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3 Ways To Fight Masturbation.. by misreal(m): 7:17pm On Jan 23, 2015 |
In my experience, the battle with masturbation is a battle of faith . Behind any habit is a belief system that fuels it. We must replace the old belief system with a new one. We must fight this fight of faith on three fronts: (1) in our triggers; (2) in our bodies; and (3) in our deepest longings. Triggers There are different kinds of triggers: external and internal. An external trigger might be spotting a racy billboard on the way to work or a seeing a plunging neckline. Learning to bounce our eyes away from these sort of triggers can be very helpful. But it is our internal triggers that are the hardest to run from, because they are…well…in us. Like the gentleman quoted above, the trigger might be stress. We might turn to masturbation as our refuge, our stress-reliever. Stress and anxiety ultimately come from our reactions to stressful situations or circumstances. Why do we react to stressors the way we do? We react with stress because of what we believe about the stressors, the significance we place on them. We need to ask ourselves: What do I believe that makes this situation or circumstance or condition stressful for me? Identify what lies you believe about the stressor and then diligently replace those lies with truth. Our trigger might be envy. We might see our friends with their loving marital relationships and think: “I wish I was married,” or “I wish my marriage was more intimate.” We may turn to masturbation as a substitute for what we really want. Again, we must ask ourselves: What do I believe my sex drive is for? Is it to grasp at selfish pleasure, or is to pursue oneness in marriage? Our trigger might be anger at God. Perhaps we are dissatisfied at the way our life has turned out, so we blame God. We turn to masturbation as our own private activity that grasps for a pleasure all our own, a corner of life we claim as wholly ours, a way to rebel. Again, the battle is one of faith: Why do we believe God owes us anything? Why do we think we ought to get what we desire? The Body Our sex drives will inevitably build up physical tension, but it is our reaction to that tension that matters most. What are we believing that makes masturbation seem like the only way to release the build-up of testosterone? For single men God has created built in release mechanisms: either nocturnal emissions or absorption. For married men God has provided sex as a means of marital intimacy. Do we believe these systems are God- given means of taking care of our bodily drives, or do we believe masturbation is the only way? We must repent of our beliefs about masturbation and praying for a non-sinful release of tension in our members. Longings For many sexual pleasure is the ultimate escape from reality. Like a drug, it provides a fantasy world where we can forget our sorrows or our boring lives. Instead of using masturbation as an escape from reality, we must learn the habit of escaping into reality, into God Himself. This, again, taps our faith. Do we believe God is an all- satisfying Being? Do we believe it is our chief purpose to glorify God and enjoy Him forever? ...Jesus is coming soon.. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 3 Ways To Fight Masturbation.. by Nobody: 7:58pm On Jan 23, 2015 |
all this plenty talk! the best way is to imagine the negative effects of this act; - fracture of the penile muscle could lead to weak ejaculation. -bruised inner-walls could lead to infections. - it weakens the brain cells, it gradually turns you to ode or efulefu -you won't stop until you get a serious infection and pay lots of cash for treatment. -you will finish your soap and cream and try switching to hair relaxer to make it relax. - it exposes you to more ways on how to satisfy the flesh:dirty sexual acts. |
Re: 3 Ways To Fight Masturbation.. by misreal(m): 8:54pm On Jan 23, 2015 |
shadowgwalker:or ways r more than 3 |
Re: 3 Ways To Fight Masturbation.. by SkinnyDude(m): 9:26pm On Jan 23, 2015 |
shadowgwalker:but how can you stop masturbating when you still watch porrn, sex chat, imagine silly things or visit sexuality section? hahahaha. no way. for you to stop it, you have to stop these things... and it causes memory loss too |
Re: 3 Ways To Fight Masturbation.. by Nobody: 10:09pm On Jan 23, 2015 |
SkinnyDude:yes oh! very hard but easy. Just re program your mind to see it disgusting. have it in mind that you CAN'T satisfy the human body. Humans will always want something new, the best is to loose interest. |
Re: 3 Ways To Fight Masturbation.. by SkinnyDude(m): 10:34pm On Jan 23, 2015 |
shadowgwalker:i normally do it when am stressed or bored. even when i have programmed my mind to disgust it... |
Re: 3 Ways To Fight Masturbation.. by Nobody: 11:27pm On Jan 23, 2015 |
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Re: 3 Ways To Fight Masturbation.. by PRISTINEMUSCLES: 11:44pm On Jan 23, 2015 |
I like this post and most especially the spiritual side of it. |
Re: 3 Ways To Fight Masturbation.. by misreal(m): 10:32am On Jan 24, 2015 |
hahahahahahahahah |
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