My wife has this annoying attitude of filling the house with people any time I come back from work.though we live in a 3 bed room apartment, I still Honestly,i
find it very annoying. Some of her friends can visit and stay as late as 11pm. How normal is this. I have told her severally that sometimes, there should be moderation to things she does.

I am not comfortable with that! And I ask if it's normal.

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charles009:
My wife has this annoying attitude of filling the house with people any time I come back from work.though we live in a 3 bed room apartment, I still Honestly,i
find it very annoying. Some of her friends can visit and stay as late as 11pm. How normal is this. I have told her severally that sometimes, there should be moderation to things she does.

I am not comfortable with that! And I ask if it's normal.

.

talk to her deeply

Op, sorry, but did you marry your wife the day you first saw her?

Marriage is a life long decision. Before you enter into a union as this, you should have considered the character and habits of your partner.
Didn't you notice her display this kind of habit before you married her?

Well I think you should just sit her down and talk to her. She is your wife, she should

charles009:
My wife has this annoying attitude of filling the house with people any time I come back from work.though we live in a 3 bed room apartment, I still Honestly,i
find it very annoying. Some of her friends can visit and stay as late as 11pm. How normal is this. I have told her severally that sometimes, there should be moderation to things she does.

I am not comfortable with that! And I ask if it's normal.

.

communication is the key in this kind of matter...

talk to her in a calm way when you two are together

I love quiet environment, I really can't tolerate my house being turned into a market square overnight.
Talk to your wife about it. Having too many people in the house everyday will lead to stress and starve you of the needed peace and tranquility needed to reboot the human body after the days job.

Fiends? Or you mean friends? But some friends could be fiends.

Okay

She is over doing it O. But how can we help you now? The way out is to also
1 bring your pals to the house everyday for weeks so she can feel how it is when she does saMe
2when ever you return from work, send her friends out
3 wear only boxers or pkata and sit down in the living room with them to watch ball or read the news paper. Na them go take their legs stand up and leave.

Mine won't try it



Cos ah hate 'em crowding ma house



Meet them anyway yhu ghuys choose

Ma house ain't no beer parlour


Some of this fiends help spoil some ghuud house wives sef

delishpot:
She is over doing it O. But how can we help you now? The way out is to also
1 bring your pals to the house everyday for weeks so she can feel how it is when she does saMe
2when ever you return from work, send her friends out
3 wear only boxers or pkata and sit down in the living room with them to watch ball or read the news paper. Na them go take their legs stand up and leave.

LOL.. Sir I hel ooo

sameer1212:
LOL.. Sir I hel ooo

Abi wetin man pikin go do? me prefere no 3 sha. No need to fight with madam. Just form like part of the click and sidon with tHem. Laugh and hit them playfuly and act like its normal. Ya wife will just use her brain to stop them from comming over sef.

JayKayMaybachz:
Mine won't try it



Cos ah hate 'em crowding ma house



Meet them anyway yhu ghuys choose

Ma house ain't no beer parlour


Some of this fiends help spoil some ghuud house wives sef

Naaa, no friend can spoil a good womaN. They may try to spoil a happy marriage by revealing some stuff to the unaware partner to try breaking them up but they cant spoil a good person.

delishpot:


Naaa, no friend can spoil a good womaN. They may try to spoil a happy marriage by revealing some stuff to the unaware partner to try breaking them up but they cant spoil a good person.

Is that what yhu think?

JayKayMaybachz:


Is that what yhu think?

Well yes. The woman or man inquestion has a right to say yes or no when offered an advice or solution by the so called friends. Even if the friends tried to make them do stuff they can say no. What you call spoil may be called "help" but the wife knows when to drop bad friends and when to keep good friends. If ahe plays along with their evil recomendations then the "spoil" is already in her system.

delishpot:


Well yes. The woman or man inquestion has a right to say yes or no when offered an advice or solution by the so called friends. Even if the friends tried to make them do stuff they can say no. What you call spoil may be called "help" but the wife knows when to drop bad friends and when to keep good friends. If ahe plays along with their evil recomendations then the "spoil" is already in her system.

Some people are devil in human clothing

A ghuud woman/man could turn bad depending on what she/he is fed with.. ..

I have seen ghuud wives change over nught due to the company they keep


That's why I'll advice folkd to know the company they keep

Some people are evil [Devil Sent]

JayKayMaybachz:



Some people are devil in human clothing

A ghuud woman/man could turn bad depending on what she/he is fed with.. ..

I have seen ghuud wives change over nught due to the company they keep


That's why I'll advice folkd to know the company they keep

Some people are evil [Devil Sent]

Well, true in some cases sha. Esp the weak ones who are not sure of what they want.

Op is like ur wife is a full time housewife, try find her smetin doin

delishpot:


Well, true in some cases sha. Esp the weak ones who are not sure of what they want.

Fo' Sure

That's not right

Op how many wife do you have, is it the one that file for divorce that bring in her friends or have you finally allow your baby to move in since madam has left and file for divorce.

That's absolutely not right, what kind of a married woman has friends who aren't sleeping over stay as late as 11 pm? Is this story for real?

Dis can only happen when an introverted man marries an extremely extroverted lady without considering their personality difference.

Baba, try and correct the mismatch oh!

ifyude:
Op how many wife do you have, is it the one that file for divorce that bring in her friends or have you finally allow your baby to move in since madam has left and file for divorce.

Madam, u be FBI ni?

Lolz

bros abeg find work give am.... when she gets back from work she won't have the strenght to keep late company

It is very wrong.
Please a matrimonial home is not a place people troop in and out.
Also very bad when children start coming.
She is exposing the home to all sorts of dangers and temptation.

A married woman needs to ensure for more privacy also to mind her activities and friends.

ifyude:
Op how many wife do you have, is it the one that file for divorce that bring in her friends or have you finally allow your baby to move in since madam has left and file for divorce.

really?

delishpot:
She is over doing it O. But how can we help you now? The way out is to also
1 bring your pals to the house everyday for weeks so she can feel how it is when she does saMe
2when ever you return from work, send her friends out
3 wear only boxers or pkata and sit down in the living room with them to watch ball or read the news paper. Na them go take their legs stand up and leave.

@ o.p, this wonderful young man above has given u the best advice so far. Pls stick to d advice above and your problems are solved.

Maybe she is avoiding you.

ifyude:
Op how many wife do you have, is it the one that file for divorce that bring in her friends or have you finally allow your baby to move in since madam has left and file for divorce.

bursted

Start openly flirting with a particular friend. One that comes frequently. She will soon stop that one from coming to her house. Then you move on to the next and then on and on.

This op guy is a troll.