MARKone:



Do not wish bad upon yourself my dear.....mysticgal are you married?

mysticgal:

I for one do not want a child.why? because I am not financially and emotionally stable.

MARKone:



Do not wish bad upon yourself my dear.....mysticgal are you married?

Odunharry:

hmm

juman:
They have right to live their lifes.

mysticgal:

It's not that I don't want children, but for now I dont want any

mysticgal:

my point is not giving birth to children but giving birth according to how you can train.not putting children under starvation and suffering

Vision4God:


Pls basic thing I say is pray pray because na God o.

Der was a man hu lost al his properties at a critical stage wen family demand was very high. (ds man was a big man b4 tragedy befell him)
De nvr envisaged it. He had it all rosy from bginin.now he rides okada jus to feed his family & d wife sells palm oil.
D kids ar forced to sell, go 2 farm 2 help out.

God is great in al he does. Prayer and dedication 2 God is a key.

mysticgal:
[b]Before i started writing this article,i thought seriously about it before putting it in writing.
When a man and woman get married,everything is perfect and the birth of a child makes it much perfect.A child is a blessing,he or she brings much happiness to the immediate and extended family.But it dosen't just stop there;catering and providing for the financial,material and emotional need of the child comes to mind.
Let me go straight to the point.Looking at the economic situation of the country,i say it is bad for a couple who are poor to have children.Why do i say this?I have been looking or studying the everyday life of the gateman of my lodge in school.This man is the picture of a typical Nigerian,who gets married probably by the help of friends and family and then starts to have kids."he has like three[3] kids"and stay in a room,not even a self contain,a room.These i must say is putting God's creation in sufffering. No food,poor education and even depreciatiated shelter.
I say no child deserves less and if a couple really wants to have children,they should give birth according to how they could train them.and i discovered it is poor people that have too many kids.Familylanders and members of nairaland what is your say on this.[/b]

Vision4God:
@mysticgal
Lemme ask u a question. For a man to marry honorably, and begat children d ryt way, and/or
Sleep around, give birth 2 children here & der, which is better.

Mind u d bible say he hu finds a wife obtains favor frm d lord.

Der was a man hu nvr had anything, buh had faith in God, got married & a well paying job located him about 3 months after his wedding!

God's hand of favor is wat we al nid

SpeedyConnect:
Well I think we should be more realistic. Gone are the days we chorus ' God gives children. Things now including giving birth should be with moderation.
It doesn't make sense begetting innumerable kids in a squalic state. Its somewhat akin to bringing sickle cell carriers to this world.

eyinjuege:


Sickle cell carriers are those with AS genotype.

On the topic, its kinda hard hearted to want to deny anyone the joy of parenthood especially because they are poor. It makes the thought of living harder for anyone. Poor people have it bad enough, and believe you me, many of us are deemed poor by the likes of Dangote n co. Should we also be discouraged from procreating?

MARKone:
Poor man is not entitled to have a Girl friend
Poor man Should not marry
Poor Man should be denied sex...

Now Poor couples should not have children, this is height of insensitivity, rubbishing that which our dear God proclaimed 'Go forth and fill the earth' he never said go forth make money and then fill the earth. Even God chose Mary and Joseph to be the earthly parents of Jesus christ.
Jonathan your president came from a poor background. Your submission is biased, and should have focused more on birth control for poor couples, not telling them not to have children.

mysticgal:
Hey family landers, ha I thought this topic has graced front page. Royalroy please could you do the needfull as we are tired of seeing who dress pass.
Cc. Royalroy

tocin44:


Hey mystic, u just went off grid, can't reach u anywhere. What's up with u. Noticed u still come here. I've mailed u, no where else I can reach u. Pls check your mailbox. Get back to me

mysticgal:
[b]Before i started writing this article,i thought seriously about it before putting it in writing.
When a man and woman get married,everything is perfect and the birth of a child makes it much perfect.A child is a blessing,he or she brings much happiness to the immediate and extended family.But it dosen't just stop there;catering and providing for the financial,material and emotional need of the child comes to mind.
Let me go straight to the point.Looking at the economic situation of the country,i say it is bad for a couple who are poor to have children.Why do i say this?I have been looking or studying the everyday life of the gateman of my lodge in school.This man is the picture of a typical Nigerian,who gets married probably by the help of friends and family and then starts to have kids."he has like three[3] kids"and stay in a room,not even a self contain,a room.These i must say is putting God's creation in sufffering. No food,poor education and even depreciatiated shelter.
I say no child deserves less and if a couple really wants to have children,they should give birth according to how they could train them.and i discovered it is poor people that have too many kids.Familylanders and members of nairaland what is your say on this.[/b]

akinsadeez:
You shouldn't approbate and reprobate at the same time. You started by saying they shouldn't have children at all, then ended by saying they should have only the number of children they can train. Which one?
Child birth should not be limited to just rich people alone. Some if not most of the world leaders we have today are from poor homes. You can even argue that kids who grow up in rich homes are prone to becoming spoilt.

Let me tell you a story I personally witnessed. I know of some peeps that you can classify as poor. They had two children and decided to have one more despite their precarious economic and financial situation. As God would have it, when the wife got pregnant they discovered she was gonna give birth to twins. Even till she gave birth the husband was still wondering how he was gonna cope. But immediately the twins were born, almost miraculously things changed radically for the family. The father's promotion that had been pegged for donkey years was suddenly released. Favors and blessings of all kinds from all angles suddenly happening to them. Today the family can be classified as rich. Whether you agree with her or not, till today the wife continues to see the birth of those twins as the key to their breakthrough.

Sometimes the children might even be the one to take the family out of poverty. Goodluck Jonathan grew up in a very poor home. Today he is the president.

SpeedyConnect:
Well I think we should be more realistic. Gone are the days we chorus ' God gives children. Things now including giving birth should be with moderation.
It doesn't make sense begetting innumerable kids in a squalic state. Its somewhat akin to bringing sickle cell carriers to this world.

Rainess:


Is it torture to grow up poor? No. What children need most is love and even rich people cannot give that sometimes. As long as the child is not going to starve or suffer.. why not... any child is a blessing