Please married people in the house

Is it true that the beauty of women dissappear if they are arrogant and disrepectul in the real sense.
One of my friends who is married say his wife is not as beautiful he thought. But the woman is 10/10 in beauty terms. They are always quarelling

Another guy whose wife is average keeps on saying how beautiful his wife is. They hardly quarrel

I am just comparing two couples i know. The number is not statistically significant to me.

Do you think the state of a relationship affects the perception of beauty?
Thanks for your contribution.

Me I be wowolity I wan marry pretty chich ooo

Lemme stick around a bit
Might learn a thing or two

I think the main issue here is the fights n unhappiness in the marriage, i think his wife is becoming less attractive cuz of the nagging meanwhile its the opposite in the other relationship cuz there is happiness n no nagging

Me I be wowolity I wan marry pretty chich ooo

Who no wan marry better pesin

There is no beauty in an arrogant and disrespectful person whether they are male or female. I detest egotistical men especially the ones that have no pot to piss in not to talk of a window to throw it out off

Tope you are right ooo

Out

Outstrip:

There is no beauty in an arrogant and disrespectful person whether they are male or female. I detest egotistical men especially the ones that have no pot to piss in not to talk of a window to throw it out off

Thanks for adding the full dimension. I was just being interested in the part that affects me.

please some comments
where are the married people here?

Beauty they say is in the eyes of the beholder.
There are two sides to beauty the outward and inward
So you must understand the context to appreciate what the person is saying
I will rather have a blend of the two than be carried away by the outward beauty and fight all my life
The lesson is looking beyond what you see

agaba123:


Do you think the state of a relationship affects the perception of beauty?

Yes, I think so. If a person is generally foul, you as their partner would fail to see what others perceive as beauty. I guess thats why some say beauty is skin deep.

Thanks Limeul
I am begining to learn now.
Cylinder ehe eeh OK ooo
You sabi too much oo

Are you planning to get married? This one that you were "there" all through Christmas sef. . . .

agaba went home for Christmas to sample some goods
hmm agaba
I just dey looku you with corner corner eye.

I agree with your friends.
There's nothing as attractive as a loving spouse who knows when to quit a fight.
All you men running after girls just because they are lighter skinned with 38 DD cups
I pity una.
Character, character, character
That is the only lasting attraction of any man or woman.
Physical beauty is nothing compared to good character.

Osisi leave me alone ooo

hmmmm

See eh, me I no follow those wee de die for light skin. Trust me. I asked my dad, when did this craze for light skin start? was it there before the white man? was it one of the everything from europe is superior syndrome? But he told me that people naturally prefered the light skin. Ok count me out. I don't hate them but I am not crazy about them. not a criteria. that said

@ topic
I dig your contributions jare. just wanna know

hmmn

ifyalways:

hmmn

onwere ndi mara mma nime karia elu ahu. agbenyeghi na ha mara mma elu ahu
some peoples beauty are inborn and yet the manifest outwards as physical beauty.
Such are the perfect wish of everyman

hmmn

keep hmming

hmmmmmmmmmmn

kids are not welcome
you should be in school

Whether single or married, if u have a bad character u are going to look like a beast to those who know u. It's only strangers that will suck up to your beauty.

Chai. So na wife you come find that time sef?

No wonder we no see your break light.

Go for character o agaba, go for character.

spikedcylinder:

Chai. So na wife you come find that time sef?

No wonder we no see your break light.

Go for character o agaba, go for character.

On the contrary, I did not go to look for any wifey my dear.

If I was ready to, I have one nairalander wee I go pluck sharp sharp
But not yet baby not yet
life is sweeet

My brother if woman character bad no matter how she fine,

Na the bad character people go too dey see,

Even u wey marry her life go tire u ,

Na Character ppl dey go for now,

Good luck!

Peeps no get me wrong ooo

I knew people go for character but is it true that beauty disappears in the face of nagging or disrespect? anyone experienced such?

Yes o.

The person suddenly becomes a monster.

E.g, if i'm ur friend or attracted to u cos I believe u are decent, respectable and a considerate person and u suddenly turned the opposite, i will certainly start avoiding u cos u will stink to me.

of course! it disappears at that moment and wth tym it totally disappears.

Tgirl4real:

Yes o.

The person suddenly becomes a monster.

E.g, if i'm ur friend or attracted to u cos I believe u are decent, respectable and a considerate person and u suddenly turned the opposite, i will certainly start avoiding u cos u will stink to me.

Sorry for the break in transmission.
I am not decent oo, please keep running as far as your legs can carry you . . .wetin

Sister temi
I hope it will not be indecency if i ask you whether you are married?

Like your contribution

agaba123:

Sorry for the break in transmission.
I am not decent oo, please keep running as far as your legs can carry you . . .wetin

Who is running from what or from who

I guess ur friend was attacted by his wife's physical beauty. What i regard as being beautiful is what is inward because that's natural. As for ur friend,i think he needs to know his wife. But then,people change once tehy get what they want,so i think that might be the problem.
I wont marry a guy because he is good-looking or stickinly rich,i would only say yes to his proposal because of his manners.

hmm Nanalicious\

Good one. That's cool.
But what if the bobo has manners but can't afford 3 square meal ?

The beauty of any body is the personality and not merely the physical beauty as seen by the eyes. The personality of a person is the whole makeup of a person including physical, spirirtual and social composition. The physical beauty attracts the eyes first. The other attributes are hidden and must be discovered with time. Attributes like respectability, cooking ability, tolerance, ability to be social, homemaker, openness of mind, control of the tongue, ability to forgive when wronged, etc. That is why it is recommened that would be couples do courtship before marriage. There is no fixed duration for courtship but 6months to 2years should be okay depending on how often you be together. The purpose of courtship is to know those hidden attributes about yourselves. Though, it might not give 100% discovery but it will reveal some compartibility issues which will help you in making the final decision whether to enter or go out. On the whole, marriage is a journey in which both partners hope to have a safe journey. You may have punctures here and there but it should be a DELIBERATE EFFORT of both parties to ensure a safe trip. Let me use this opportunity to wish my fellow NL, whether married or about to be married, a Safe journey.

wow at jamace
are you married?

Yea man, happily married. DELIBERATE EFFORT by both of us has been our guiding principle. It works like magic .