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Re: Please Help Me Stop Watching Porn by Nobody: 3:41pm On Mar 25, 2015
nagoma:
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Response.. 'I am not in charge'
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until a small girl forced him
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Nigeria is back into debt!
27. Not a single criminal in govt has been
apprehended or prosecuted
28. Quote of the year: Stealing is not
Corruption! (That from a PhD holder Pres.
GEJ)
29. Commander in Chief of Armed Force
who couldn't visit Borno, Yobe and Adamawa
to commiserate wt d people but plans to go
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Re: Please Help Me Stop Watching Porn by mario08(m): 3:42pm On Mar 25, 2015
missbehave247:
Vaseline must sale nah
u r high on cheap weed..gej all d way
Re: Please Help Me Stop Watching Porn by missbehave247(m): 3:49pm On Mar 25, 2015
U sold it to me "weed seller
mario08:
u r high on cheap weed..gej all d way
wink
Re: Please Help Me Stop Watching Porn by dayotheone(m): 3:54pm On Mar 25, 2015
the future of staying away from porn is in thy hand ...
1. take a decision , that you want to stop it ...
2. avoid friends that elevate the thought of it ...I believe what brought the thought is your friends in the first instance.
3. choose the kind of movie you watch and net you surf ..ensure its no " porn movie".
4. you have to be a Christian .. it will help u, cause you will have to pray about it.
5. for the moment avoid female contact ..
6. always believe, "that you can, every morning when you wake up"...and have faith
7..put away things that gives you easy access like phone , club , computer , friends..
Re: Please Help Me Stop Watching Porn by delors(m): 3:56pm On Mar 25, 2015
Porn addiction could be very hard to stop but it is stoppable. Try these steps:
1. Physical
- delete your browsing history, cookies, and any porn site bookmarks you have on your computer, phones, devices etc. Also delete search history on Google or whatever search engines u use.
-Form the habit of checking other sites if u must go online - new soccer sites, gust sites -reddit, etc, entertainment sites, etc

2. Psychology
- Know that porns are just acts, unreal, n delusional. Those artistes are paid to fake everything - the erection, the moans, the pleasures, the seemingly strange peeps meeting unexpectedly n banging, romance, orgasm, everything is fake! You are being deceived! Your mind is their toy...
- porn definitely makes your masturbate! You r being deceived into committing more harmful acts - mastrubation, pedophile tendencies, unusual sexual behaviors, etc refuse to be scammed into a loser!
- Don't idle in bed when u wake...wake up, get up n do something - pray, set plans for the day by sitting up n writing stuffs down, do something. Idling in bed under the sheet is a sure decoy!

3. Social
- Hang out with friends or colleagues, don't isolate yourself.
- Don't drink alcohol, Smoke or anything that will affect ur judgement...Alcohol easily deceives u into porn, masturbatien, fake sexual urges, etc Steer clear!

4. Spiritual
- Muslim, Christian, Trado, Chrislam, Tradochris, tradoslam, tradochrislam, whatever religion u practise, pray for help to stop. Danger! Don't make it your every-now-then prayer though because that can make it hang permanently in your subconscious. Pray seriously about it once a while just the way you pray against road accident. You only remember to pray against that whenever u wanna take a road trip, right? Do the same in this regard.
- Join a group in your fellowship, do activities. Think less about sex, females, etc but on godly things (Read Phil 4: cool...it is allowed to think yourself a footballer for instance, a political critic like FFK, an imaginary van damme kicking trees n building pillars, etc...something different from sex.

Do these for 2-3weeks and give me a SO.
Peace and goodluck! (No pun intended, I prefer GMB to GEJ though, smiley


FYI, these are my thoughts from personal expi...didn't read not copy nothing from no sites

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Re: Please Help Me Stop Watching Porn by tsharp(m): 3:58pm On Mar 25, 2015
Adopt fasting as a lifestyle. You don't have to be religious to. Look up intermittent fasting and you will see that non religious people have changed their lives in so many ways by not living to eat. It's one sure way to keep your body under check, and that includes your brain and joystick. And yes that's how I conquered.

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Re: Please Help Me Stop Watching Porn by dayotheone(m): 4:15pm On Mar 25, 2015
woodcook:
Young man go get yourself a girl friend, forget sll the long gist wey people dey yarn here.
....having a girlfriend those not stop you from still watching porn ..if you masturbate before marriage do you think you will be able to stop after you are married... that is not totally the solution my friend
Re: Please Help Me Stop Watching Porn by rexbuton: 4:37pm On Mar 25, 2015
An2elect2:
the flesh is stronger than us
explain..
Re: Please Help Me Stop Watching Porn by rexbuton: 4:41pm On Mar 25, 2015
To stop p0rn..
1. pay 1k into a new merrybet account
2. accumulate 5 games evens + 0ver 2.5
3. check your winnings later..
Youll never visit pornhub.com again, you'll only seek tips like a FIFA agent
Re: Please Help Me Stop Watching Porn by Drabrah(m): 4:45pm On Mar 25, 2015

1. Be in d midst of pipu as much as possible. Avoid staying alone as much as u can, esp wen nursing d idea in ur mind
2. Get a mature, reasonable & trustworthy confidant. Nt necessarily a pastor or wateva (cos u may b disappointed), preferably same gender as u. Shud also be readily accessible
3. Pray & av faith
4. See a psychologist, if nid b. U may nid som 4m of psychotherapy
Re: Please Help Me Stop Watching Porn by Nobody: 4:53pm On Mar 25, 2015
ayorfly:
Please I need your help.

Since i gained admission into the university(2yrs ago) I've been a porn addict.

I have always tried to stop this but to no avail.

I need your help, because this problem has crept into my social life. I always try to avoid people, I stay isolated and also my academics, ever since I started watching porn my academics has since taken a downward turn.

In my fellowship at school, they said if I receive the holy ghost it will stop but I still engage in this act secretly.

I've tried so many times to stop this evil way It keeps raising its ugly head.


I really need your help to stop this. Please my career, my future is at stake here.

You are not the only one struggling with this but the solution is easy. Repent and accept Jesus as you Lord and Saviour ang you will be free from porn
Re: Please Help Me Stop Watching Porn by 96recordsbiz(m): 5:51pm On Mar 25, 2015
You need to call the Holy Spirit into your mind all the time you are conscious of yourself, you will see drastic change

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Re: Please Help Me Stop Watching Porn by Nobody: 5:52pm On Mar 25, 2015
ayorfly:
Please I need your help.

Since i gained admission into the university(2yrs ago) I've been a porn addict.

I have always tried to stop this but to no avail.

I need your help, because this problem has crept into my social life. I always try to avoid people, I stay isolated and also my academics, ever since I started watching porn my academics has since taken a downward turn.

In my fellowship at school, they said if I receive the holy ghost it will stop but I still engage in this act secretly.

I've tried so many times to stop this evil way It keeps raising its ugly head.


I really need your help to stop this. Please my career, my future is at stake here.

watching porn is not bad but what is bad is masturbation while watching or after watching...get a gf or really receive the holy ghost or get involved in sports..just get busy and stop avoiding people before your D go come stop to respond to stimulus due to high level of masturbation
Re: Please Help Me Stop Watching Porn by davroca16(m): 5:54pm On Mar 25, 2015
JESUS CHRIST is the only WAY out. Just be determined to change, show full remorse and ask for forgiveness from HIM each time you fall, after which you work tirelessly not to fall again. But if you still do fall, repeat the preceding process till your ability to stand in righteousness becomes a second nature. I'll recommend reading the HOLY BIBLE for instructions, and keeping your hearth free from nude/pornographic thoughts and most importantly, always pray for Our LORD JESUS CHRIST to help,guide and strengthen you with the HOLY Spirit. This journey/battle takes some time, however, you'll definitely stand at the end with a unique capability provided by the HOLY SPIRIT, to always prevail each time the temptations come back. Note: temptations will always come even after you have been fully equipped to overcome them however, the good news is you will always stand cause what you have been equipped with, is greater that any force of temptation ever. At that point, though it'll be slightly straining, but it will be easier and fun to overcome any temptation. smiley. If our LORD JESUS CHRIST could save me who's case was an extremely worst case scenario, how much more you. So just calm down and have faith in HIM, cause HE IS THE ONLY WAY out. smiley

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Re: Please Help Me Stop Watching Porn by An2elect2(f): 7:17pm On Mar 25, 2015
rexbuton:

explain..

We cannot overcome the flesh in and of ourselves except to do its bidding. It is only in Christ that we find victory.
Re: Please Help Me Stop Watching Porn by adonisNEW(m): 7:51pm On Mar 25, 2015
You don't need any practical steps or rules to overcome it, you just need to know the truth-Christ and you'd be free. God bless you sir.!
Re: Please Help Me Stop Watching Porn by stellabliss(f): 8:08pm On Mar 25, 2015
First pray about it, be determined to stop it and please learn to avoid such movie. 2Timothy 2:22, lamentation 3:27. God be with you.
Re: Please Help Me Stop Watching Porn by lonelydora: 9:26pm On Mar 25, 2015
Try not to remember all those websites on your head. Also clear your browser history
Re: Please Help Me Stop Watching Porn by Nobody: 10:18pm On Mar 25, 2015
ayorfly:
Please I need your help.

Since i gained admission into the university(2yrs ago) I've been a porn addict.

I have always tried to stop this but to no avail.

I need your help, because this problem has crept into my social life. I always try to avoid people, I stay isolated and also my academics, ever since I started watching porn my academics has since taken a downward turn.

In my fellowship at school, they said if I receive the holy ghost it will stop but I still engage in this act secretly.

I've tried so many times to stop this evil way It keeps raising its ugly head.


I really need your help to stop this. Please my career, my future is at stake here.

One thing you should know is that continuous. erection without sex would surely give you prostrate cancer. Just sell that phone and get a nokia torch then surrender your whole life or what is remaining to Jesus, to guarantee a secure future. Tell the devil this minute that its over. Whenever you feel the urge, just say this to yourself as long as you can 'I CAN DO ALL THINGS THROUGH CHRIST WHO STRENGTHENS ME"
Re: Please Help Me Stop Watching Porn by senorova(m): 10:22pm On Mar 25, 2015
yaskarahyelhope:
Now this Indecency thing is beginning to irritate me. Every body now post on it to hear from people. Don't U av better things to do than to engage in it and come here soliciting help. Go look for a psychiatrist and go for deliverance period. Jeeeeez enof of all these rubbish disturbing Indecency posts
Happy birthday
Re: Please Help Me Stop Watching Porn by Oluwaplumpie(m): 10:39pm On Mar 25, 2015
almostFamous:
That device u watch porn on should be sold.



Try not to stay alone for too long





When the urge comes...call ur spiritual head or ur mum. Just talk to them about anything.



My 2billion cents
lmao @ "that device u watch porn on should be sold.
Re: Please Help Me Stop Watching Porn by egwajoe(m): 10:48pm On Mar 25, 2015
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Re: Please Help Me Stop Watching Porn by lorddubic: 11:09pm On Mar 25, 2015
ayorfly:
Please I need your help.

Since i gained admission into the university(2yrs ago) I've been a porn addict.

I have always tried to stop this but to no avail.

I need your help, because this problem has crept into my social life. I always try to avoid people, I stay isolated and also my academics, ever since I started watching porn my academics has since taken a downward turn.

In my fellowship at school, they said if I receive the holy ghost it will stop but I still engage in this act secretly.

I've tried so many times to stop this evil way It keeps raising its ugly head.


I really need your help to stop this. Please my career, my future is at stake here.

Please visit this site www.jw.org and type how can I stop pornography and masturbation, you will be amazed at the amount of help that you will receive from there.
Re: Please Help Me Stop Watching Porn by wangdu: 11:29pm On Mar 25, 2015
ayorfly:
Please I need your help.

Since i gained admission into the university(2yrs ago) I've been a porn addict.

I have always tried to stop this but to no avail.

I need your help, because this problem has crept into my social life. I always try to avoid people, I stay isolated and also my academics, ever since I started watching porn my academics has since taken a downward turn.

In my fellowship at school, they said if I receive the holy ghost it will stop but I still engage in this act secretly.

I've tried so many times to stop this evil way It keeps raising its ugly head.


I really need your help to stop this. Please my career, my future is at stake here.

dude.the Bible made us to understand that how can a young man keep his way pure?only by walking in according to the word.and Bro. you've to his the in ur heart.only then will you be able to conquer.bet prayerful.
Re: Please Help Me Stop Watching Porn by Gabbyswit(f): 11:32pm On Mar 25, 2015
Well said, addiction to such needs you isolated. Sexual sins thrives in isolation, having company is always good.

Will want to add that having a positive self love is also important, no matter how much you try to stop, if you do not love yourself and forgive your self of the past it might still continue. Forgive yourself just as God has forgiven you.
okotv:
This one is Strong. The first step to solving any problem is recognising that one exists. Since you know that there is a problem, start a recovery plan.

- You talked about being a Christian. Repent and forsake. By the strength of arm shall no man prevail.

- Breakup every link with you and those videos. Delete those on every device, block all the sights you know and cut off your friendship with anyone who encourages such habits.

- Get busy. Join a group and avoid isolation. Be active more in the school fellowship or be regular.

- Set achievable goals and work towards them. You can do it.

- Get a close confidant who is mature and can help in your healing process.

- Finally, always study(not read) Gods word. Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, a light to my part always.

Remember he can he who says he can.
Re: Please Help Me Stop Watching Porn by okotv(m): 11:46pm On Mar 25, 2015
Gabbyswit:
Well said, addiction to such needs you isolated. Sexual sins thrives in isolation, having company is always good.

Will want to add that having a positive self love is also important, no matter how much you try to stop, if you do not love yourself and forgive your self of the past it might still continue. Forgive yourself just as God has forgiven you.
Very true. Self love is also important.
Re: Please Help Me Stop Watching Porn by Cuneddy(m): 7:56am On Mar 26, 2015
Go for deliverance and Distance urself from internet bro and God wil help you from there.
Re: Please Help Me Stop Watching Porn by judedwriter(m): 8:09am On Mar 26, 2015
U know, sex is beautiful but porn perverts it sad God created sex, so sex is good and God wants us to enjoy it exclusively in marriage. Porn makes sex look cheap but for every sexual activity men and women engage in outside marriage, there are serious prices to pay-especially loss of glory and destiny.
D best way to overcome porn is to realise that it will neva satisfy u!!! True sexual satisfaction can only come in a love-filled, understanding marriage. Pls make dis decision today-ur future depends on it!
Re: Please Help Me Stop Watching Porn by Nobody: 10:00pm On Mar 27, 2015
bushdoc9919:


Porn can be quite damaging.

Once read on another online forum...someone called porn evil. He then identified himself as an atheist...and said that the reason why he was talking like a religious person about porn was because porn damaged his relationship with two ex girlfriends.....but nw...with help froma therapist and his current girlfriend...he was recovering.

On the surface...porn does not do much. Erotica has always been with us....some works of fine art are really erotic pieces (Picasso, anyone?). The problem is when someone prefers images to real women.

That is why I don't do porn. Religion is part of the reason....but I also want to hold and experience intimacy with a real responding woman...not with some image or object that is fake...and cannot reciprocate my feelings.


wow you lucky oo.



but wait a minute how you come carry know say por.no no good
Re: Please Help Me Stop Watching Porn by Nobody: 5:03am On Mar 28, 2015
crotonite:



wow you lucky oo.



but wait a minute how you come carry know say por.no no good

Well...I have read about how damaging it could be from a variety of sources, and even heard personal testimonies.....one of which was during my university days...from a young man who had ten years of his life taken away by porn.o materials.

Here is a good article: http://nymag.com/nymetro/news/trends/n_9349/
Re: Please Help Me Stop Watching Porn by ayopo10(m): 2:16pm On Mar 28, 2015
My brother you can do it on ur own... are you born again? coz knwin christ helpd me... reading the bible also renewed my mind.... I'll advice you to change your phone.... drop dat android or bb... go and get a nokia torchlight phone dat cannot browse.... abstain frm unnecessary surfing of the internet.... go online ONLY wen u have specific tinz to do... and always pray for God to santify your mind... may God help you.

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