Why I Sold Out


I just got tired of the black woman drama. And, when black
men who date white women say that they choose to do so because
of "black woman drama" I know exactly what they are talking
about.

Women who could not disagree without getting loud. Women who
gotta talk about what other women do or don`t have, what does or
doesn`t look right on them, who "got their nerve", or "who does she
think she is", or "no, she didn`t".

I got tired of all that "black" mentality. I got tired of disagreements
having to always end up with a loud argument. I got tired of taking
sisters to a nice restaurant and, if the food isn`t prepared right,
watch her get an attitude with the waiter.

I got tired of "you can`t run my fingers through my hair...that will
mess it up". I got tired of planning a romantic weekend, then have
it ruined because she had an attitude because something didn`t go
her way at work on Friday. I got tired of planning social events,
then not having my woman want to go because she didn`t like the
"attitude" of someone who was going to be there. I got tired of
trying to plan for the future financially but dealing with women who
ran to the mall soon as they got paid and didn`t want to leave until
they were nearly broke.

I got tired of sisters who didn`t try to work out or take care of
their bodies but had nothing but nastiness to say about those who
chose to have enough self respect to take care of themselves. I
got tired of taking sisters to elegant affairs and then watch them
have nothing better to do but to comment on what was wrong with
the affair. "That music gots to go", "The salad don`t taste right",
"That woman over there needs a breast reduction". It`s amazing,
but when we went to "black" movie like "Friday" or some Master P
garbage - nothing was ever wrong.

I got tired of sisters who could never find or make time to go to the
gym, but always made their nail and hair appointments religiously. I
got tired of sisters who felt success always had to have a financial
aspect. Tired of dealing with "successful" black women who were
just all into keeping up with the Joneses. Women with bad credit.
Shopping at Sak`s when they have a K-Mart budget. Buying stuff
they can`t afford to show off. Sick of it. I got tired of women who
never have time to read a decent book, but make it a point to buy
every issue of Sister 2 Sister, Essence, Ebony, and never miss a
soap opera.

I got tired of planning adventerous sex and then having it blown off
with "I don`t do that" or "Uh huh". Now, I am not talking bondage,
S&M, or anything like that. But, maybe turning on some blacklights
and painting each other with flourescent body paints or oiling each
others bodies down or making love in my hot tub, or maybe even in
the greenhouse that I built last year behind my home.

I got tired of hot love making sessions come to a shattering end
because her nail broke. I got tired of that funky attitude, that
nasty ass confrontation demeanor, that "me first" mentality, that
low level of thinking. I got tired of black women and the drama that
always comes with dating one. I got tired of women who don`t let
a man be a man and make the critical decisions but instead butt
him on every turn and them call him trifling or weak if he just gives
up. Now, I know the first thing some of you women are saying is "I
bet he dates women that even white men don`t want". Nope,
every white woman I date is fine. Ultra fine. Bodies like Jennifer
Lopez. Faces like Vanessa Williams. I have high standards in
everything from cologne, to clothes which I have fitted), to food (I
don`t eat red meat, fried food, or artificially preserved
fruits/vegetables), to women (I don`t date women who don`t take
care of their bodies, minds, or souls).



I date only white women. I used to date black but I got tired of
wasting gentlemen qualities on women who don`t appreciate and
therefore don`t deserve them. And, I speak for a lot of brothers
because I have talked to lot of brothers.
I date only white women.
I refuse to go back to black women

http://www.say-it-loud.com/entertainment/sellout.htm

I had to cut out some of the write up
The link gives more details
Ladies and gents please what do you think about this man and what he says

Black women and their problems.

Why I Sold Out


I just got tired of the black woman drama. And, when black
men who date white women say that they choose to do so because
of "black woman drama" I know exactly what they are talking
about.

Women who could not disagree without getting loud. Women who
gotta talk about what other women do or don`t have, what does or
doesn`t look right on them, who "got their nerve", or "who does she
think she is", or "no, she didn`t".

We are not unnecessarily loud,we just try so much to fix someone's life before fixing our's. Though I like the way we africans scold ourselves,it's not pokenosing as it seems but it's love. Where I grew up an adult can scold a child and the parents of the child wont see it as an issue even if someone is having a behaviour not expected of the person the whole family join hands to scold the person. It's not getting loud,it's communal love

I got tired of all that "black" mentality. I got tired of disagreements
having to always end up with a loud argument. I got tired of taking
sisters to a nice restaurant and, if the food isn`t prepared right,
watch her get an attitude with the waiter.

So I paid for food in a restaurant and I shouldn't talk, hell no! Once again that type of criticism you gave to the waiter is called constructive criticism and once again we are correcting societal ills borne out of love.

I got tired of "you can`t run my fingers through my hair...that will
mess it up". I got tired of planning a romantic weekend, then have
it ruined because she had an attitude because something didn`t go
her way at work on Friday. I got tired of planning social events,
then not having my woman want to go because she didn`t like the
"attitude" of someone who was going to be there. I got tired of
trying to plan for the future financially but dealing with women who
ran to the mall soon as they got paid and didn`t want to leave until
they were nearly broke.

If you really want to plan for your future please get a woman who equally wants to plan for her future and saves too! There are alot of black women who are really doing well in their career and working so hard to be successful. Not all black women wants to just spend. Find a woman who you are on the same page. Women are emotional and there's no way I will have a bad day at work on friday and issues are waiting at my desk to be solved on monday then I go on a romantic getaway over the weekend.Men like you are quick to label such women as NFAs and s.luts/wh.ores.
What is worth doing at all is worth doing well

I got tired of sisters who didn`t try to work out or take care of
their bodies but had nothing but nastiness to say about those who
chose to have enough self respect to take care of themselves. I
got tired of taking sisters to elegant affairs and then watch them
have nothing better to do but to comment on what was wrong with
the affair. "That music gots to go", "The salad don`t taste right",
"That woman over there needs a breast reduction". It`s amazing,
but when we went to "black" movie like "Friday" or some Master P
garbage - nothing was ever wrong.

Working out is good and measuring your calories is good but there's no way I am gonna look malnourished and anorexic all because I want to loose weight. I have a good shape,been blessed with enough curves and I dont wanna loose my curves I only want to maintain my weight and work out to look good.

I got tired of sisters who could never find or make time to go to the
gym, but always made their nail and hair appointments religiously. I
got tired of sisters who felt success always had to have a financial
aspect. Tired of dealing with "successful" black women who were
just all into keeping up with the Joneses. Women with bad credit.
Shopping at Sak`s when they have a K-Mart budget. Buying stuff
they can`t afford to show off. Sick of it. I got tired of women who
never have time to read a decent book, but make it a point to buy
every issue of Sister 2 Sister, Essence, Ebony, and never miss a
soap opera.

That's a fallacy, alot of black women are intellectuals too and we read books on a wide range of subjects. From politics,to economics and even fiction. So if I decide to always subscribe monthly for mags like genevieve,Today's woman,and even the softsells like citypeople, encomium etc What's the fuss Finding a balance is what matters

[/quote] I got tired of planning adventerous sex and then having it blown off
with "I don`t do that" or "Uh huh". Now, I am not talking bondage,
S&M, or anything like that. But, maybe turning on some blacklights
and painting each other with flourescent body paints or oiling each
others bodies down or making love in my hot tub, or maybe even in
the greenhouse that I built last year behind my home.

Now if we re gonna have an awesome sex experience then we are gonna learn to adjust to each other's preferences. If I cant do some sex styles that thrills you what stops you from teaching how to like it and enjoy it? Thats why pre-intimacy is very nice

I got tired of hot love making sessions come to a shattering end
because her nail broke. I got tired of that funky attitude, that
nasty ass confrontation demeanor, that "me first" mentality, that
low level of thinking. I got tired of black women and the drama that
always comes with dating one. I got tired of women who don`t let
a man be a man and make the critical decisions but instead butt
him on every turn and them call him trifling or weak if he just gives
up. Now, I know the first thing some of you women are saying is "I
bet he dates women that even white men don`t want". Nope,
every white woman I date is fine. Ultra fine. Bodies like Jennifer
Lopez. Faces like Vanessa Williams. I have high standards in
everything from cologne, to clothes which I have fitted), to food (I
don`t eat red meat, fried food, or artificially preserved
fruits/vegetables), to women (I don`t date women who don`t take
care of their bodies, minds, or souls).

Yes I dont have a smooth face but my skin is filled with enough elasticity and I dont look pale or wrinkled, I dont have to do a nose job,lips jobs.bosom implants,butt implants,liposuctions, to look like kim kardashian.

I date only white women. I used to date black but I got tired of
wasting gentlemen qualities on women who don`t appreciate and
therefore don`t deserve them. And, I speak for a lot of brothers
because I have talked to lot of brothers.
I date only white women.
I refuse to go back to black women

Whatever rocks your boat but the black woman is awesome in beauty and as their are good white women there are also the bad. I know alot of black woman who have successfully been able to hold it together in terms of their career,goals,men,home and they have done well being married for years. I think you should look inwards,If you date a black woman and you have all this complaints about all the black women you have dated then there's something you are not doing right!!!

I concur.

I was just watching one of my favorite youtube videos where these black women quarell and fight. Those are extreme behaviors of black women. An average black woman has issues.

I have read black women say white women will do anything in bed and that's why black men like them
Is it true?

Afam4eva:
I was just watching one of my favorite youtube videos where these black women quarell and fight. Those are extreme behaviors of black women. An average black woman has issues.

Chei
You too

pathetic to blame all the black women he dated . he thought all of dem were no good buh hmm maybe he was the problem .

Ok so what should I now do

babyosisi:
I have read black women say white women will do anything in bed and that's why black men like them
Is it true?

What they're simply saying is that white women can act like a dummy. You know black men love women that do whatever they say unlike black women who always has an opinion.

babyosisi:


Chei
You too

I'm just stating what a lot of black guys think and what i've kinda noticed. Though it does not apply to all black women but a of of them.

SAMBARRY:
Ok so what should I now do

I wonder

babyosisi:


I wonder

when a black man can't handle a strong black woman dey begin blaming them , lump dem all into 1 category , dey're all bad , all look loud , don't work out , etc, when u haven't met den all. weak ass niccas

white women r easier to get , y won't dey run to dem. weak ass niccas

aflyingbird:
when a black man can't handle a strong black woman dey begin blaming them , lump dem all into 1 category , dey're all bad , all look loud , don't work out , etc, when u haven't met den all. weak ass niccas

white women r easier to get , y won't dey run to dem. weak ass niccas

I beg to disagree.

Anyways, i prefer my black women sha.

aflyingbird:
when a black man can't handle a strong black woman dey begin blaming them , lump dem all into 1 category , dey're all bad , all look loud , don't work out , etc, when u haven't met den all. weak ass niccas

white women r easier to get , y won't dey run to dem. weak ass niccas

Chei
Sometimes I think these men may be comparing different classes of women while labeling the whole race
I have seen trashy white people
It happens in the media all the time
They want the opinion of a white woman they bring an educated working class woman in middle income suburban Neighborhood and when they want a black woman will bring a black woman who can't speak properly,with gold teeth living off welfare in south central Los Angeles

aflyingbird:
when a black man can't handle a strong black woman dey begin blaming them , lump dem all into 1 category , dey're all bad , all look loud , don't work out , etc, when u haven't met den all. weak ass niccas

white women r easier to get , y won't dey run to dem. weak ass niccas

lobatan

Ayayaya

babyosisi:


Chei
Sometimes I think these men may be comparing different classes of women while labeling the whole race
I have seen trashy white people
It happens in the media all the time
They want the opinion of a white woman they bring a working class woman in middle income suburban Neighborhood and when they want that of a black woman they bring a black woman living off welfare in south central Los Angeles

Yes o
They won't find someone like me
They will go and Find Concolakrisha Jenkins
Mchtwwww

mo' ti gbo'.

Weak(indomie) man talking,only strong men can handle black women,tell them to sit their arses down

So does it mean if a woman wants a submissive man that she will tell to sit here and he sits,she should get a white man?

aflyingbird:
when a black man can't handle a strong black woman dey begin blaming them , lump dem all into 1 category , dey're all bad , all look loud , don't work out , etc, when u haven't met den all. weak ass niccas

white women r easier to get , y won't dey run to dem. weak ass niccas

yet they gave birth to men that invented the very thing you use to type?
Men that colonized ur black asse$?
Men which have the leading economies of the world?
Women who brought and enforced the mantra of feminism?
Men who did not think of polygamy as a result of their adequacy as a wife?
Madam take your time oh.

Hmmmm, I must have been a white woman then.
Need to check my color again
What a stupid post !

Not you babyosisi.

Ill comment later

Afam4eva:
I was just watching one of my favorite youtube videos where these black women quarell and fight. Those are extreme behaviors of black women. An average black woman has issues.

umm black women have issues? let me think about that I am sure white guys feel the same way about white girls. If black men know how to threat black women it would have been different.

The hair part and not going to the gym.... a ha.
I used to have my hair short and working out wasn't a problem
But then I did twist costing lot of money then I realized how hard it is to maintain your hair especially if you perm. Imagine spending over 200 bucks doing your hair only to see it gone cuz of sweat from working out....ummm my twist doesn't last.
Black brothers should take it easy with sisters....ask questions so you understand more about what it takes to be a black girl.

Black women where born be head strong white people they don't never knew what it feels like to suffer us black women are the way we are because we know how pain feels. And we are always trying to protect ourselves, is harder for us to get jobs even if we are the good ones just as they are some unpleasant white women but they can still get what they want. That is why black men sees them are delicate flowers thinking that they are hustling but the fact is we are black. And there will always be a price on our heads even from each other.

I got tired of "you can`t run my fingers through my hair...that will
mess it up".

How the hell do you run your fingers through black hair?

Anyway, I went ahead to read the whole article and it's just the usual list of black woman stereotypes that you see in all the movies

and there's no way a "fine and cultured black brother" would even engage in a conversation with such women let alone take them to "white

people" places.

babyosisi:
I have read black women say white women will do anything in bed and that's why black men like them
Is it true?

From comments I have heard from guys who have dated white girls,I think this is true.
Black women are a lot more inhibited in bed.Black women started dropping the inhibition in just the last two decades.

babyosisi:
So does it mean if a woman wants a submissive man that she will tell to sit here and he sits,she should get a white man?

you dey mind the wimp