Hello Nairalanders

I suspect that my husband is considering looking for a job in another state. He has made comments to a co-worker and I overheard a conversation where he was making inquiries. I asked him about it but he said "if it makes more money, then why not". I asked if that meant I and the kids are moving with him and there was silence. I asked again and he said he was only asking questions, thats it.
How would you feel about this if you were me ? He would need to board a plane to come see us.

What is plane doing in this matter
Were you trying to explain the distance

If a career advancement and more money means moving to another state,then why not?
He hasn't gotten the job yet,which may be the reason why he has not discussed it with you.
Usually when a man gets a job in a new location,he has to settle first before he can consider moving the family over so that might explain his silence about that.Moreover,if I may ask,how about your job?How does it affect it?

The trust you have for your hubby and his trustworthiness is all that matters here.

I guess u are not making him happy thus he he is looking for escape rout such that he will only come and visit u and ur children at holiday

Nothing wrong with that. t the end of the day it depends on the offer he gets and if it is worth the move.
Any man who wants to achieve may be confronted with suc a decision. As a good wie you should support him to make wise decisions that will benefit the family.

The only reson I may consider a job in another state is if I am unhappy at home.

mutter:
Nothing wrong with that. t the end of the day it depends on the offer he gets and if it is worth the move.
Any man who wants to achieve may be confronted with suc a decision. As a good wie you should support him to make wise decisions that will benefit the family.

Support him to make wise decisions when the man never bothered to tell her about his plans. . If she hadn't overheard it, the man would have kept mute whereas outsiders knew already, it's just bad..

Op, keep calm till the job clicks, one step at a time...