jerg1:
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nickibarb:


wow. difficult one. i don't think your not having sex with him is a good idea. its not like you've clearly caught him cheating. its just chats. try to have a heart to heart talk with him. tell him why all his actions are breaking your heart. and like we always say, keep praying that God brings back your man's heart

Shiningmama:



I've begged him sevrally to pls stip chatting with all his babes once he is at home. Instead, it was in his mum presence that he abused me. He called me all sorts ofnames. He said he had affairs with them and I can't stop him from chatting with them. His Mum came to me later and said and I quote " he is just sampling those girls, you are the main wife”
It is now 10months we had sex last, he has moved out of the bedroom we shared to a separate room. I am ok that because it is not only HIV that is sexually transmitted, cancer virus is also sexually transmitted.
I've moved on with my life even though. We still live under same roof. Just room morning and bye bye.
Thanks to people like EfemenaXY

Chinum:



@bolded, I think I'm learning this for d first time.

Chinum:



@bolded, I think I'm learning this for d first time.

babyosisi:


I believe she is referring to HPV human papilloma virus
People are getting throat and cervical cancers from HPV

Shiningmama:



I've begged him sevrally to pls stip chatting with all his babes once he is at home. Instead, it was in his mum presence that he abused me. He called me all sorts ofnames. He said he had affairs with them and I can't stop him from chatting with them. His Mum came to me later and said and I quote " he is just sampling those girls, you are the main wife”
It is now 10months we had sex last, he has moved out of the bedroom we shared to a separate room. I am ok that because it is not only HIV that is sexually transmitted, cancer virus is also sexually transmitted.
I've moved on with my life even though. We still live under same roof. Just room morning and bye bye.
Thanks to people like EfemenaXY

Shiningmama:



I've begged him sevrally to pls stip chatting with all his babes once he is at home. Instead, it was in his mum presence that he abused me. He called me all sorts ofnames. He said he had affairs with them and I can't stop him from chatting with them. His Mum came to me later and said and I quote " he is just sampling those girls, you are the main wife”
It is now 10months we had sex last, he has moved out of the bedroom we shared to a separate room. I am ok that because it is not only HIV that is sexually transmitted, cancer virus is also sexually transmitted.
I've moved on with my life even though. We still live under same roof. Just room morning and bye bye.
Thanks to people like EfemenaXY

goldendollars:


This is serious o! how do u intend continuing like this. u cant stay away from him forever especially if you are living under the same roof. It is well babes...words fail me.

Shiningmama:


I have gotten over it sinceeee, I just see him as my room-mate now. Come and see the respect I dey give am now. I kneel down to greet him as if I am greeting my daddy. I relate with him as if e be my Uncle.
I am hurt with low self esteem. If I have to compete with single mothers for the love of my husband., too bad.

babyosisi:


You are hurt with low self esteem and you intend on keeping it that way?

digitsolution:
Learnt a lot from this topic, guesss tolerance of each other and genuine love is the key to a happy and fulfilling Marriage.

Something happened to my colleague at work, just decided to share with you guys. He is really angry with his wife lately, and I was surprised because this is a guy who looks for any slight opportunity to talk about his wife and paint her as the most beautiful woman on earth why the sudden change in script. Then he opened up to me that when he met his wife she was a virgin and till of recent he felt he was the only guy she has ever slept with and she (the wife) confirms it too and even refers to him as the only man that has ever seen her nude and he is the best blah blah.. Now he just discovered she was sleeping with some other man shortly before they got married(after their introduction) and he confronted her and she reluctantly confessed.

Now the issue is they have been married for about 5years now. My colleague feels cheated that he might never trust her or believe anything she says again, because ever since they met he has being faithful because he loves and trusts her and she claims same. Now, is he justified to be angry with her? Or do you think the wife should have denied it to keep the flow in the marriage? Or did the wife do wrong confessing?

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thorpido:
Her conscience may have been troubling her and she did the right thing to confess.The issue is,is there still a relationship between her and some other guy?How come the issue is coming up after 5yrs?
The husband is justified to be angry but he should find it in his heart to forgive her as long as she remains faithful now.He needs to take a look at himself too.Is he giving her enough attention?Is he trying to meet her intimate needs?

digitsolution:
you are right. But remember she confessed reluctantly......

thorpido:
Such confessions are always done reluctantly.It's not easy admitting such indiscretion.

digitsolution:
Learnt a lot from this topic, guesss tolerance of each other and genuine love is the key to a happy and fulfilling Marriage.

Something happened to my colleague at work, just decided to share with you guys. He is really angry with his wife lately, and I was surprised because this is a guy who looks for any slight opportunity to talk about his wife and paint her as the most beautiful woman on earth why the sudden change in script. Then he opened up to me that when he met his wife she was a virgin and till of recent he felt he was the only guy she has ever slept with and she (the wife) confirms it too and even refers to him as the only man that has ever seen her nude and he is the best blah blah.. Now he just discovered she was sleeping with some other man shortly before they got married(after their introduction) and he confronted her and she reluctantly confessed.

Now the issue is they have been married for about 5years now. My colleague feels cheated that he might never trust her or believe anything she says again, because ever since they met he has being faithful because he loves and trusts her and she claims same. Now, is he justified to be angry with her? Or do you think the wife should have denied it to keep the flow in the marriage? Or did the wife do wrong confessing?

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babyosisi:


You are hurt with low self esteem and you intend on keeping it that way?

digitsolution:
you are right. But remember she confessed reluctantly......

Opiosko:
Cheating after introduction? That's adultery.... If she can do that then she can do anything.

Floodgater:
I imploy you to please help your friend to save his marriage because if he is left the way he is, he may never go back to his former self. For him to open up to you, shows your opinion matters besides friends are the average man's influence.

Howbeit you are not helping their marriage with your subtle condemnation of the woman. Brb.

thorpido:
Not to make excuses for her but she may have felt she had not done traditional marriage yet and she got carried away.

Opiosko:
Dude what dafugk are u saying? Introduction is as good as marriage cos. Once u say yes to a man, and both families gave their consent then that's it. If she had taking in by then (through her cheating) she would have foisted a bastard on the poor guy.

thorpido:
It's da fvck we are talking about.What of women who have even married and still had an affair?
I'm looking at putting this couple together.The man can forgive and get back together.

thorpido:
It's da fvck we are talking about.What of women who have even married and still had an affair?
I'm looking at putting this couple together.The man can forgive and get back together.

Opiosko:
Stop going around in circles. If she cheated before he proposed and before the introduction, it's bad but can be execused. But cheating after her papa 'haf chop kola and drank pammy untop her head' she is not different from the 'bad' women who are married and had an affair cos that exactly what she did. I think u know nothing about how important trust is to a marriage. As it stand now, the poor guy is not even sure if it's only one guy she did it with or is she's still into it.

jerg1:
please, how can I pst a chatt here. fb chatt