This is a story of a neighbour of mine that got swindled by his friend early last year. it all started when his old friend returned from uk nd decided to stay with him at his home with his family. The reason for the sudden return of his friend was actually unclear to him, probably maybe he was deported. but due to old time sake he had to accommodate him. after spending close to 3weeks with this family he told his friend that he wanted to go out with his friend's car(a pathfinder 2001 model). which the man agreed without giving it a second thought since it was not his first time. The friend went dt day without a trace. The man almost collapsed, cos it was his only car. It was when he later went to the friends family house that he got to know that he had traveled *out*. The man was downcasted dt evrybdy knew that something was wrong with him. 3 months later he got a call from his friend telling him that he was sorry that he had to go back and make it. And selling of his car was the only means. He now promised the man that he would send him a better car in few months time. fortunately for this man the friend did as he promised after exactly a year he left(this January to be precise). he sent him a *2008 model pathfinder* car. wich was almost brand new. because the car is damn neat. Everybody was happy for the cos at least his friend had proved that once again he can be trusted. and the man is now enjoying the new car. but to our utmost surprise the man said he can never forgive his friend even though he sent him another car. that he his going to arrest him any time he comes home. because the friend cosd him so much pain.
is this man actually taking the right step? ?

Just in case

The friend did bad by selling the car however, not forgiving him is extreme. The more he holds onto the grudge, the more he feels hurt while the friend feels he has reconciled with him and lives a happy life.

He gave u ur car back with an apology.
We're cool o jAre.

yomi007k:
He gave u ur car back with an apology.
We're cool o jAre.

after a year of taking bikes nd boarding cabs?. not taking on his side though. .

oluswaggz:

after a year of taking bikes nd boarding cabs?. not taking on his side though. .

Ok, don't take d car back.
Someone else will

hmmmmm...sh*t happens sometimes,4give n move on

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Strange times we live in. The friend did soo wrong but he should just forgive. But such friends are never to be trusted, pls never allow him close to urs bfor he uses ur wife and kids.
If it were me, I ll forgive but keep the guy at poles length.
On a lighter note, keep asking him for stuffs. He may still send other niceties.

Dat is wat some friends do, human beings are naturally self centred...

I will forgive d guy, but wen I see him, I go tear am 2 hot slaps, e go think say we dey nollywood set nii...

Sparkle777:
Strange times we live in. The friend did soo wrong but he should just forgive. But such friends are never to be trusted, pls never allow him close to urs bfor he uses ur wife and kids.
If it were me, I ll forgive but keep the guy at poles length.
On a lighter note, keep asking him for stuffs. He may still send other niceties.

You must have read my mind.

This guy should forgive and even thank his God that the friend did send the car with an apology. Listen op, in every disappointment, there is a blessing. What if this guy never went away with this car and the owner himself happened to be involved in an accident which ended up taking his life, will he be alive to be asking for a car or enjoying a car? Let him forgive and reconcile with the guy cus he stands to gain from him tomorrow.

Picture of the car, the seller and the buyer..

abeg which country d guy go n how person fit arrange d visa...weda me sef fit discharge one plot frm pman land...so after one year I go buy am one hectare...to d topic....abeg forgive ur friend cos nw him don turn ur muguuuuu*