It has been in my mind for some time, given me very tough debate within me. Is it really better to marry the one you love ? Or to love the one you marry ?

Marrying the one you love is surely one of best feeling or dream come true, but sometimes it still don't work out for some fellows. But when it do, it's a forever relationship.

Loving the one you marry on the other hand is probably the best cause it'll be difficult for you guys to have problems but when you marry someone you don't love inplace of someone you love, its going to be hard for you guys to create or to have feelings for each other but when you do, you are gonna really enjoy it.

It's now down to you my fellow nairalanders, what do you think ? Is it better to marry the one you love ? Or to love the one you marry ?

It's better to love the one you marry

let set this str8....loving some1 u married as to do wit a mistake in d first place so its a good tin to settle wit if u really want a peice of mind but for the 2015 barchelors wu will be rolling it up. Its time to go by the first sentence marry d one you love.

I'l Love the one I marry.

Wether you married or you were married, just love.

Why would anyone think of spending the "rest of their lives" with someone they don't love?