@milychocs Adultery Is D Only Ground 4 Divorce In D Bible. Besides They Went 2a Customary Court. D Stupid Woman Should Have Been Begging Her Husband Instead Of Claiming Right

cococandy:


Lawyer sleekman

Judge Cococandy

These women will never cease to amaze me! You expect to appease a cheated husband (a chief) with goat sacrifice! Just incredible!

CodecJay
dat woman deserve to go if truely she is as such. This is the only reason that could make me divorce my wife. Even Jesus christ permitted it. How can I b sharing my wife wt another man.

“My mother married my father when she was 16
years old and without any experience and they
had been living together.

No be see this one ooooo. If na Aboki
this thread hmmmm

Mogidi:
Age is a factor in marriages.

The woman is too young for him na, just like Aisha and Muhammadu Buhari.

Are you making any sense?

New wife things.

Ahmed4002:
“My mother married my father when she was 16
years old and without any experience and they
had been living together.

No be see this one ooooo. If na Aboki
this thread hmmmm

That na long time ago naa! Many women before marry at that age because society did not bother much about their educatioN.

Nawao! But, i think cheating is only man's act. Do u c y it is gud 2 flirt b4 going into marriage? D woman got married at 16 and never experienced different man which she decides 2 do this critical moment. It's unfortunate.

Divorce is bad after 44years but seriously na PEACE OF MIND important pass for this kind situation o.

Dera25:
At 72 u stil hv d desire to hv new woman? Hmmm

Are you telling me Buhari can not have a new wife ?

d kain thunder wey go fire dat strange woman dey drink origin

mountain2019:
Nawao! But, i think cheating is only man's act. Do u c y it is gud 2 flirt b4 going into marriage? D woman got married at 16 and never experienced different man which she decides 2 do this critical moment. It's unfortunate.

very wrong view of life

Abi o . after all you are what you attract. Likes attract likes

cococandy:


Well the house is not his alone so he should settle her nicely before convincing her to leave.
44 years of marriage ain't no joke.

Before someone eats me raw, yea she cheated but he did not only cheat,he brought in another woman. That one is the highest level of impudence. So they are birds of a feather.

Waiting for the court verdict.

cococandy:


Well the house is not his alone so he should settle her nicely before convincing her to leave.
44 years of marriage ain't no joke.

Before someone eats me raw, yea she cheated but he did not only cheat,he brought in another woman. That one is the highest level of impudence. So they are birds of a feather.

Waiting for the court verdict.

cococandy!!!!! hear ya self na? i am not an advocate of divorce but let us call a spade a spade. we have traditions in Africa. Did he bring in another woman before she cheated? He is a chief and in some customs if he sleeps with her again he might die. THIS IS AFRICA

Forta:

cococandy!!!!! hear ya self na? i am not an advocate of divorce but let us call a spade a spade. we have traditions in Africa. Did he bring in another woman before she cheated? He is a chief and in some customs if he sleeps with her again he might die. THIS IS AFRICA

Who asked him to sleep with her? Me?
Nor did I say he should not go ahead with the divorce if he's determined to?
Abeg you guys should stop quoting me if you can't comprehend my post.

Una dey quote person just to talk abi wetin?

Well I'd advice forgiveness too since she's really sorry for what she did but that is his call and if he says no, so be it.
They can't be happy if he's resenting her.
She won't even be happy.

But the fair thing would be to not let her leave empty handed. You know how naija system is. Even if they built and bought everything together, the likelihood of her being cheated out of her rights is high especially if they are in the man's name.


You mean that Yaba left guy? I've ignored him since.

milychocs:



I do not agree with you
He reacted and that to me does not count...Newton's Law

Who hurt the other first?
Remember the Golden Rule
He should forgive her, but truly, he is the wronged one here...(they are old though, so)

That he brought in another woman was after the fact
From what I read, I understand the children also believe their mama was wrong....citing his own action was just to have something to cling to
Well, yeah

(Aside, I hate how children esp in Nigeria are pulled like yoyos between two parents who have grown to hate each other...taking sides and hating on one, without really knowing the real picture, cos well, they are not the ones in the marriage.....people should do the honest thing and go their ways....that way, they is a chance at happiness for both parties, there is a chance that the children will get the best out of their parents....instead of being stuck in the middle of hatred...turning out to be damaged themselves, and likely to enter a vicious cycle of the above in their own marriages)

The next thing I will get now from folks is "but divorce is a sin!", and I will just SMH
Cheers


@ cococandy....
......just ignore the name- caller okay ? Like, Jeez

The woes older men who marry younger women bring upon themselves. They always reason one sided. You want fresh blood but you forget that your woman also needs satisfaction and can cheat. as old as you are, how can you satisfy her? 72 and 44 years. what a gap! I wonder how old his new wife is. What was he expecting before? As old as he is he would need viagra to move body for bed. The act happened many years ago, why is he suddenly wanting a divorce now? I hope he can satisfy his new wife before she cheats on him too.

We should not sentiment to override our judgement here NIR do we allow years to deceived us, women are nothing but pure devil incarnate, most of those you see and assumed that are real or responsible women are nothing but thrash, some of them are worse that an harlot or a dog. So for the the man to have result to dissolution, means he knows the best.

sleekman:
@milychocs Adultery Is D Only Ground 4 Divorce In D Bible. Besides They Went 2a Customary Court. D Stupid Woman Should Have Been Begging Her Husband Instead Of Claiming Right

Good morning
Thanks for the info
Well, when I read topics about the man cheating, most of the comments then border on how the woman might have done something to make him stray....and how men must cheat.....and then I want to throw up

Fair is fair
And I buy into stories based on how they touch me...in some cases I would blame a person for cheating, in some I would be sure I would do same too

In this case, I am on the old man's side
And I wish he would be happy
I hope he can forgive mama shaa
But I am on his side whatever he decides

cococandy:
Well I'd advice forgiveness too since she's really sorry for what she did but that is his call and if he says no, so be it.
They can't be happy if he's resenting her.
She won't even be happy.

But the fair thing would be to not let her leave empty handed. You know how naija system is. Even if they built and bought everything together, the likelihood of her being cheated out of her rights is high especially if they are in the man's name.


You mean that Yaba left guy? I've ignored him since.

Hey.....
I hear you
About settlement, most times I agree it must be done, for all the wasted years and efforts put into a marriage


But in this case, I just don't
I feel for the man so much and just imagine what he may have gone thru all these years
He should be settled sef

Mama has got kids, let them take care of her
I agree I am hard on her
I will choose love

(even tho I would want a woman to be settled in case of divorce, I know if a woman was treating my brother so badly that it culminated in a divorce between them, I would want her to leave empty-handed, even worse. True story....but then, I am a humanist, before a feminist...or just a fake feminist, or a flexible one, I dunno again )

Have a happy day ahead

cococandy:
Your emotions now won't let you see the sense I'm making .

Nah!! You're not making sense. What emotions, am I the man?

You're decieving yourself, you know the truth, you know how it's done but you're in denial.

The woman doesn't deserve jack shi*t from the man regardless of how long they've been married (which in the real sense is 33 years). Even if they've been married for 500 years, the man has the right to throw her out on grounds of adultery.

Just like many other Nigerian women, she didn't contribute nothing to the marriage except kids. The man is benevolent enough to allow her walk free..... He is supposed to call a meeting of the village chiefs, the woman would be bound hands/legs and whipped with a lash before being thrown out in embarrassment.

Wake up from your sleep!!

milychocs:




Hey.....
I hear you
About settlement, most times I agree it must be done, for all the wasted years and efforts put into a marriage


But in this case, I just don't
I feel for the man so much and just imagine what he may have gone thru all these years
He should be settled sef

Mama has got kids, let them take care of her
I agree I am hard on her
I will choose love

(even tho I would want a woman to be settled in case of divorce, I know if a woman was treating my brother so badly that it culminated in a divorce between them, I would want her to leave empty-handed, even worse. True story....but then, I am a humanist, before a feminist...or just a fake feminist, or a flexible one, I dunno again )

Have a happy day ahead

Your insanity knows no bounds!!

Settle her for what, for adultery?

Marriage is a contractual agreement, when one person breaches the terms of agreement, they become liable. The other party has the right to demand compensation for damages.

In this case; the woman should be the one to settle the man not the other way round.

Dera25:
At 72 u stil hv d desire to hv new woman? Hmmm

Don't judge him until you are 72

okon11:
After living with someone for 44yrs and at 72 I see no reason he should want a divorce





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You saw no reason for a divorce because you are not in his shoes

shinejackie:
Who cares, abeg na dem sabi, make l eat my suya, kilishi and gurasa, next story jawe.... ..

and who is talking about buhari here?how is dat related to his matter?i gues if u got notin to say then u say noting at all

pelemuah:

l am an illiterate and a daft, l dont understand english, l failed my waec and l am a drop out, so help me comprehend....

.

Really then buzz off and stop quoting me, go back to school....

HEY

babyosisi:
The old man should take it easy
All that anger could send him 6 feet under or give him a stroke and of course we know that new wife won't be there to nurse him
The woman is repentant
His people have judged and settled the case and done all the traditional rites
The children are on their mother's side and are even pleading with him
Why is he so unforgiving of something that happened 10 years ago
Tufia for this kain old man with a heart of stone

so the man has a stone heart for wanting to divorce the wh.ore? Nonsense!!!
For your information, the man will not go 6ft under because he is already happy with a new wife. And you actually think the woman is repentant? Do you have to boldly lie? The woman only came back because her market is no longer selling looool...no man wants her old pu.sssy again, no toaster, no lover. All her old lovers must be chasing younger women now. that's why she remembered that she has a husband that she run back to.

The old man should not break the heart of his new wife. The ssslut can stay in which ever building as far as she's not under same roof with the man and his new wife. The man also made a wise decision by avoiding her food cos she may poison him.