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Re: My Husband Said I Eat Like A Thief I Need To Prove Him Wrong by 5minsmadness: 5:18pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
naijaboiy: |
Re: My Husband Said I Eat Like A Thief I Need To Prove Him Wrong by BlackLeopard(m): 5:18pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
Dear ladies please pardon my skipping into sensitive topic that pregnancy is - Coco all the health and blessings to both you and your baby! Wishing you all the best. (And if m reads wrong da thread, still wishing you da best ) |
Re: My Husband Said I Eat Like A Thief I Need To Prove Him Wrong by Nobody: 5:24pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
aisha2: Abuse me ke, I will literally knock off their e-teeth. Who get time for rubbish cococandy: I wont laugh dear, I will just giggle. I saw my very good friend during preggy, I would have sworn she had a nose surgery . The nose triple the usual size. All na pregnancy 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Said I Eat Like A Thief I Need To Prove Him Wrong by cococandy(f): 5:26pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
BlackLeopard:you mean my future baby? Thanks jare 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Said I Eat Like A Thief I Need To Prove Him Wrong by Nobody: 5:26pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
Chillisauce: Lol I trust you, I would have done same to that nasty husband hence the running and crying response was annoying. Food wahala from fried eggs to bread hiannnnnnnnnnn |
Re: My Husband Said I Eat Like A Thief I Need To Prove Him Wrong by Nobody: 5:35pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
aisha2: Some dont understand. Every woman is different. Oyibo snap back fast cos most of them don't even breastfeed. The ones that do are not so keen on snapping back in shape soon. Most supplement wwith formula. So my dear, 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said I Eat Like A Thief I Need To Prove Him Wrong by Nobody: 5:37pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
@TTNI Please forgive the crap you've had to read here. Focus on the ones that answer what you actually asked (how much did your appetite increase while breastfeeding). For the weight issue, if you say your weight is ok, all well and good, maintain it and work on getting better when you're ready. You need to be able to say positive things to yourself. I've read things here that are even worse than what your husband told you. You're above all that. Get your brain in order, love yourself every time regardless of the environment. You need to distract yourself, read a novel or something so you don't have to pay so much attention and replay horrid conversations in your head |
Re: My Husband Said I Eat Like A Thief I Need To Prove Him Wrong by BlackLeopard(m): 5:43pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
cococandy: O ya, I gathered you are expecting, but my reading comprehension 2day is on a toddler level so wasn't sure Apologies to @TTNI for derail, backing off now |
Re: My Husband Said I Eat Like A Thief I Need To Prove Him Wrong by Nobody: 5:50pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
Chillisauce: You forget how easy it is to get a liposuction there try it here and the same crowd will scream abomination. One guy was going on and on about how hawt Beyonce was months after delivery, I asked him if he would even entertian the thought of his wife using a surrogate he said No. I asked him if he will let his wife if indeed she carried the baby to term have an army of nanny while she spends night and day in the gym getting back in shape so she can flaunt her body to the world, he said No. I asked him if he will be with a woman who publicly admits she doesn't cook, again he said No. I asked him if he had Jay Z's money same answer Toh you want a Beyonce but you are not ready to put up with anything Jay Z endures and you dont even have the money to support a Beyonce type life style na wa oh Common epidural they want to commit suicide over they want her to suffer it very well. 6 Likes |
Re: My Husband Said I Eat Like A Thief I Need To Prove Him Wrong by cococandy(f): 5:50pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
BlackLeopard:no I'm not expecting. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Said I Eat Like A Thief I Need To Prove Him Wrong by BlackLeopard(m): 5:56pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
cococandy: Ok thank for clarification (not like it is any my biz mind ya) 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said I Eat Like A Thief I Need To Prove Him Wrong by cococandy(f): 5:57pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
aisha2: 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said I Eat Like A Thief I Need To Prove Him Wrong by baby124: 6:03pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
madam honestly, maybe that is how you eat normally. I have been around some girls that rival 10 guys with food. It was not easy, i had to fight to survive in my own house. Even my brother's were shocked at the speed to which they emptied my poor mother's food. If you have the eating appetite of a body builder, try and curb and retrain yourself by eating small meals many times a day. I am sure its not only through breast feeding your husband has noticed this. Dont take it personal, he is just pointing out a bad habit you have so that someone outside does not tell you. |
Re: My Husband Said I Eat Like A Thief I Need To Prove Him Wrong by freecocoa(f): 6:39pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
You for just give am the bread, it doesn't have to be enough before you share, he prolly felt you just didn't want to share it, plus you don't have to take every word spoken so literally. Ndo, no cry again. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said I Eat Like A Thief I Need To Prove Him Wrong by raumdeuter: 6:46pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
Ok sorry, Continue eating like you are doing currently. I now know the reason why some men would rather keep quiet than voice their opinion because next thing the wife is crying like an egbere all over the house 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said I Eat Like A Thief I Need To Prove Him Wrong by Feraz(m): 6:56pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
bennyrazz:EPIC!!!! |
Re: My Husband Said I Eat Like A Thief I Need To Prove Him Wrong by Nobody: 7:17pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
I am not married...but if any man dare say I eat like a thief.. I will go on a 70days dry fast But I think Ops husband said that to her cos she refused to share the bread with him and not cos he wants to hurt her.. |
Re: My Husband Said I Eat Like A Thief I Need To Prove Him Wrong by Nobody: 7:19pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
aisha2: My Menthol I pray you don't give our Naija men brain-rupture (whatever that means) one day 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said I Eat Like A Thief I Need To Prove Him Wrong by Nobody: 8:17pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
naijaboiy:Nobody has told her to leave her marriage |
Re: My Husband Said I Eat Like A Thief I Need To Prove Him Wrong by LibrarianD: 8:21pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
LordReed:You badt gan |
Re: My Husband Said I Eat Like A Thief I Need To Prove Him Wrong by ummumubs(f): 8:26pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
op one thing is breastfeeding is nt funny esp when u ve a baby who suckles alot .what u should do is watch what u eat, just go for healthy snacks like fruits and vegetables. Healthy drinks instead of sugary drinks. Next time let ur hubby know he hurt , they simply don't know what its like. |
Re: My Husband Said I Eat Like A Thief I Need To Prove Him Wrong by bebe2(f): 8:29pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
TTNI: i dont support ur husband to u like dat, but advise ur sef ooo , all this food u r eating will come back to hunt u. its easy to put on weight oooo, but losing it is another story. i know u breast feeding , dont over eat to compensate for dat. especially dat bread wey just dey sweet u so |
Re: My Husband Said I Eat Like A Thief I Need To Prove Him Wrong by Enoquin(f): 8:44pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
He says "You eat like a thief" reply with "You that aren't a thief, why do you want to eat my bread?" Or "Go and buy your bread then" Or you could have given him out of the bread and kept some to yourself if you still wanted some to yourself. And if you were hurt, tell him there that you didn't like what he said, something like "Don't call me a thief, it's a negative word and I don't like it" Or "you know babies can hear us? Why would you call me a thief in front of our son" I hate eating alone. I am a slow eater though I enjoy it more when I eat with others, but sometimes I am greedy with certain snacks. Talk heaven and earth, if I am moved by your epistle, I would give you out of it but not all. So don't feel bad about not giving the bread if you didn't want to because we all are different beings. The only curious thing here is, it's bread, couldn't he go and get another one for himself? You can never go wrong with fruits and vegetables and fluids. Akwa Ibomites and Cross riverians, take more of peppersoup during these periods; not meat but dried fish with uyayak. So, whenever you are hungry, you could sip some. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said I Eat Like A Thief I Need To Prove Him Wrong by KanwuliaJara: 9:08pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
Chillisauce: Thank you a million times! Nothing more to h-add!!!! 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said I Eat Like A Thief I Need To Prove Him Wrong by Nobody: 9:57pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
Nairaland,comedy central! This man hv suffer |
Re: My Husband Said I Eat Like A Thief I Need To Prove Him Wrong by Nobody: 10:08pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
Phema:Nne, my fone na asheewo Didn't see anything. Just normal first preggy thing. Hubby will foot d bill. She don't hv anybody to stay with. Want to know d estimate so she can tell hubby and start making contact. She will join d thread if all goes well. Hope u and baby r cool. Hubby should be ecstatic I assume? |
Re: My Husband Said I Eat Like A Thief I Need To Prove Him Wrong by Nobody: 11:03pm On Jan 22, 2015 |
moca: Yes. We are doing very well. Your friend should budget about 2.5M for everything. |
Re: My Husband Said I Eat Like A Thief I Need To Prove Him Wrong by jennyomalicha12(f): 2:53am On Jan 23, 2015 |
People compliments u because of ur body shape . Still ur hubby complains He doesnt appreciate wat he has. Tell him and let him knw that u still attractive Some men self......if u stop eating nw and reduce d breast milk for ur child he will still complain Look at urself on d mirror are u still attractive enough? If yes dont bother . just feel happy with urself and believe in urself and dnt cry for silly things Bye 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Said I Eat Like A Thief I Need To Prove Him Wrong by TTNI: 11:21am On Jan 23, 2015 |
Thank u all!!! |
Re: My Husband Said I Eat Like A Thief I Need To Prove Him Wrong by marbee(f): 11:42am On Jan 23, 2015 |
You can't watch your weight when are breastfeeding but you can watch what you eat. Staying away from food and water for a long time will make you feel dizzy and weak. Even your baby,will not allow you, because your body will not have enough nutrients to produce milk. Always tell your husband about how you feel,not saying it out when you are hurt can even cause depression if you are the fragile type. I would say your husband is the one that is the glutton, verbally abusing you because you refused to give him bread. |
Re: My Husband Said I Eat Like A Thief I Need To Prove Him Wrong by soonest(f): 11:59am On Jan 23, 2015 |
If your eating is excessive please control it. Eat healthy food and only eat when you are hungry. Please don't start any vigorous dieting o, why? Because you are still breastfeeding. A friend of mine fainted as a result. You can start mild exercise too. Feel good and confident about yourself. Don't mind your husband, i know how hurtful their words can be but just take it in good faith. If he says it next time, call him husband of someone that eats like a thief |
Re: My Husband Said I Eat Like A Thief I Need To Prove Him Wrong by Nobody: 1:31pm On Jan 23, 2015 |
KanwuliaJara: Only one who wears the shoes know where it pinches . Abi how dem talk am |
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