uplawal:
Dnt ever tell your wife you kissed her o or smooche her,cos she will hate the lady for life,just tell her her presence is tempting you

Sophyrocks:


Not just unmarried friends o. Nowadays men also cheat with married women in case you dnt know. What we should be preaching is discipline because you men are not mindless moving d1cks or are you? If we have to go by that logic of keeping females away from married men then no female will visit anyone's home then for fear of the husbands sleeping with them. That message sent is saying men are mindless pr1cks with no atom of discipline or self control. Yes, women should be careful about bringing grown women to their homes but the men themselves should prove that they aint mindless pr1cks!! No man would take any excuse from his wife who decided to cheat on him with a 13 inches d1cked friend of his therefore, women arent meant to take any excuse whatsoever from their husbands. Adultery is wrong for both sexes.

zeefa:
It's 5.16am here! I have been going through people's comments both the good ones n the bads ones..

Well, like I said Mama called me yesterday while my wife was upstairs sleeping. Our guest room is a basement so I was there to see her.

Mama didn't say anything about what see saw, she only complained about the weather and need for her to return home latest next week.

As I was about to start conversation, I heard the cry of my son and I rushed to see him and I noticed my wife was awake as well.

With the flow between us, I noticed mama didn't discuss it yet with her but i told her mama's idea of leaving us soon. She confidently asked me to calm down that mama won't go, that may be she was missing home.

I still don't know if I should confess my sin to her this morning.

Wumi is still at home but I plan to ask my wife to release her since mama is around. But how do I justify that when mama threatened to leave us too!

My wife like her friend because they both finished from same secondary school somewhere in ibadan (Queens Apata).

Do I confess to her? I need to sort these issues out asap. I can't sleep and am getting seriously worried.

jany:
so what did u do?. i hope u didnt allow mama to leave o cos it might be her way of checking aw long it had been going on. if u allow her leave back to ibadan abi? with d mindset u re cheating on her daughter. naa correct paakaging dm go pack u for naija o

Sophyrocks:


Not just unmarried friends o. Nowadays men also cheat with married women in case you dnt know. What we should be preaching is discipline because you men are not mindless moving d1cks or are you? If we have to go by that logic of keeping females away from married men then no female will visit anyone's home then for fear of the husbands sleeping with them. That message sent is saying men are mindless pr1cks with no atom of discipline or self control. Yes, women should be careful about bringing grown women to their homes but the men themselves should prove that they aint mindless pr1cks!! No man would take any excuse from his wife who decided to cheat on him with a 13 inches d1cked friend of his therefore, women arent meant to take any excuse whatsoever from their husbands. Adultery is wrong for both sexes.

zeefa:


My brother, Na soooo. I will update you soon on the latest. Cheers

pretydiva:
Send d wunmi of a gal packing. She's a goat in sheep clothing. Dont allow her destroy ur biuriful home. After dat, discuss wif ur mother in law n hear wat she has 2 say b4 u later confess 2 ur wife 4 peace 2 reign.

5minsmadness:

Loooooooooooooooool
Av asked her before oh! The way she faces matters like this y wonder what kind of guy will be good enof for her

meimoks:
Why can't your wife do her chores herself? Your wife brought her to help and that's part of the job

bukatyne:


A man interested in keeping his vows

Not everyman lacks integrity and self control.

bukatyne:




Did you read the OP?

Luckily you are a Lady too.

SirDorianGray:


Good points..we guys basically lack self control and respect for women...Sad

zeefa:
Hello my people, I know you must have been wondering why I didn't give you the feedback on my escapes with wumi and my pretty wife. It has been another case in my house and I will like you to follow me for a clear details on the situation of things right now.

I actually stopped posting cos I noticed one of my wife's kid brother on nairaland saw the story and jokingly referred me to zeefa's post on Nairaland.

I won't give details due to security reasons but I will try and narrate the saddest end of my story.

I thank everyone that contributed and gave me one advise or the other. Some of them worked for me but I made a stupid mistake myself following a wrong advise at the same time.

zeefa:


I made up my mind to confess and face the consequence! #wumimustgo and I love my wife even without 42dd

wats hard dr, my wife I kissed sumbody and am deeply sorry for it. I am not fit to be called ur husband anymore, please treat me as one of ur ex boyfriends. And d wife wil say oh no, u r my husband and all my heart is yours. I hav forgiven u already, and she wil tell d gateman to go and kill goat. Looooooooooooool

smudge2079:
Kiss mama

Truckpusher:
You screwed up in the wrong place, with the wrong woman and got caught by the wrong person.


Your case is something that only the gods will determine your fate - Mama will keep your secret but just remember that you are at mama's mercy and of course your wife too .By doing that you have lost some self worth before your mother in-law which will force you to be nice to her and her daughter more than necessary even if she is messing up with you big time.

You just used your own hands and blackmailed yourself.

My friend you're in an awkward position and it would get more interesting as life goes on or better still pray for mama to die without vomiting it out.