s feminism. Well, you can prove to be equal to a man in the society but please, not in your marriage because at my old age, I don’t want to start counting your husbands.


• My daughter, marriage is not a Rehabilitation Centre, if he’s not good enough for you before marriage, nothing he does would be good
enough after marriage.


• My daughter, you can see I still wear my night gown , yes, because to my husband; your father, I still want to look sexy. So, take good care of your body, look good for your man and don’t look like a grandma after giving birth.


• My daughter, I’m your mother and still, I'm not interested in you coming to me always if anything goes wrong with your husband. Though nowadays I see some mothers controlling the homes of their sons and daughters, I would only say; shame on them!


• My daughter, for you to have a peaceful home and well-trained children, have one voice with your husband, join him to say NO when he’s saying NO before the kids but later when you both are alone, you can plead with him for a YES, if not, the
children will see a loophole to misbehave, either to you or their father.


• My daughter, if you chose to live together with a man that you’re yet to be married to , and you are complaining that he hasn't proposed to you, oh, he already did. Whatever he said that made you start living with him was his proposal.


• My daughter, your generation does not see any pride in been a virgin before marriage, it’s a shame! Your father met me a virgin and he brought more yams to my parents and up till today, he’s still proud of me when we discuss in that direction.


• My daughter, I know that no man out there is complete, but when you are looking for your tall, slim, fair and handsome, if he’s a woman-beater, please, go for the short, fat, dark and ugly that will give you the respect you deserve as a woman.


• My daughter, know, learn and respect the culture and lifestyle of whoever you chose to marry . In some part of Africa, you knee down to greet your man’s parents while in some part outside Africa; you can even call them by their first name and ask for a
handshake. Whatever they believe in, if you've chosen him, believe it with him also.


• My daughter, don’t ever try to date a married man, whether his excuse was that he doesn't find happiness with his wife or he would have married you if he had met you first, if you ever try it, I curse you already.


• My daughter, when I say over 52 years of marriage , it wasn't that I did not see any reason to leave your father, I saw a lot of them but I bear his faults, i forgave him to stay married.


• My daughter, these are part of the wisdom i have gathered over the years. and If I had taken my time to tell you all these, and your marriage doesn't last like that of your father and I, then I had wished i never gave birth to you.

I so much appreciate this simple thought .
Have a rethink and don't be too hungry about western civilization. Lets try to be a moralist.
Some are created to marry more than one wife, though bible does not kick against monogamy ,its only the quran that says marry only one.
A pastor preaches against adultery but has many mistresses and still believe in monogamy.
Quranically,men are created to have more than one wife if so wishes.
Provided you are financially buoyant and energetic. Its hypocritical to have one wife and many mistresses outside wedlock . In a simple sentence, the population of male gender does not corroborate with the female counterpart. Its better to be a second wife than not to get married legally. 70% of our ladies will not be able to get married if we are waiting for single husband . Do your research?
Re: 24 Things A Mum Teaches Her Daughter Before Marriage!! by Pamcrest(f): 10:54am On Jan 10, 2015
Mothers should teach some of these things to their sons too. Marriage takes two to succeed....both of them must play their part to ensure peace in their home.
My humble submission

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Re: 24 Things A Mum Teaches Her Daughter Before Marriage!! by jonezz(m): 10:54am On Jan 10, 2015
Hmmmm
Re: 24 Things A Mum Teaches Her Daughter Before Marriage!! by Obaino2013(m): 10:55am On Jan 10, 2015
Nice Thread.
Re: 24 Things A Mum Teaches Her Daughter Before Marriage!! by Dammyjohn(m): 10:57am On Jan 10, 2015
LORD GOD ALMIGHTY.I pray that I marry such a virtuous lady with all these 24 lessons in her in JESUS name.Amen.This is my wish in this year 2015.So,help me LORD.

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Re: 24 Things A Mum Teaches Her Daughter Before Marriage!! by akashi01(m): 11:00am On Jan 10, 2015
ok
Re: 24 Things A Mum Teaches Her Daughter Before Marriage!! by litetias(m): 11:03am On Jan 10, 2015
The part about feminism is so true. No man likes an emancipated woman under his roof.
Re: 24 Things A Mum Teaches Her Daughter Before Marriage!! by sharon763: 11:03am On Jan 10, 2015
But some men...after suffering wif dem,dey wil now leave u for anoda woman becos they need a classy lady

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Re: 24 Things A Mum Teaches Her Daughter Before Marriage!! by victorazy(m): 11:04am On Jan 10, 2015
elantraceey:
Wow , i've learnt cool

Just learning it? Ur too far young lady!
Re: 24 Things A Mum Teaches Her Daughter Before Marriage!! by lilmax(m): 11:05am On Jan 10, 2015
sharon763:
But some men...after suffering wif dem,dey wil now leave u for anoda woman becos they need a classy lady
define a classy lady
Re: 24 Things A Mum Teaches Her Daughter Before Marriage!! by Nobody: 11:05am On Jan 10, 2015
Haha
Re: 24 Things A Mum Teaches Her Daughter Before Marriage!! by Ewatomi26(f): 11:15am On Jan 10, 2015
I luv dis. Wuld hold it tight wit my left hand so I wuldnt eat wit it.
Re: 24 Things A Mum Teaches Her Daughter Before Marriage!! by Nobody: 11:15am On Jan 10, 2015
sharon763:
But some men...after suffering wif dem,dey wil now leave u for anoda woman becos they need a classy lady



And ur point is?
Re: 24 Things A Mum Teaches Her Daughter Before Marriage!! by Rexyl(m): 11:16am On Jan 10, 2015
Nice one. Words of advice for those who care to read understand and apply them. It looks like a compilation of 18 century when people cared so much about moral behaviors.
Re: 24 Things A Mum Teaches Her Daughter Before Marriage!! by MrEdimulo82(m): 11:18am On Jan 10, 2015
grin grin grin grin

yungryce:
If to say dis girls dey use their ear, my short, ugly self for don marry since 18AD.


Some girls go still find some loopholes in dis post sha
Re: 24 Things A Mum Teaches Her Daughter Before Marriage!! by ddooskie(m): 11:19am On Jan 10, 2015
Spot on!

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Re: 24 Things A Mum Teaches Her Daughter Before Marriage!! by Edigrows: 11:19am On Jan 10, 2015
one of the best formulae that would bring happiness to a lady. Thanks OP.

I hav grab my own space for FP sha grin
Re: 24 Things A Mum Teaches Her Daughter Before Marriage!! by Francon(f): 11:20am On Jan 10, 2015
Thank you Royal
Re: 24 Things A Mum Teaches Her Daughter Before Marriage!! by Nobody: 11:23am On Jan 10, 2015
I hope the ladies listen at least for my sake
Non good looking men like myself find it hard to get back a hi when we say hello
I wonder how my dad got my mom cuse seriously am yet to c eny girl in nl who is as pretty as my mom


Not even close
Re: 24 Things A Mum Teaches Her Daughter Before Marriage!! by elderhimself(m): 11:26am On Jan 10, 2015
Makes perfect sense to us all....... If only our ladies wld wake up from their dreams of feminism, equality and real womanhood...coz that is where they all get it wrong. Our generation needs serious help !!
Re: 24 Things A Mum Teaches Her Daughter Before Marriage!! by elantraceey(f): 11:27am On Jan 10, 2015
victorazy:


Just learning it? Ur too far young lady!

na , i didn't just learn everything there but i learnt something.
Re: 24 Things A Mum Teaches Her Daughter Before Marriage!! by sheddran: 11:28am On Jan 10, 2015
Just passing by
Re: 24 Things A Mum Teaches Her Daughter Before Marriage!! by Nobody: 11:30am On Jan 10, 2015
Nice one. Feminism isn't good in marriage, there is nothing like equal right.

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Re: 24 Things A Mum Teaches Her Daughter Before Marriage!! by odehaj: 11:32am On Jan 10, 2015
Great!
Re: 24 Things A Mum Teaches Her Daughter Before Marriage!! by Nobody: 11:36am On Jan 10, 2015
You guys make it seem as if marriage is actually a good thing

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Re: 24 Things A Mum Teaches Her Daughter Before Marriage!! by StarCj(m): 11:37am On Jan 10, 2015
wow, this is wonderful. I will save this n tell it to my daughter
Re: 24 Things A Mum Teaches Her Daughter Before Marriage!! by ayo26(m): 11:38am On Jan 10, 2015
There was a post like this before for men...Good but not Original
Re: 24 Things A Mum Teaches Her Daughter Before Marriage!! by Chartey(m): 11:42am On Jan 10, 2015
RoyalRoy:
[size=15pt]Originally By Francon[/size]


My daughter, don’t cause a separation between your man and his siblings; it could be dangerous for you when they finally speak with one voice.


• My daughter, I know that some of you girls don’t wish to marry a man whose mother is still alive, don’t ever think like that, if you do, well, I think your son’s wife-to-be should start wishing you're dead now.


• My daughter, listen to me, when I married your father, he was as tiny as his salary but I chose to grow with him and today, those cars out there are some of the results of what we started so little, together, and we’re proud looking at them.


• My daughter, there is this thing i see happening in your time, some of you girls now get pregnant before the wedding day, well, it never happened in our time because no matter what, we never opened our laps before the wedding.


• My daughter, well, yes, I once locked up the cloth of your father because I got to my limit of patience and that was the only thing I could do, but one thing I haven’t said was that we settled the issue that same day and that was the last time I tried that.


• My daughter, look up there. That’s the wedding picture of your father and I, look at him smiling, I know you've seen it many times but what you did not know is that your father was angry before taking this picture, I hope you find a man whose anger doesn't last till the next day.


• My daughter, when your Father was riding a bicycle, I was always happy to hop on it and ride with him, not because I didn't see those men in their little cars but because my eyes also saw those men trekking to their farms.


• My daughter, if you and your husband eat a little food with love, you both would be satisfied. Times are not always the same; support him in every phase he’s passing through.


• My daughter, don’t ever close your laps to your husband in bed , the day he paid your dowry was the day you lost your will to do so, don’t be stiff and try to satisfy him even if you were angry with him.


• My daughter, a man would respect you and be more proud of you if you’re learned and not totally dependent on him. Strive to make your own money and while you're at it, be humble.


• My daughter, under the cocoa tree that I did meet with your Father was open and good enough for our discussions, yes; it was open and good enough if you understand what I mean.


• My daughter, in our time, we had sexy legs and firm bosoms to show our men , in fact, we had the finest ones, yet, when we dress, we cover those parts of our body, not because we were not civilized as you people would call it, but because we know that the eyes of men are hungry, many of them would only come, touch and go their way.


• My daughter, there is this thing you girls now practice, they say it’s feminism. Well, you can prove to be equal to a man in the society but please, not in your marriage because at my old age, I don’t want to start counting your husbands.


• My daughter, marriage is not a Rehabilitation Centre, if he’s not good enough for you before marriage, nothing he does would be good
enough after marriage.


• My daughter, you can see I still wear my night gown , yes, because to my husband; your father, I still want to look sexy. So, take good care of your body, look good for your man and don’t look like a grandma after giving birth.


• My daughter, I’m your mother and still, I'm not interested in you coming to me always if anything goes wrong with your husband. Though nowadays I see some mothers controlling the homes of their sons and daughters, I would only say; shame on them!


• My daughter, for you to have a peaceful home and well-trained children, have one voice with your husband, join him to say NO when he’s saying NO before the kids but later when you both are alone, you can plead with him for a YES, if not, the
children will see a loophole to misbehave, either to you or their father.


• My daughter, if you chose to live together with a man that you’re yet to be married to , and you are complaining that he hasn't proposed to you, oh, he already did. Whatever he said that made you start living with him was his proposal.


• My daughter, your generation does not see any pride in been a virgin before marriage, it’s a shame! Your father met me a virgin and he brought more yams to my parents and up till today, he’s still proud of me when we discuss in that direction.


• My daughter, I know that no man out there is complete, but when you are looking for your tall, slim, fair and handsome, if he’s a woman-beater, please, go for the short, fat, dark and ugly that will give you the respect you deserve as a woman.


• My daughter, know, learn and respect the culture and lifestyle of whoever you chose to marry . In some part of Africa, you knee down to greet your man’s parents while in some part outside Africa; you can even call them by their first name and ask for a
handshake. Whatever they believe in, if you've chosen him, believe it with him also.


• My daughter, don’t ever try to date a married man, whether his excuse was that he doesn't find happiness with his wife or he would have married you if he had met you first, if you ever try it, I curse you already.


• My daughter, when I say over 52 years of marriage , it wasn't that I did not see any reason to leave your father, I saw a lot of them but I bear his faults, i forgave him to stay married.


• My daughter, these are part of the wisdom i have gathered over the years. and If I had taken my time to tell you all these, and your marriage doesn't last like that of your father and I, then I had wished i never gave birth to you.
Re: 24 Things A Mum Teaches Her Daughter Before Marriage!! by kayustones: 11:45am On Jan 10, 2015
RoyalRoy:
[size=15pt]Originally By Francon[/size]


My daughter, don’t cause a separation between your man and his siblings; it could be dangerous for you when they finally speak with one voice.


• My daughter, I know that some of you girls don’t wish to marry a man whose mother is still alive, don’t ever think like that, if you do, well, I think your son’s wife-to-be should start wishing you're dead now.


• My daughter, listen to me, when I married your father, he was as tiny as his salary but I chose to grow with him and today, those cars out there are some of the results of what we started so little, together, and we’re proud looking at them.


• My daughter, there is this thing i see happening in your time, some of you girls now get pregnant before the wedding day, well, it never happened in our time because no matter what, we never opened our laps before the wedding.


• My daughter, well, yes, I once locked up the cloth of your father because I got to my limit of patience and that was the only thing I could do, but one thing I haven’t said was that we settled the issue that same day and that was the last time I tried that.


• My daughter, look up there. That’s the wedding picture of your father and I, look at him smiling, I know you've seen it many times but what you did not know is that your father was angry before taking this picture, I hope you find a man whose anger doesn't last till the next day.


• My daughter, when your Father was riding a bicycle, I was always happy to hop on it and ride with him, not because I didn't see those men in their little cars but because my eyes also saw those men trekking to their farms.


• My daughter, if you and your husband eat a little food with love, you both would be satisfied. Times are not always the same; support him in every phase he’s passing through.


• My daughter, don’t ever close your laps to your husband in bed , the day he paid your dowry was the day you lost your will to do so, don’t be stiff and try to satisfy him even if you were angry with him.


• My daughter, a man would respect you and be more proud of you if you’re learned and not totally dependent on him. Strive to make your own money and while you're at it, be humble.


• My daughter, under the cocoa tree that I did meet with your Father was open and good enough for our discussions, yes; it was open and good enough if you understand what I mean.


• My daughter, in our time, we had sexy legs and firm bosoms to show our men , in fact, we had the finest ones, yet, when we dress, we cover those parts of our body, not because we were not civilized as you people would call it, but because we know that the eyes of men are hungry, many of them would only come, touch and go their way.


• My daughter, there is this thing you girls now practice, they say it’s feminism. Well, you can prove to be equal to a man in the society but please, not in your marriage because at my old age, I don’t want to start counting your husbands.


• My daughter, marriage is not a Rehabilitation Centre, if he’s not good enough for you before marriage, nothing he does would be good
enough after marriage.


• My daughter, you can see I still wear my night gown , yes, because to my husband; your father, I still want to look sexy. So, take good care of your body, look good for your man and don’t look like a grandma after giving birth.


• My daughter, I’m your mother and still, I'm not interested in you coming to me always if anything goes wrong with your husband. Though nowadays I see some mothers controlling the homes of their sons and daughters, I would only say; shame on them!


• My daughter, for you to have a peaceful home and well-trained children, have one voice with your husband, join him to say NO when he’s saying NO before the kids but later when you both are alone, you can plead with him for a YES, if not, the
children will see a loophole to misbehave, either to you or their father.


• My daughter, if you chose to live together with a man that you’re yet to be married to , and you are complaining that he hasn't proposed to you, oh, he already did. Whatever he said that made you start living with him was his proposal.


• My daughter, your generation does not see any pride in been a virgin before marriage, it’s a shame! Your father met me a virgin and he brought more yams to my parents and up till today, he’s still proud of me when we discuss in that direction.


• My daughter, I know that no man out there is complete, but when you are looking for your tall, slim, fair and handsome, if he’s a woman-beater, please, go for the short, fat, dark and ugly that will give you the respect you deserve as a woman.


• My daughter, know, learn and respect the culture and lifestyle of whoever you chose to marry . In some part of Africa, you knee down to greet your man’s parents while in some part outside Africa; you can even call them by their first name and ask for a
handshake. Whatever they believe in, if you've chosen him, believe it with him also.


• My daughter, don’t ever try to date a married man, whether his excuse was that he doesn't find happiness with his wife or he would have married you if he had met you first, if you ever try it, I curse you already.


• My daughter, when I say over 52 years of marriage , it wasn't that I did not see any reason to leave your father, I saw a lot of them but I bear his faults, i forgave him to stay married.


• My daughter, these are part of the wisdom i have gathered over the years. and If I had taken my time to tell you all these, and your marriage doesn't last like that of your father and I, then I had wished i never gave birth to you.

Well, to me most of this is pure crap. It puts too much responsibility on the woman.

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Re: 24 Things A Mum Teaches Her Daughter Before Marriage!! by obidiegwujane10(f): 11:45am On Jan 10, 2015
nice

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