Fellow nairalanders, a friend of mine complained bitterly to me xterday that he masturbates at least twice on daily basis. He definitely wants to put an end to this stupid act. Pls, how do I handle this issue? What are the problems he is like to face in future? Tnx in anticipation for ur heart-to-heart advice.

Yehman:
Fellow nairalanders, a friend of mine complained bitterly to me xterday that he masturbates at least twice on daily basis. He definitely wants to put an end to this stupid act. Pls, how do I handle this issue? What are the problems he is like to face in future? Tnx in anticipation for ur heart-to-heart advice.

Please tell him to

Yehman:
Fellow nairalanders, a friend of mine complained bitterly to me xterday that he masturbates at least twice on daily basis. He definitely wants to put an end to this stupid act. Pls, how do I handle this issue? What are the problems he is like to face in future? Tnx in anticipation for ur heart-to-heart advice.

Please tell him to try n stop it...its a very bad habit and its not right in the sight of God...tell him to confess it to his pastor who will tell him the steps to breaking the habit.I hope it helps....

Why u dey lie? You are the one in particular..

lymelyte:
Why u dey lie? You the one in particular..

Hmmmmm! Okay ooo

Stop watching porn or nude pics..pray and be busy...think of the implications....

Nigerians and religion smh, what exactly makes the act silly? Is it because the hypocrites in society say so? "Confess to your pastor bla bla bla." See the way people are condemning as if they're perfect, sanctimonious holier-than-thou self righteous hypocrites!!

If your friend wants to stop because he wants to stop then fine, he can try weaning himself because habits are hard to break. He'll need time and patience, in the meantime, let him love himself and stop caring what hypocrites think.

God loves us and the evidence of that is in the blood of Jesus, your pastor is not your God. Best of luck to you both

Determination alone can solve that issue

ask yourself what you stand to gain after self service . JUST WASTE OF ENERGY

stop watching porn

stop reading those novel on sex

forget about sex .i.e dont put it in mind at all

Stop keeping friends that will make u want to do it

PRAYER ALONE CANNOT HELP YOU BRO , SO YOU NEED TO BE SERIOUSLY DETERMINE TO LET SELF SERVICING GO

Thats the major problem with this unclad movies. You want to watch n this will definitely put you in mood. Well, he is in it already, getting out of it requires alot. I hope he will overcome the issue sha. @ op if its you, i get a better advise for you so be sincere

I been think say na my case bad pass

Haha

I n'agbo ncha.

Ezigbo ncha.

Aha gi bu :
"GBONCHUS PILATE".

More ncha to your Amu.

Tell him to always soak his hands in pepper

Tank me later

Konji eh!

Na boredom and lack of what to do dey cause am, find work for am

Ur frnd na DON JOHN.

Chisos

Anyways no one can love you like you, so continue.
You are just having a relationship with yourself #Daizall

tell him to

1) make a vow with God - his heart will tell him he is about to Sin against God whenever he feels like self-servicing again.

guy am in that lane too, but not as chronic as yours. have a girlfriend now so mine have stopped. advice go and look for a girlfriend that will love you, and u will stop

picture of his left and right arm or.......

DrWalter:
Stop watching porn or nude pics..pray and be busy...think of the implications....

das d solution cox it wat ur eyes r fixed on dat drives u. Agn ur tot matters

dat dude needs serious prayers

his problems are both physical and spritual

shadelek:

Omo how you do am

marriage is the best solution

Discipline.

I wish I can help but I believe determination and prayer is the key

Tell your friend to live his life... It's his.

You sure say na your friend?

Anyway, it's because he's a loner. Simple fact

isotonic:
Nigerians and religion smh, what exactly makes the act silly? Is it because the hypocrites in society say so? "Confess to your pastor bla bla bla." See the way people are condemning as if they're perfect, sanctimonious holier-than-thou self righteous hypocrites!!

If your friend wants to stop because he wants to stop then fine, he can try weaning himself because habits are hard to break. He'll need time and patience, in the meantime, let him love himself and stop caring what hypocrites think.

God loves us and the evidence of that is in the blood of Jesus, your pastor is not your God. Best of luck to you both

But isn't loving himself what he's trying to stop?