6 Most important question you need to ask before saying 'Yes' to him.

In my few days of surgeon as a Christian, I have found several ladies agreeing to marry a man or be in a relationship with him for the wrong reasons. Without asking the right questions!

From the title of this thread I will highlight some impt questions I think a lady who has found Jesus as all and in all need to ask before agreeing to his man!

1. Is He Born Again?
This is very basic, infact this is not negotiable! You must be sure of his salvation and he must be sure too! If he is not, there is already a red light: the answer is an absolute 'NO'! I've also found some ladies say 'I will change him'... Hahahaha... This makes me laugh a lot! Cos you don't av the capacity to! The Holy spirit does d changing. Like I will say to some, if you must change him, change him before you say YES, however, ensure he doesn't change you
2cor6:14 be not unequally yoke with an unbeliever: for what fellowship has righteousness with unrighteousness what communion has light with darkness!

2. Does he pray?
Friends, a man who doesn't pray doesn't have the capacity to man a christian home. Simple! Int the bible, pray is an instruction not a suggestion!
So not to pray his disobedience. Don't let him bobo you, you must have found him praying.
Luke18:1, 2thes5:17, col4:3

3. Does he study?
Very simple, you can't grow as a christian without the word, you must be full of the word and pray. Study is reflected in his willingness to teach and talk abt d word! Never get bored teaching or engaging in a bible discourse 2tim2:15, 1pet2:2

4. Does he have a local church and a pastor/mentor
while some of us frown at the decadence in church settings, we cannot over emphasize the impt of a local church: a local church is a place you re trained, feed and instructed! Not to have a consistent local church is pride! He must be serving in a local church and must have an oversight, someone he honor and must be committed! Sometimes its good he's from ur church, not always tho!
Eph4:11-13, heb10:25


5. Does he give?
Not necessarily to you, but to the ones around him, believers, in his church!
Giving is an instruction also 2cor9, 1cor16,gal6:6, 1tim6:17
Not having is not an excuse not to give

6. Does he listen?
James1:19 wherefore, my beloved brethren, let everyman be swift to hear, slow to speak, SLOW TO WRATH!
If he is slow to speak, he won't get angry very often!

SUMMARY
Is he growing spiritually?
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His spirituality is important; but it's a relationship, not a job interview.

"Does he pray?" Seriously?

omo u go tey for house if u dey expect answer to this.......

MzNelly:
His spirituality is important; but it's a relationship, not a job interview.

"Does he pray?" Seriously?

yes< seriously>thats very basic too>>> a man that prays is a man that trust GOD

Nonsense, u dnt hv to see him do all dis things listed..Provided he believes in God and practice a gud habit.

tuncy:


yes< seriously>thats very basic too>>> a man that prays is a man that trust GOD

So you should see him pray first?

MzNelly:


So you should see him pray first?

well not exactly. but you should know if he pray

tuncy:


well not exactly. but you should know if he pray

So if I want to date you, I should ask you if you pray I should even make sure I see you praying...lol

Seriously?

Then, I never ready nau.

does that guarantee a lasting relationship?

MzNelly:


So if I want to date you, I should ask you if you pray I should even make sure I see you praying...lol

Seriously?

Then, I never ready nau.

See as MzNelly dey tackle d guy.... Lol!

MzNelly:


So if I want to date you, I should ask you if you pray I should even make sure I see you praying...lol

Seriously?

Then, I never ready nau.

So what do you think

tuncy:


So what do you think

Go with your gut feeling and date who you're pleased with

MzNelly:

Go with your gut feeling and date who you're pleased with

Ok, I created this thread before: and I titled it! For serious minded Christians

For those asking questions like should I see him pray etc, may I say that it is not a must for you to watch him pray or do any of those listed point. But you have to be sure of his spiritual stand of which I think those points are emphasizing. Well as the op has rightly said it is met for SERIOUS MINDED CHRISTIANS