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Re: Wife Opens Secret: What My Husband Did To Me In The Bedroom by pinkycute(f): 8:43pm On Feb 11, 2015
OK ooooo you can go tongue


[quote author=WildChild00 post=30642096]

Then this marriage is over now, I am going to shop for a replacement, as soon as possible![/quote
Re: Wife Opens Secret: What My Husband Did To Me In The Bedroom by sule5727: 8:44pm On Feb 11, 2015
pinkycute:
Swallow his fluid shocked Hell NO!!.. I can't do DAT to prove my love for any man ( What nonsense ) well, since the table has turn around and he don't longer talk to you as before or act in a Christianity ways.... Please just ask him, if he can eat ur shit for love and see his respond grin


habah!
Re: Wife Opens Secret: What My Husband Did To Me In The Bedroom by Jackeeh(m): 8:44pm On Feb 11, 2015
adanduka:


Wait o. You are advising someone to swallow semen to save her marriage. That is so wrong. Have you ever swallowed semen or vaginal fluid? The protein content is for fertilisation and not to compensate for an unbalanced diet. Sex should be enjoyed and not endured and you should not be puking because a man with a sick mind wants you to fulfill a porN fantasy. She should put it in a cup for him to drink or in his food.


I take it you're still single. Otherwise you would know marriage is all about compromise. You have to give something up to make it work. And with time, what you gave up will return back to you along with many other benefits. I am not advising she drinks some random man's seed for pete's sake. It's her husband's. Her husband. At this point, the man is not reasoning along with her. What should she do? Get angry? Demand her right? Stamp her feet down? Scream? Bring in third parties? Get a divorce? Get married to another man who would demand she licks his anus before sex or turn out to be worse than the former? Huh? I'm only suggesting she gives up her "wishes" temporarily and give in to the man's desires. With this, if she plays her card well, she will have him where she wants him. Simply by playing the fool and giving her man what he wants( howbeit difficult). She has given something up. What will she get in return? A well fed and satisfied husband who is under her control.

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Re: Wife Opens Secret: What My Husband Did To Me In The Bedroom by andass(m): 8:44pm On Feb 11, 2015
kallmemrB:
Nairaland ladies be like "God forbid" online but singing lolipop with their BF **licking licking licking it like a lolipop**
is dat an advice" dude
Re: Wife Opens Secret: What My Husband Did To Me In The Bedroom by Nobody: 8:44pm On Feb 11, 2015
[quote author=phemmyutd post=30635694][/quote]


undecided

WHERE YOU A VIRGIN WHEN HE MARRIED U IF NOT SWALLOW THE DAMN SPERM
Re: Wife Opens Secret: What My Husband Did To Me In The Bedroom by Athanatos(m): 8:44pm On Feb 11, 2015
Facosco:
As a christian it is immoral to be swallowing a man's fluid i will blame your ordeal on short courtship
Biko forgive my ignorance,where does the Bible expressly forbid a lady from swallowing a man's fluid? Educate me.

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Re: Wife Opens Secret: What My Husband Did To Me In The Bedroom by commited(m): 8:45pm On Feb 11, 2015
First and foremost, I want to say according to your words (if they are true), that he does not have the right to treat you that way. Love is a mutual thing and not a one sided thing. God created sex not only to be enjoyed but also to crate a bond between the two people involved.
The act of him forcing you into what is wrong is completely bad. That's not love. That's tinary and evil. You need to pray to God and keep talking to him about how you feel. If he doesn't stop, then let her parents know about it. But before that, try all you can to let come to his since.
God help you and bless your home and marriage.

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Re: Wife Opens Secret: What My Husband Did To Me In The Bedroom by creepsyme(f): 8:45pm On Feb 11, 2015
tell ur pastor and his family!
Re: Wife Opens Secret: What My Husband Did To Me In The Bedroom by ohimai83: 8:46pm On Feb 11, 2015
Jackeeh:



Sorry Sis. I can only imagine what you're going through. First off don't, and I repeat, don't report your man to anyone. You will further embarass him and make matters worse. Also don't take advice from NL gals who tell you they will never swallow milk. Sister believe me; they have done worse. And most of them(if not all) are still single. Your man has a sexual fantasy he hid from you. He should have told you buh he didn't. So let's not cry over spilled milk. Talking about spilled milk, your man's "spilled milk" isn't poison. Swallowing it won't kill you. It actually contains protein blah blah blah. Some tips to help you : have some chewing gum or sweet in your mouth when you're giving him a bj( e.g tom tom). When he spills, instead of dwelling on d taste, just gulp down the stuff as fast as possible. In other words, swallow it at once. Don't delay. If he still insists you swallow, you can also hold the tip of your nose tight while you swallow. Hmmmmmm all these just for semen. Odiegwu!!! Well, what am I trying to say here? Save your marriage. Do all you can to save your marriage. The day he meets another lady who can swallow not only spilled milk but the joystick + balls, no amount of prayers will bring him back to you. And I won't be surprised if that "other woman" turns out to be one of these ones shouting, God forbid! I can't do it!!! Mtchwwwwww. At least your life isn't in danger. He's not hitting you. Finally whether u choose to swallow or not, protect your marriage at all cost.
Any man that ask you to swallow... has no iota of respect for you. Maybe he should also drink her urine then to balance things out. What makes you think a man who will demand such will still not have other sex partners? He is obviously a sex freak and would only demand even worse thing from you if you continue to indulge him. Do not be deceived, this not marriage this is bondage.
PS. Its sad that so many people actually liked the quoted post.

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Re: Wife Opens Secret: What My Husband Did To Me In The Bedroom by Nobody: 8:46pm On Feb 11, 2015
ritababe:
Thats why i will know the in and out of my fiance before marriage


RITA.....@ ur risk,if u turned him to PORN STAR.
Re: Wife Opens Secret: What My Husband Did To Me In The Bedroom by Athanatos(m): 8:46pm On Feb 11, 2015
creepsyme:
tell ur pastor and his family!
Bad move,I repeat,Bad move.

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Re: Wife Opens Secret: What My Husband Did To Me In The Bedroom by Sograced(f): 8:46pm On Feb 11, 2015
These are some of the challenges that comes in marriage, but you've got to stand and save your marriage......and it takes sacrifice to do that, pls try and give him what he wants and you lld observe that with time..he wouldnt bother you with this method anymore.
Re: Wife Opens Secret: What My Husband Did To Me In The Bedroom by Nobody: 8:47pm On Feb 11, 2015
pretydiva:
*Pukes*....ewwww...God forbid I swallow any man's sperm,jst 2 prove my luv 4 him. @ op try n mk him c reasons wif u,buh if he his stil adamant, then report him 2 any higher authority.

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Re: Wife Opens Secret: What My Husband Did To Me In The Bedroom by chemmerfrank(m): 8:47pm On Feb 11, 2015
Well you hesitated with the BJ..People say its unchristian.. So everything Christian must be boring..even after I marry wife you go come tell me say BJ na sin?? Well talk it through with your hubby.. One of you must back down
Re: Wife Opens Secret: What My Husband Did To Me In The Bedroom by Taolakprinting(m): 8:47pm On Feb 11, 2015
Seriously I can't what this dud is telling you to do, total nonsense I can't belive it. Just tell him too to suck up your menstral fluid too to prove his love to you.
Jackeeh:



Sorry Sis. I can only imagine what you're going through. First off don't, and I repeat, don't report your man to anyone. You will further embarass him and make matters worse. Also don't take advice from NL gals who tell you they will never swallow milk. Sister believe me; they have done worse. And most of them(if not all) are still single. Your man has a sexual fantasy he hid from you. He should have told you buh he didn't. So let's not cry over spilled milk. Talking about spilled milk, your man's "spilled milk" isn't poison. Swallowing it won't kill you. It actually contains protein blah blah blah. Some tips to help you : have some chewing gum or sweet in your mouth when you're giving him a bj( e.g tom tom). When he spills, instead of dwelling on d taste, just gulp down the stuff as fast as possible. In other words, swallow it at once. Don't delay. If he still insists you swallow, you can also hold the tip of your nose tight while you swallow. Hmmmmmm all these just for semen. Odiegwu!!! Well, what am I trying to say here? Save your marriage. Do all you can to save your marriage. The day he meets another lady who can swallow not only spilled milk but the joystick + balls, no amount of prayers will bring him back to you. And I won't be surprised if that "other woman" turns out to be one of these ones shouting, God forbid! I can't do it!!! Mtchwwwwww. At least your life isn't in danger. He's not hitting you. Finally whether u choose to swallow or not, protect your marriage at all cost.

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Re: Wife Opens Secret: What My Husband Did To Me In The Bedroom by maxdozie(m): 8:47pm On Feb 11, 2015
Hahahahahha...
That Dude married U nah!!
Make him happy
Re: Wife Opens Secret: What My Husband Did To Me In The Bedroom by KeenOne(m): 8:48pm On Feb 11, 2015
50calibre:
This is the more reason why guys need to stay away from these so called born again sisters, they can be very idiotic.

This thread further proves why black women are the least desired of all races, along with their annoying attitude, they are sexually clueless & frigid. Just take a look at the comments on the front page.

What's the big deal is sucking your man'a dic*k and swallowing his cum? Later this same idiotic woman will run to her pastor to complain about her cheating husband.

I wonder why black women find it difficult to give bjs, this is one aspect where white tower above black women. They know how to keep their men off the street, she will suck you like a freak, swallow and ask for more.

Blow jobs are a necessary component of every relationship between two young people, these born against sisters need to get used to it.
LOL grin grin

I think its very unfair if you compare the average African woman to her Western counterpart in bed. You have to put factors like cultural training into consideration. African women are traditionally meant to be receptive during sex, discouraged from exploring and almost a taboo to suggest and/or engage in other forms of sex considered "slutty for a homely woman". so how about you cut 'em some slack? wink

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Re: Wife Opens Secret: What My Husband Did To Me In The Bedroom by Aida13: 8:48pm On Feb 11, 2015
Hmmm this is just about preference - some wives and even steady girlfriends see nothing wrong in such acts and even more deviant stuff. Obviously the woman was actually se xually naive if not, what's the big deal in all this. What about some men who demand worse from their wives. It's a pity you can't meet your hubby's simple demands. After all he put a ring on it. Sheesh.

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Re: Wife Opens Secret: What My Husband Did To Me In The Bedroom by Freksy(m): 8:49pm On Feb 11, 2015
Jackeeh:



Sorry Sis. I can only imagine what you're going through. First off don't, and I repeat, don't report your man to anyone. You will further embarass him and make matters worse. Also don't take advice from NL gals who tell you they will never swallow milk. Sister believe me; they have done worse. And most of them(if not all) are still single. Your man has a sexual fantasy he hid from you. He should have told you buh he didn't. So let's not cry over spilled milk. Talking about spilled milk, your man's "spilled milk" isn't poison. Swallowing it won't kill you. It actually contains protein blah blah blah. Some tips to help you : have some chewing gum or sweet in your mouth when you're giving him a bj( e.g tom tom). When he spills, instead of dwelling on d taste, just gulp down the stuff as fast as possible. In other words, swallow it at once. Don't delay. If he still insists you swallow, you can also hold the tip of your nose tight while you swallow. Hmmmmmm all these just for semen. Odiegwu!!! Well, what am I trying to say here? Save your marriage. Do all you can to save your marriage. The day he meets another lady who can swallow not only spilled milk but the joystick + balls, no amount of prayers will bring him back to you. And I won't be surprised if that "other woman" turns out to be one of these ones shouting, God forbid! I can't do it!!! Mtchwwwwww. At least your life isn't in danger. He's not hitting you. Finally whether u choose to swallow or not, protect your marriage at all cost.


In fact, she can even eat the husband's feces, lick his anus and drink his urine, provided she will not die just to keep her marriage.

I wonder why you think your advice is the best.

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Re: Wife Opens Secret: What My Husband Did To Me In The Bedroom by Ijobaorun(m): 8:49pm On Feb 11, 2015
May be you are mistaken him for a born again brother. If u have a spiritual father or head (ur pastor), explain ur sitution to him.
Pray serously for him as well.
Re: Wife Opens Secret: What My Husband Did To Me In The Bedroom by Badgers14: 8:49pm On Feb 11, 2015
cytochromeC:


Lord have mercy! What manner of selfish post is this? How can you advise her to keep doing what she is obviously not comfortable with to save her marriage?

Would you give your woman head while menstruating, if she insists just to save your marriage?

I can not tolerate this level of selfishness . This is as wicked as hitting her abeg. She will be miserable for the rest of that marriage and always dread sex time. To think he's even sulking cos his wife refused to swallow his com. Haba?

I kinda support the post you quoted. She was putting it all out there for the op. If she wanna do it, fine it won't hurt, if she don't wanna ....

Basically the op have the choice to make and yes there are hypocrite out there that could jump on what op is having double mind about doing.

Also, sexual experience varies, even in wild west, not all Ladies will give bj with out the guy licking their kitten first, lot of them will not swallow unless its from the main guy wink, some NEVER.
All in all while it could look like a demeaning act there is nothing wrong with that all the couple need is understand and guy looks like he is more experienced than the lady in question, he should have known how to play the game . maybe he was making his request look demeaning to the lady. undecided
Re: Wife Opens Secret: What My Husband Did To Me In The Bedroom by emmyrables: 8:50pm On Feb 11, 2015
Imagine the level of hypocrisy in the comments of these naira landers! Saying blow jobs and others are satanic is annoyingly hypocritical. Did you learn to have sex from the Holy Spirit? The lady should either learn it or ask her husband to teach her.

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Re: Wife Opens Secret: What My Husband Did To Me In The Bedroom by iamord(m): 8:50pm On Feb 11, 2015
Dyt:
Dude been in the game a long time
cheesy cheesy cheesy
she is just knowing now. well its a Twp way thing. I believe you and your lover should know your sexual preferences before getting married. now he want her to go head over heels grin
Re: Wife Opens Secret: What My Husband Did To Me In The Bedroom by WildChild00(m): 8:50pm On Feb 11, 2015
Jackeeh:



I take it you're still single. Otherwise you would know marriage is all about compromise. You have to give something up to make it work. And with time, what you gave up will return back to you along with many other benefits. I am not advising she drinks some random man's seed for pete's sake. It's her husband's. Her husband. At this point, the man is not reasoning along with her. What should she do? Get angry? Demand her right? Stamp her feet down? Scream? Bring in third parties? Get a divorce? Get married to another man who would demand she licks his anus before sex or turn out to be worse than the former? Huh? I'm only suggesting she gives up her "wishes" temporarily and give in to the man's desires. With this, if she plays her card well, she will have him where she wants him. Simply by playing the fool and giving her man what he wants( howbeit difficult). She has given something up. What will she get in return? A well fed and satisfied husband who is under her control.


but in the real sense of it, the husband went too far, haba! I believe they should both seek a marriage councilor.

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Re: Wife Opens Secret: What My Husband Did To Me In The Bedroom by creepsyme(f): 8:50pm On Feb 11, 2015
Athanatos:
Bad move,I repeat,Bad move.
na so.
Re: Wife Opens Secret: What My Husband Did To Me In The Bedroom by Nobody: 8:50pm On Feb 11, 2015
[quote
author=Jackeeh post=30637075]


Sorry Sis. I can only imagine what you're going through. First off
don't, and I repeat, don't report your man to anyone. You will further
embarass him and make matters worse. Also don't take advice from NL gals
who tell you they will never swallow milk. Sister believe me; they have
done worse. And most of them(if not all) are still single. Your man has
a sexual fantasy he hid from you. He should have told you buh he
didn't. So let's not cry over spilled milk. Talking about spilled milk,
your man's "spilled milk" isn't poison. Swallowing it won't kill you. It
actually contains protein blah blah blah. Some tips to help you : have
some chewing gum or sweet in your mouth when you're giving him a bj( e.g
tom tom). When he spills, instead of dwelling on d taste, just gulp
down the stuff as fast as possible. In other words, swallow it at once.
Don't delay. If he still insists you swallow, you can also hold the tip
of your nose tight while you swallow. Hmmmmmm all these just for semen.
Odiegwu!!! Well, what am I trying to say here? Save your marriage. Do
all you can to save your marriage. The day he meets another lady who can
swallow not only spilled milk but the joystick + balls, no amount of
prayers will bring him back to you. And I won't be surprised if that
"other woman" turns out to be one of these ones shouting, God forbid! I
can't do it!!! Mtchwwwwww. At least your life isn't in danger. He's not
hitting you. Finally whether u choose to swallow or not, protect your
marriage at all cost. [/quote]If you were a women, i would date yousmiley
Re: Wife Opens Secret: What My Husband Did To Me In The Bedroom by adanduka: 8:50pm On Feb 11, 2015
Pearl321:
hmmm indeed one man's meat they say is another man's poison. I am even the one encouraging my husband to let me suck him. when I mentioned that I want to swallow the fluid he said capital NO. I even begged him he said no I told him how healthy it is and all but he said leave am abeg. we married as virgins but we make lots of research for beta marriage enjoyment esp love making. salvage ur marriage dear. did I mention we attend a very strong bible church that don't wear earing self. u should know the name by now. make him happy and u would be happy. do even the ones he didn't expect embarassedhmmm indeed one man's meat they say is another man's poison. I am even the one encouraging my husband to let me suck him. when I mentioned that I want to swallow the fluid he said capital NO. I even begged him he said no I told him how healthy it is and all but he said leave am abeg. we married as virgins but we make lots of research for beta marriage enjoyment esp love making. salvage ur marriage dear. did I mention we attend a very strong bible church that don't wear earing self. u should know the name by now. make him happy and u would be happy. do even the ones he didn't expect

Attending a strong bible church or not wearing earrings is not a ticket to heaven. That being said, please tell us why seme.n is your food and her poison. If you like keep researching and watching fornicators and even graduate to swallowing faeces. shocked

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Re: Wife Opens Secret: What My Husband Did To Me In The Bedroom by Iceflox(f): 8:51pm On Feb 11, 2015
[quote author=phemmyutd post=30635694][/quote]
op, my own is why will churches teach you people that swallowing is a sin?
see what they have caused you now, and my Nigerian ladies.
anyway, seens the damage has already been done in your mindset by religion. It is wrong for him to demand it from you.
you people can quit the marriage or you start learning how to swallow or he stop demanding.
any of this 3 is required to keep both of you happy
Re: Wife Opens Secret: What My Husband Did To Me In The Bedroom by joanana(f): 8:52pm On Feb 11, 2015
searching4love:




undecided After swallowing kegs of sperm in your various fornicative relationships, you naija gals come on social media to form holier than thou. Smh undecided

How u take know? She swallow ur own.. Mtcheew angry

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Re: Wife Opens Secret: What My Husband Did To Me In The Bedroom by Nobody: 8:52pm On Feb 11, 2015
I suspect something is wrong with the husband.
Re: Wife Opens Secret: What My Husband Did To Me In The Bedroom by temmy4bee: 8:52pm On Feb 11, 2015
[quote author=xhamel89 post=30637881]

The Bible did. It was clearly written in many places that man "sleep" with woman to produce their children. "Sleep" is the used word. Now when you go to the case of Sodom and Gomorah, you will see the extreme and what becomes of them. There we see Man against Man, definetely they have graduated from taking sex organ into the mouth to that high level of immorality.

If we proceed to new testament, the Bible warn about "Sexual Immorality". Morality goes along with Holiness and Righteousness. Now does putting the manhood in the mouth portray what is right (righteousness) when there is the private organ for woman, the answer is NO. Also does taking the man organ into the mouth look moral, acceptable or what people can hear us do, the answer is also NO.

Choosing a lifetime partner is only safe by letting God choose for man. Adam named all the first creations "animals" but named Eve as "Woman". God made them all but Adam chose rightly because he was not yet corrupted. He could see by the Spirit of God in him that others were animals while only Eve is the bone of bone and flesh of flesh of his.

More to say but no time.

Don't mislead people. The Bible did not describe what lovemaking between a man and a woman entails. Don't say what you don't know. If the Bible said "sleep", and you want to use that to explain intercourse, where will kissing and romance amongst married Couples come in? Or is that also Sodomy? You don't even need the Holy Spirit to explain that to you. It's simple logic. Anything a man and his wife does in the confines of their room is between them and God. But nothing should be forced on either one.

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Re: Wife Opens Secret: What My Husband Did To Me In The Bedroom by Nobody: 8:52pm On Feb 11, 2015
there is nothing wrong with that. I see/do it frequently; though i never forced but they do it voluntarily and i reciprocate. If not for ur religious mind set, i would have advise you to tell him to sukk u too. Im sure both of you will enjoy it and there will be no complain.

My sister, most ladies including billionaires and high govt. officials you respect, do it with their husbands or boy friends. in fact they beg their husband to cum in the their mouth but is not compulsory that u will swallow it.

You are too religious. this is the transformation agenda of marriage before s3x.

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