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Dear Future Husband.. by ImBae(f): 4:45pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
Dear future husband, Here's a few things you'll need to know if you wanna be my one and only all my life; Take me on a date, I deserve it, babe And don't forget the flowers every anniversary 'Cause if you'll treat me right I'll be the perfect wife Buying groceries, buying what you need You got that 9 to 5 but baby, so do I So don't be thinking I'll be home and baking apple pies I never learned to cook but I can write a hook.. You gotta know how to treat me like a lady Even when I'm acting crazy, tell me everything's alright If you wanna get that special loving Tell me I'm beautiful each and every night After every fight just apologize And maybe then I'll let you try and rock my body right Even if I was wrong, you know I'm never wrong Why disagree? Make time for me, don't leave me lonely And know we'll never see your family more than mine I'll be sleeping on the left side of the bed Open doors for me and you might get some kisses Don't have a dirty mind, just be a classy guy Buy me a ring Future husband, better love me right. - Meghan Trainor |
Re: Dear Future Husband.. by steppin: 4:48pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
ImBae:Op, wake up abeg. 1 Like |
Re: Dear Future Husband.. by Harmvirus(f): 4:51pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
@op get ready to remain single |
Re: Dear Future Husband.. by Dyt(f): 4:53pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
How many wraps of weed and what type? |
Re: Dear Future Husband.. by ImBae(f): 4:57pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
steppin: What happened to "I'll do anything for you"? |
Re: Dear Future Husband.. by Tallesty1(m): 4:58pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
IF YOU TREAT ME RIGHT i will be the perfect wife sometimes, treating a woman right brings out the demon in her. |
Re: Dear Future Husband.. by kendrick9(m): 5:00pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
sounds lyk a gold digger |
Re: Dear Future Husband.. by leshluap(m): 5:00pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
....and Jesus wept..............[so some nairaland ladies do smoke too]....... |
Re: Dear Future Husband.. by ImBae(f): 5:00pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
Tallesty1: So its best to treat her wrong? 1 Like |
Re: Dear Future Husband.. by ImBae(f): 5:01pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
kendrick9: Do you know what "gold digger" means? 1 Like |
Re: Dear Future Husband.. by Tallesty1(m): 5:03pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
ImBae:You are truly not a perfect wife if you wait for him to treat you right first. |
Re: Dear Future Husband.. by kendrick9(m): 5:04pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
ImBae:No.. u tell me |
Re: Dear Future Husband.. by ImBae(f): 5:07pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
Tallesty1: Someone has to do it first - He |
Re: Dear Future Husband.. by ImBae(f): 5:09pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
kendrick9: Aint nothing wrong in wanting to be spoilt, doesn't mean I don't have my money. No gold digging bro. |
Re: Dear Future Husband.. by kendrick9(m): 5:12pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
ImBae:ok..fair enough. |
Re: Dear Future Husband.. by Tallesty1(m): 5:17pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
ImBae:Why He? |
Re: Dear Future Husband.. by ImBae(f): 5:20pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
Tallesty1: Aren't husbands the leaders? |
Re: Dear Future Husband.. by Tallesty1(m): 5:31pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
Will you allow him to be leader in every other thing? ImBae:I was taught to do what I know is good without waiting for anybody to start because that same person could be waiting for me to start. A good husband or wife do not wait for the other to start, he or she does what is right because they are wired that way. Only pretenders wait to be treated right first. |
Re: Dear Future Husband.. by ImBae(f): 5:39pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
Tallesty1: Wired? We are wired to do what we like but are required to do what is right. Since women are usually the weak ones, we have to look carefully and make sure he is the type that treats us right. |
Re: Dear Future Husband.. by Tallesty1(m): 5:49pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
ImBae:Ok |
Re: Dear Future Husband.. by phlio(m): 6:00pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
and I told u not to post this topic ooo...... |
Re: Dear Future Husband.. by torchwave: 6:15pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
Op, u said you never learnt to cook. Hmm. Then you don't have the map to your future man's heart. Food is the fastest way to a man's heart. Weren't you told? That aside, your affection and wifely duties towards him, your future husband, are conditional, dependent on specified actions that he must take which, in my opinion, is rather selfish. You never mentioned what you'd do for him just for the love of him. I doubt there is, you know why? Everything you said you'd do for him is only a reward for his actions that please you. In the event he does anything contrary to your expectations or when he wrongs you, it is clear you will not 'reward' him with the unconditional love he deserves as your husband. Anyway, wish you luck in finding your man. |
Re: Dear Future Husband.. by ImBae(f): 7:55pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
torchwave: Thanks, my future husband is not a Nigerian man. He loves me, I love me too. |
Re: Dear Future Husband.. by crackhaus: 8:10pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
ImBae:The pipe dreams of a self-absorbed narcissist who believes the world should revolve around her. Meghan Trainor wants to be cared for like a puppy, and at the same time desires to be seen as a strong independent woman. Worse than being a narcissist who seems to get a high feeding off any attention that reinforces her vanity, Meghan Trainor is also dumb and quite confused. If her happiness and complete satisfaction is dependent only these dreams, it's advisable that she remain single. Unless of course she plans to commit suicide before her twentieth year anniversary...that's if she doesn't go through a divorce before then. 1 Like |
Re: Dear Future Husband.. by ImBae(f): 8:43pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
crackhaus: I don't see her that way She's someone who accepts herself the way she is, if the society won't make her feel good about herself, she will and she does. She believes she's beautiful despite what the society definition of "beautiful" is and she deserves to be treated like a Queen. Considering her environment where being skinny is the main thing, imagine how growing up being the fat kid would have been. She's right to be confident in herself and if that makes her a narcissist, its fine. I'm not sure she claims to be independent...she likes "boys" |
Re: Dear Future Husband.. by crackhaus: 9:25pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
ImBae:Of course you don't. I have nothing against her but her words do her a great injustice. She's someone who accepts herself the way she is, if the society won't make her feel good about herself, she will and she does.Actually, what she now feels about herself is dependent on how a man should treat her - false confidence and self-esteem. She believes she's beautiful despite what the society definition of "beautiful" is and she deserves to be treated like a Queen. Considering her environment where being skinny is the main thing, imagine how growing up being the fat kid would have been. She's right to be confident in herself and if that makes her a narcissist, its fine.So because she is beautiful, she deserves to be treated like a queen? Do you not see the narcissism in that? If she's truly confident in herself, she wouldn't need a 'future husband' to remind her how beautiful she is every night. Like I said above, false confidence. I'm not sure she claims to be independent...she likes "boys"Well she said this right? "You got that 9 to 5 but baby, so do I. So don't be thinking I'll be home and baking apple pies" That right there is a woman towing the line of strong independent 'working' woman who has a problem coming home to cook for her man, the same man whom she wants reminding her how beautiful she is every night BTW - hence I said she's also quite confused in addition to being a self-absorbed narcissist. |
Re: Dear Future Husband.. by Feraz(m): 9:56pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
ImBae:The whole bolded, what do they even mean? The day I forget to treat you right, you'll unleash the hidden demon inside you okwa ya?!! When it is obvious you are wrong, you are never wrong?? Man!!! This is hilarious!!! I may get kisses as a reward for opening the door for you? What relationship are we in? A master-slave relationship? The last bolded, looks more like a threat!! And as crackhaus said: crackhaus: |
Re: Dear Future Husband.. by bukatyne(f): 10:34pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
Tallesty1: Marry the right one then @OP: selfish |
Re: Dear Future Husband.. by torchwave: 10:55pm On Mar 18, 2015 |
ImBae:hahaha. Lav yur sense of humour. 1 Like |
Re: Dear Future Husband.. by Nobody: 6:00am On Mar 19, 2015 |
Tallesty1:Allow me to disagree. Treating a woman right means ignoring all that tosh in the OP, dismissing it with a laugh of ridicule and demanding your meal. She'll be the submissive little dove she was created to be. However, if you are bent on impressing her with your floor-mopping skills, your Akpan days have just begun. Prepare to start cutting ewedu leaves and sundry activities 1 Like |
Re: Dear Future Husband.. by Nobody: 6:07am On Mar 19, 2015 |
ImBae:my sister, anyone can believe anything, doesn't make it reality. Ok, let's you and me believe we are as rich as Dangote, how's that working out for you? A fat, ugly wench is just that, fat and ugly. No amount of self-believe, positive reinforcement and projection will change that. Ugly is ugly and beautiful is beautiful. Monique can try to project that she's beautiful but if you left a red-blooded male in a room with Monique and Heidi Klum and told him to choose, Monique would know how really beautiful or not she is. Just saying |
Re: Dear Future Husband.. by Richy4(m): 6:27am On Mar 19, 2015 |
You can't cook After fight, he apologies to you He opens the door for you. And tell you he loved you every day? Hmmm so what is your own sacrifice for the relationship |
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